IT MEANS NOTHING.

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Sex is just sex. You can put love in it, but you can put love into anything. At it's core, sex is just another activity.

Sex to me is passion, love and bonding. Its meaningless unless you have true deep heartfelt emotions for your partner.

I feel exactly the same way. It's extremely rare when I have sex with my mates, but when I do, it's our way of expressing our love for each other on the deepest level. Personally, I don't understand the people who fuck just to fuck, especially with many, many "partners", but that's just me.

People that just fuck to fuck are just trying to fill in a void to me. One emotionless screw after another.

It's only natural for everyone to want to have sex, but I can say it is a contributing factor to love.

And it is, a fickle matter.

Sex is a fun casual experience, their need be no emotions involved but they often follow, it can also be shared, like most things in an intimate way.

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Sex and love are two different things, sex is fun, and different every time, so can involve different situations (environments, positions, even people...) While love is special between two people, love and sex can be combined but people need to know how and when to separate the two

Hmm you can say I think of it as casual and passionite all in one. Casual since I can do it with out emotions, and to just get better at it. But passion when I do it with someone I care or with a really good friend. Gives off more feeling to it when you do it with such people. So I'm 50/50 with this one

Sex is a lot of things!

Sex in a casual way can be okay, but after trying that a few times you realize how boring it is.

I imagine if you can find a casual nearby friend and you can actually get some intense chemstry going on between you it'd be pretty sweet.

It's an entirely different ballpark with someone you actually feel for though.

Sex is different depending on who i do it with. Can be just for fun or for an expression of love or hell even friendship XD.

Sex is like Air. it only matters when your not getting any.

Oh god. To me i can separate sex and love, i can hold them together. I can have sex for the sake of having it, and I can have it as a means to get close to and show love for one special person.

I don't think I could have sex without feeling some sort of post-coitum attachment to the person in question. So I guess to me, ti's a way to bond. And god does that sound wrong in retrospective.

Sex to me is a physical form of love pretty much, it's impossible for me to separate the two. I could never do it if there was no legit emotional feeling behind it, that's why I don't get con sex and a lot of furries seem shallow to me, I base sex on there being an emotional/romantic reason behind it, at least in my relationship. I have pretty fairytale-ish, Peter Pan Complex views on stuff like that lol. I've been told I should be open in my relationship since my boyfriend and I are LDR but it kinda offends me to be told that because if you're really in love with someone I feel that you should stay true to the one person you're with not just emotionally but physically.

keep your relationship closed i know your guy and he needs you to keep him on a leash hehe

<_< Yes he does lol.

you guys are n awsome couple even though ive never actually MET you edge hehe though i think we should take this to PMS' and not flood alabasters board

best description brah i feel ya

Of course sex can just be the act but I don't see the point of even bothering without some level of intimacy...I want to revel in the other person and the experience.

For me, sex is an expression of my affection for another. I've had casual sexual relationships and very intense love. One things for sure, I absolutely have to feel a mental connection AND care about the person, otherwise I'm just not interested

I've never done it :(

It means love and expression, not only that, it also means trust. It is a pleasure to be shared by your lovers as well as perhaps a close circle of friends whom you trust. I only have about 5 or 6 i know whom id willingly have sex with, and that is because i trust them with nearly anything.

I've never done it, because losing my virginity to a loser, asswipe, or douchebag is the last thing I'd ever do. Lose it trying to be meaningful, towards love. =P May be a far fetched method, but at least I try. If I lose it to someone I truly didn't love in the end, it still would be rather meaningful and I'd end up doing sex with very close friends till I get a relationship again. ;o I am all for Monogamy.

i dunno about the rest of you, but if i don't have feelings for the guy, sex is fucking lame. i need to have that passionate, loving feeling behind it or its nothing but a work out, and half the time i cant even get it up because its just so akward to fuck somebody you're not close to. casual sex does nothing for me, and i often end up regretting it. i dont think sex is something that should be shared so easily. just because somebody wants your dick in them or vice versa doesnt mean you should. i've had both kinds of sex. casual and loving. the loving sex was 1000 times better.

it is a romantic intimate meaningful thing that shouldn't be just casually thrown around and i am immensely offended by the idea of cruising.

Sex... is something I view as best between two lovers, but perfectly natural and fine to engage in with friends. Especially fine with close friends, it can be a bonding mechanism. Also, it is handy to have a friend to help you out with your urges, and in turn help them out. When I have a lover/mate, I do not engage with anyone but that mate.

Sex is a few things to me.

1. It can be a way to relieve stress, with or without an aspect of intimacy. It's a time for exploration and self-relief.

2. It's a way to bond or seal a relationship when you actually find someone that you want to be with.

3. It's something that can be practiced and something you can improve on. I don't think fooling around is an entirely negative thing unless both or either party is cheating on someone to do it.

