Hate Addiction and What Furries Can Do About It
8 years ago
My guest article on DogPatch Press is online: "Hate Addiction and What Furries Can Do About It"
With my background in addictions counseling, I can tell you that being hooked on hate works a lot like being hooked on drugs or alcohol—both in terms of brain chemistry and stages of addiction.
The furry fandom is standing up and ejecting these couple hundred Nazifurs who keep sending death threats and shutting down our conventions.
We're fighting them. We're winning. And we need your help to exile them for good.
http://dogpatch.press/2017/10/25/ha.....urries-can-do/
TL;DR:
- Install Nazifur blocker: https://twitter.com/AltFurryBlocker
- Yes.
- Even if you aren't a target.
- That's the whole point.
- It updates in real time now, so nobody is there accidentally.
With my background in addictions counseling, I can tell you that being hooked on hate works a lot like being hooked on drugs or alcohol—both in terms of brain chemistry and stages of addiction.
The furry fandom is standing up and ejecting these couple hundred Nazifurs who keep sending death threats and shutting down our conventions.
We're fighting them. We're winning. And we need your help to exile them for good.
http://dogpatch.press/2017/10/25/ha.....urries-can-do/
TL;DR:
- Install Nazifur blocker: https://twitter.com/AltFurryBlocker
- Yes.
- Even if you aren't a target.
- That's the whole point.
- It updates in real time now, so nobody is there accidentally.
You should be more careful about the people you stand by. If "various" blockers have all tagged you as part of the movement, the factor in common is you. What are you doing that makes them think you're a Nazi/aitright?
Because springing onto a pro-LGBT site to claim white Christian males are the real victims doesn't help your case. Are you finding you do this lots of places?
I'm really bummed to have this conversation with you. You're a long-time watcher and I really liked seeing your comments. They always made me smile.
This include the sick comment I read before posted by plenty of idiots of throwing people from helicopter: a criminal genocidal practice committed by fascist regimes in south america (openly supported by Usa btw) and targeting not just "commies" but whatever kind of political oppositor in such nations (Chile, Argentina, etc...).
BTW: reading Sixes Wild Echoes on Kindle, some time ago I also finished Windfall and needs to remember sending you a note with a number of comments xd
Also, I'm from North Dakota, which is basically communist central in the US, so I don't take kindly to their anti-commie talk. Those are my ancestors, my neighbors, my friends.
Ah okay, I look forward to reading it. Nice to hear feedback on my work from a furry in another part of the world.
Maybe my brain is broken, but I've never been 100% certain of something in the face of overwhelming evidence to the contrary. If enough people adamantly believed the sky wasn't blue, I would at least look in to what they had to say before dismissing it to see if they had a point and maybe I was wrong. :p
For example: while our brains love the idea that everything is symmetrical, there is no equal and opposite movement to the Nazifurs. No organized group of furries is calling for the extermination of white people or straight people. All we have is a couple hundred Nazifurs shutting down our cons, doxxing people who speak out against them, and making lynching/rape threats to female, LGBT, and non-white furries.
So...yeah...wow. The country and morals can take a flying leap! He's in the right political party!
I agree 100% with your post but I do see a problem: you are very much creating a "them and us" situation where you are defining the in-group based on a set of values, while excluding others who fall outside those values. While virtually everyone will agree that Nazi hate-mongers ought to be excluded (you won't get any arguments from me), I'm sure there are other issues which many furries would disagree about. We should always be wary of the seduction of mere tribalism - the natural human instinct to form groups and exclude others, often based on arbitrary distinctions. I am wary of the cry "They aren’t real furries", although I want to emphasize that I entirely agree with regard to anyone who espouses or tolerates hate, violence or intolerance.
Right, but we can't tolerate intolerance. That's the old Fallacy of the Centrist: that the truth is "always somewhere in between." There's no middle-ground with furries who want to exterminate all non-white and LGBT people. What would a compromise even look like? Only killing some of those folks? Real tolerance is actively reaching out to and including others, not passively letting whoever already has power continue to use it as they please.
Nazis don't belong in furry. As you said yourself, it's the "antithesis of everything I value most about "furrydom" (diversity, tolerance, peace, love, flamboyance, creativity, etc)."
As for it being "us vs. them," I would ask what else would be a moral response to literal neo-Nazis? Not all exclusion is evil. Sometimes, exclusion is the only moral thing to do. Kicking someone out of a group for saying we should kill everyone not in their tribe is not tribalism—it's showing you value the safety of the people in your group. I figure you've seen this, but for reference: The Geek Social Fallacies. http://plausiblydeniable.com/opinion/gsf.html
That being said, there are only a couple hundred of these guys, out of a fandom of 100,000s. That is what I mean when I say this is our fandom, not theirs. We cannot allow them to do as they please, threatening to rape and lynch furry artists for being female or black. Perhaps the most amazing thing about the furry fandom is that everyone is allowed to join in the fun, no matter what they look like. Surrendering the fandom to actual literal Nazis isn't tolerance—it's admitting we care more about not making a fuss than about their victims.
It's all far more complex than it at first appears. With all that said, I can't condone the tolerance of evil people. We put murderers and rapists in prison. So obviously there have to be lines drawn by society as to what is acceptable. Being a Nazi can't be. Heck, if you told WWII veterans on this day, Veterans Day of all days, that Nazis had a right to speak and be heard, let alone protest and march, they'd probably deck you. I'm reminded of a moon landing conspiracy theorist confronting John Glen and getting decked. I probably shouldn't be so amused by that. When did we lose our way? The world is upside down. "Let Nazis speak" has been spoken never - by anyone sane. So yes, pressure them within the furry community, but I get the idea there will be a boiling point. This element always simmers and stews under real or imagined oppression. They're just going to get worse is my fear.
And how we ended up with this type of person in the fandom is beyond me. It really is contrary to the whole origin of everything that "furry" is. How can you be fine with unicorn-dragon-hyena hybrids with purple polka dots and 8 penises but against a culture or skin color within human society? How can you be against LGTB people? How can you read yiff and RP on Telegram to get off, only to turn around and condemn others for their horrible "perversions"?
I am utterly bewildered by it all. And yet there are completely sane and level headed conservative furs I've known for years and get along with. The problem is they're slowly either edging toward the alt-right as the leftists make them feel unwelcome, or they're getting their guard up and finding themselves excluded regardless of their relatively normal, conservative values. I'm talking G.W. era conservative values.
It really is a big mess. Great heavens, what has happened to easy going furry fandom and drama being about trivial matters that're blown out of proportion? How I miss those days. The FA protestors and so on. LOL Come back fluffier times. I want some peace. ;)