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A Public Response to DNA's Farewell Video.
8 years ago
DISCLAIMER: I have just received the video through other means as Dennis/Voco has blocked me from viewing DNA's FA site. I had >zero< idea that he had posted it until just now when I found it.
TL;DR: Lies. Slanderous lies. DNA is gone because he wanted to go, but his future is now corrupted by Dennis/Voco. Please do NOT pursue either of them.
Dennis Lied to DNA about me. TRUMP caliber lies.
The letter contains manipulated facts and half-truths that are >littered< with the corruptive influence of a sociopath. It's completely obvious that DNA did not hear my side of the story when Dennis twisted and stabbed those words into DNA's head.
I did not ditch Dennis in a crowd at Anthrocon. My fault is the fact that I did not understand the depth and breadth of Dennis' anxiety and did not understand he would panic. We were headed downstairs. I went downstairs, and he didn't make it with me. This happens so frequently at conventions that I didn't think anything of it. He didn't show up downstairs so I went looking for him, but couldn't find him. I am sorry that he got separated from me, but using the term 'ditched' implies too much malicious intent for me to ignore. I do not remember telling anyone "He did it for attention". I do not think I would be so callous to 'call out' the anxiety as I have some deep anxiety issues myself that I struggle with to this day. I may have said something as an icebreaker that he misinterpreted as an attack. This Dennis does >frequently< as he has no concept of Empathy that I could discern.
"They argued, and he sucker punched Denny"
How about HE BROKE DOWN A FUCKING DOOR TRYING TO "HUG" ME? Long story, I offered to log onto his WoW account and farm for a certain pattern while he was busy at his current job. He wanted my password to my WoW account as well. I was not OK with this. He got angry enough and whined and cajoled and wheedled and badgered me for days on this until I relented and gave him my password. He then began to >threaten< me with deletion of my character. He >threatened< to burn our apartment down! We tried to talk it out, but I got exceptionally uncomfortable at some point. I wanted to just go to bed, but he wouldn't leave me alone. He said he just wanted a hug but he would not accept my answer and battered down two doors trying to "hug" me back to "sense". I had to beat him off of me with a door and wrestle my way to freedom outside, where I had to hide from him as he continued to yell about deleting my characters. I managed to evade him and escape outside and called the police. I changed all my passwords. Dennis spent the night in jail.
This happened before this particular "sucker-punch" incident and I went to jail for a day due to Washington's laws on Domestic Violence. I think it was about a month later that he got upset that I wouldn't redraw a picture of him and began to pester me about it. He pestered me until I got tired of it and wanted to go to bed. He continued to pester me into my room and would NOT LET ME CLOSE THE DOOR. I told him I needed space and No Means No. He repeatedly tried to grab me and held the door open with one arm, wanting to "hug" me even after I said I needed my space and wanted to go to bed. He tried to BREAK INTO MY ROOM and I PANICKED, I broke my goddamn hand on his face and it never healed properly. I carry that memento every single day with the hand that I draw with. That was no "sucker punch", that was a cornered rat with a cat clawing his way in.
No, I shouldn't have punched him. I don't think he would have really hurt me. Tell that to the adrenaline rush of someone battering down your door though at 2 in the morning.
I loathe spreading rumors. I spread FACTS. We're seeing this sort of belief that facts are 'rumors' in today's politics. I purposely refrained from spreading ALL of this information specifically because I did not want any sort of drama or problem. Now that Dennis' lies have claimed DNA? I painfully have to make them open here on the glimmer of a hope that DNA might come and see this message somehow, someday, and hopefully, once he's figured out just who and what Dennis truly is.
I am sorry that Dennis' actions led him into a spiral of hate and abuse and mistrust. That's what sociopathic manipulators get though. I lived with him for what, five years before I figured this out? He played me like a fiddle for so long, and still owes me >at least< $1500 in back rent and things I had to purchase for him. Things like the mattress that he somehow managed to destroy within a week of getting himself kicked out of our apartment complex.