I could only have sex with one person at a time, meaning that if I ever entered a relationship, I would only have sex with that person. If my partner wanted to have sex with someone I wanted to have sex with, I'd participate in a threesome (or beyond if everyone was willing.) I wouldn't make it a regular thing.

There just need to be different mindsets depending on what kind of sex you're having.

Sex must always be between two people who feel a love and caring for each other.... at least, when I'm involved it does 8D I could never get it on with someone I didn't know

I'm a virgin who has absolutely no interest in sex. But I'm not exactly asexual. Hurr.

Oh WAIT I didn't exactly answer the question, whoops.

Sex can be many things, and I believe (when it comes to other people) that it should be done between two people who love each other. I don't have a high opinion of sluts or casual sex.

That said, I personally don't think it'd be something all that great, and I think a lot of people put way too much importance on sex itself, especially getting it.

sex is a need, a drive, something that sometimes needs to be done simply for its sake. You know what you need then and arent afraid to ask (hell, in some cases demand) for it. I have had satisfying encounters with no attachment that way.

But really, the best way... is when youre struck from the side, out of left field, dazed and in love and awkward about asking what you want because you love/want them SO MUCH OMG that you dont want to scare them away with your desires. And then it happens, and you both find eachother through that awkward grabble and go "holy hell... this is beautiful. You're beautiful. You make me beautiful like this."

I think thats the sex we strive for. That eventual uninhibited connection. To be ourselves with another being so completely.

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Sex is fun, but I can't really get behind it (haw) unless I have something more than a physical attraction to someone

I'm a virgin D:

BUT from this point of view, sex is something used for release and exploration. To me, the ultimate goal would be to feel good. I like feeling good c: As long as I don't hurt anyone in the process.

If I did it with someone I had feelings for, however, on top of the goal to feel good, I think it's an exercise to show how much you love the other person. Like kissing :D

BUT, AGAIN, I am a virgin, and I know nothing of what sex is like. My opinion might change after I've done it for once. :P

I feel sex is the ultimate expression to show your love to another person. It is to say you love someone so much you want to share yourself for another.

Show me your genitals

ho boy thats a loaded question for me, okay time to go to school yo

Sex is the most complicated and controversial human bodily function, it provides stress relief, a way of bonding with others, and a form of procreation. I personally have seen sex in many, ((dear god so many, CANNOT UNSEE >_<!!!)) many different forms and fashions and sex to me is this : Sex is sex. I am extremly open sexually, to the point where im pretty much the town furry whore sometimes many know this some dont. i consider sex (when careful of course) to be an interesting and powerful form of entertainment, although it has highly addicting qualities both physical emotional and psycological that leads me to consider it practically to be a form of drug, sex , is a drug ! a naturally induced one but its that none the less. i personally admit to being a sexaholic, however im okay with that. its a GREAT stress reliever, it its a excellent form of excersize as it raises the heart rate for a good 15-30 minutes, and it helps re-balance and adjust internal bodily chemicals again a stress reliever. On a deeper note sex can be quite a problem in society. it often times cause undue peer pressure and unpleasant situations in all walks of life, id wager nearly 40 percent of all serious problems that have ever happened had their base roots in something sexual. Sexual addictions and lust can lead to dangerous jealousies even rape, and cause horrific tension among lovers and friends and yes even family. Sex is used for manipulation, peer pressure, as a violent tool, and well.. everything! Sex is the single most powerful human act i can think of, a jack of all trades of human meldings. it is the beggining of all things, and can easily be the end, ((though obviously not the end of my run on sentances woo!!)) on a softer note sex can be used for great reasons, to pull people from depression, to bring couples closer together, to create a new life, so many good things come to counter the bad, sex is truly complex no matter which way you look at it.

What is sex? sex, is everything gentlemen ^_^

Sex is just a very hawt and fun activity two friends can do.

love making on the other hand is a sacred thing

Sex for me is like beating a clown with a tire iron, Sure it's fun and sweaty while you're doing it...
but as soon as you stop you realize that you're sad and covered in blood and makeup.

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no wait... that's not right...

uhm.. I like my men like I like my coffee: Covered in boiling water and strained through a machine.

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NO!... that's not it either.



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Sex is something that I can't do unless there is SOME emotion there. Weather I love the person, or I really like them and want to make them happy... or (on occasion) when Lust is the only emotion there then I can do it.
I can separate casual sex with someone I care about from making love to my boyfriend/mate or whatever... tho I would rather not. I prefer to be intimate with someone I care for. I'm a very physically affectionate person and I can see it as a very special way to show you care for someone. I can also see it as something fun that you can share between two consenting adults who like and trust each other.

But I think we all know that I want to have sex with you to get you pregnant so that we are forced to marry just so I can make my name longer.
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The eternal answer: "It depends."

I think sex is a love thing... the casual sexers make me sick.