We didn't throw him out. He threw himself out by being someone no one could stand to live with. Something in his brain is severely wrong, and I can't quite say what it is. Dennis is mentally intellectual but emotionally dead. Sociopathic to the core, and I had a difficult time just coaxing out his love for music, his passion for photography... anything to show him that life was worth living and to keep him away from suicidal thoughts.
Yes, there might be something buried deep in that black heart. I wish DNA the absolute best in getting that out there and turning Dennis into a human being. I failed, and it nearly killed me trying.
I did not "lay a foundation" of badness for Dennis. He did that >ALL< on his own. To see that DNA, one of my >CLOSEST FRIENDS< believes otherwise is a cold, cold icicle in my heart that will likely never melt.
I've lost friends before. Close friends from Fallon, from Las Vegas, from North Carolina, from Utah... if DNA has plans for his future, that's fine. He told me some >wonderful< stories about what he had ideas for and beautiful stories to tell.
Too fucking bad we're never going to see them now that Dennis has effectively eviscerated him cleanly away from his friends and family here. Now Dennis has what he tried and failed to get from me. He tried to seed my friend's words with lies and hate and manipulated truths. I pretended to see them so he would continue to see me as a "dumb friend" that he could openly mock and deride and berate at the first sign of noncompliance. Someone to control and exclude the rest of the world from. Now he has someone important all to himself. Just Like He Wanted.
This will be the FIRST RUMOR I've ever had to state intentionally, but Dennis' sociopathic Trump-ness is now out for all to see. I firmly believe that Dennis has brainwashed DNA with these lies and half-truths that he put into this video. DNA >doesn't understand he's being manipulated< and now there is absolutely no way to reach out and warn him, help him, or stay him from the path he's now chosen.
He's made his choice. He's sided with the Devil. I will not cry vengeance, nor shall I mount a slanderous campaign to save him from the sociopath he's chosen to deal with. This post is all of my venom and I share a bit of blame for not warning him sooner. I should have told him about everything explicitly as I am now telling you.
I ask that you all also try to contain this shitstorm of drama within yourselves and let him go. DNA will have to learn his lesson by fire or by steel now. Please do not try to "rescue" him as I do firmly believe there is a kernel of truth in the video that he did originally want to make a clean break. It just breaks my heart that Dennis has corrupted DNA's future so thoroughly in the process.
DNA. Did you ever receive my emails, or did Dennis delete them before you saw them? Did you receive my letters, or did Dennis throw them away before you got them? You are my friend and I will come to your aid. ONLY IF YOU TELL ME TO. I cannot hold much if any enmity or bitterness in my heart. I never learned how until Dennis taught me. You are a free person and you are in control of your own destiny. Plus you can punch him in the face a >lot< better than I ever could if you ever needed to. You have my blessing to go on and try to help him where I could not. Please be careful. I'll be waiting on the other side of hell.
Goodbye, and thanks for Hank Hill, Niagara Falls, and all of the memories. Everything.
TL;DR: Lies. Slanderous lies. DNA is gone because he wanted to go, but his future is now corrupted by Dennis/Voco. Please do NOT pursue either of them.
Dennis Lied to DNA about me. TRUMP caliber lies.
The letter contains manipulated facts and half-truths that are >littered< with the corruptive influence of a sociopath. It's completely obvious that DNA did not hear my side of the story when Dennis twisted and stabbed those words into DNA's head.
I did not ditch Dennis in a crowd at Anthrocon. My fault is the fact that I did not understand the depth and breadth of Dennis' anxiety and did not understand he would panic. We were headed downstairs. I went downstairs, and he didn't make it with me. This happens so frequently at conventions that I didn't think anything of it. He didn't show up downstairs so I went looking for him, but couldn't find him. I am sorry that he got separated from me, but using the term 'ditched' implies too much malicious intent for me to ignore. I do not remember telling anyone "He did it for attention". I do not think I would be so callous to 'call out' the anxiety as I have some deep anxiety issues myself that I struggle with to this day. I may have said something as an icebreaker that he misinterpreted as an attack. This Dennis does >frequently< as he has no concept of Empathy that I could discern.
"They argued, and he sucker punched Denny"
How about HE BROKE DOWN A FUCKING DOOR TRYING TO "HUG" ME? Long story, I offered to log onto his WoW account and farm for a certain pattern while he was busy at his current job. He wanted my password to my WoW account as well. I was not OK with this. He got angry enough and whined and cajoled and wheedled and badgered me for days on this until I relented and gave him my password. He then began to >threaten< me with deletion of my character. He >threatened< to burn our apartment down! We tried to talk it out, but I got exceptionally uncomfortable at some point. I wanted to just go to bed, but he wouldn't leave me alone. He said he just wanted a hug but he would not accept my answer and battered down two doors trying to "hug" me back to "sense". I had to beat him off of me with a door and wrestle my way to freedom outside, where I had to hide from him as he continued to yell about deleting my characters. I managed to evade him and escape outside and called the police. I changed all my passwords. Dennis spent the night in jail.
This happened before this particular "sucker-punch" incident and I went to jail for a day due to Washington's laws on Domestic Violence. I think it was about a month later that he got upset that I wouldn't redraw a picture of him and began to pester me about it. He pestered me until I got tired of it and wanted to go to bed. He continued to pester me into my room and would NOT LET ME CLOSE THE DOOR. I told him I needed space and No Means No. He repeatedly tried to grab me and held the door open with one arm, wanting to "hug" me even after I said I needed my space and wanted to go to bed. He tried to BREAK INTO MY ROOM and I PANICKED, I broke my goddamn hand on his face and it never healed properly. I carry that memento every single day with the hand that I draw with. That was no "sucker punch", that was a cornered rat with a cat clawing his way in.
No, I shouldn't have punched him. I don't think he would have really hurt me. Tell that to the adrenaline rush of someone battering down your door though at 2 in the morning.
I loathe spreading rumors. I spread FACTS. We're seeing this sort of belief that facts are 'rumors' in today's politics. I purposely refrained from spreading ALL of this information specifically because I did not want any sort of drama or problem. Now that Dennis' lies have claimed DNA? I painfully have to make them open here on the glimmer of a hope that DNA might come and see this message somehow, someday, and hopefully, once he's figured out just who and what Dennis truly is.
I am sorry that Dennis' actions led him into a spiral of hate and abuse and mistrust. That's what sociopathic manipulators get though. I lived with him for what, five years before I figured this out? He played me like a fiddle for so long, and still owes me >at least< $1500 in back rent and things I had to purchase for him. Things like the mattress that he somehow managed to destroy within a week of getting himself kicked out of our apartment complex.
We didn't throw him out. He threw himself out by being someone no one could stand to live with. Something in his brain is severely wrong, and I can't quite say what it is. Dennis is mentally intellectual but emotionally dead. Sociopathic to the core, and I had a difficult time just coaxing out his love for music, his passion for photography... anything to show him that life was worth living and to keep him away from suicidal thoughts.
Yes, there might be something buried deep in that black heart. I wish DNA the absolute best in getting that out there and turning Dennis into a human being. I failed, and it nearly killed me trying.
I did not "lay a foundation" of badness for Dennis. He did that >ALL< on his own. To see that DNA, one of my >CLOSEST FRIENDS< believes otherwise is a cold, cold icicle in my heart that will likely never melt.
I've lost friends before. Close friends from Fallon, from Las Vegas, from North Carolina, from Utah... if DNA has plans for his future, that's fine. He told me some >wonderful< stories about what he had ideas for and beautiful stories to tell.
Too fucking bad we're never going to see them now that Dennis has effectively eviscerated him cleanly away from his friends and family here. Now Dennis has what he tried and failed to get from me. He tried to seed my friend's words with lies and hate and manipulated truths. I pretended to see them so he would continue to see me as a "dumb friend" that he could openly mock and deride and berate at the first sign of noncompliance. Someone to control and exclude the rest of the world from. Now he has someone important all to himself. Just Like He Wanted.
This will be the FIRST RUMOR I've ever had to state intentionally, but Dennis' sociopathic Trump-ness is now out for all to see. I firmly believe that Dennis has brainwashed DNA with these lies and half-truths that he put into this video. DNA >doesn't understand he's being manipulated< and now there is absolutely no way to reach out and warn him, help him, or stay him from the path he's now chosen.
He's made his choice. He's sided with the Devil. I will not cry vengeance, nor shall I mount a slanderous campaign to save him from the sociopath he's chosen to deal with. This post is all of my venom and I share a bit of blame for not warning him sooner. I should have told him about everything explicitly as I am now telling you.
I ask that you all also try to contain this shitstorm of drama within yourselves and let him go. DNA will have to learn his lesson by fire or by steel now. Please do not try to "rescue" him as I do firmly believe there is a kernel of truth in the video that he did originally want to make a clean break. It just breaks my heart that Dennis has corrupted DNA's future so thoroughly in the process.
DNA. Did you ever receive my emails, or did Dennis delete them before you saw them? Did you receive my letters, or did Dennis throw them away before you got them? You are my friend and I will come to your aid. ONLY IF YOU TELL ME TO. I cannot hold much if any enmity or bitterness in my heart. I never learned how until Dennis taught me. You are a free person and you are in control of your own destiny. Plus you can punch him in the face a >lot< better than I ever could if you ever needed to. You have my blessing to go on and try to help him where I could not. Please be careful. I'll be waiting on the other side of hell.
Goodbye, and thanks for Hank Hill, Niagara Falls, and all of the memories. Everything.
I am angry you didn't get a restraining order.
I am angry that you let him do this much to you.
I cut that miserable little pile of excrement out of my life nearly a decade ago.
you should have done the same.
There's a reason beyond simple kink that I look down on humanity as a macro.
It's because things like this are more commonplace than most would dare assume.
I suppose I'm just angry that you didn't learn sooner, because of how much you got hurt for good intentions.
It's a good time to be a closet fur-fag.
Honestly: I am usually against this. But maybe those death threats against Dennis should come true. Because I do not think even jail time would change his way, he will always be a manipulative asshole who does not care about anyone but himself. The whole world could die out for all he cares as long as it benefits him... >.=.>; To use a wonderful person like DNA like this and taking him away from everyone that he loves and cares about. That is just too cruel to forgive.
I have the feeling that if no one frees DNA someday soon, he will be lost forever...
I wish i had more to say.
I wish I'd known more about what you are talking about before then although, since, I've been warned about him by several other people.
I didn't know he was at the core of DNA's departure.
Damnation.
Has anyone forwarded this post to DNA yet?
HOLY SHIT I dealt with this guy a few years ago myself. He always wanted me to write stories for him and would complain if I didn't do them perfectly. Also got real mad if I ever wanted to publish them on FA.
After telling me that I "needed to get over my anger issues" when calmly telling him to stop asking, I just blocked him and moved on.
Guess that explains why this journal reminded me of him.
Also Tyrnn, no, he won't change. He is incapable of doing so, and this is an unfortunate truth.
Really disturbing.
It has since been corrupted by a dangerous and unstable individual, which is the cause of all our talk.
I, for one, think broadcasting this message tactically is one of our best bets in getting our boy back out of harm's way. I have no desire to stymie the pursuit of DNA's goals, but right now despite his insistence he needs the fandom to involve themselves and intercede in some way on his behalf.
So instead, have some support hugs! \(^w^)/
This is my all time favorite story and it would be a shame to never be seen again. If DNA ever reads this, I hope he won't be mad that I'm sharing it.
If you still believe I am removed from reality then I would be happy to discuss and reevaluate my point of view to see the world in a better light. Thank you.
I am not even talking about Voco.
I am simply saying you are comparing his lies to Donald Trump, and Donald Trump is actually a victim of the left lying about him. Donald Trump ain't a lying scum bag like most socially rejected individuals on this site think.
I would rather compare Voco to Hilary.
How you misunderstood my point on what I was saying is beyond me and entirely horrid.
I am hopeful though. Maybe they'll pull through. DNA is stronger than I.
Hope things get better if they have not since this looks to been posted months ago.