Please help me leave my country and live with my love
7 years ago
https://www.gofundme.com/nedoiko-escape-plan
Okay, I’m finally doing this after receiving the suggestion of many of my closest friends and my boyfriend, I don’t want to make too long of a post so here’s the thing:
I’m currently living in Venezuela and you should know, the Country is really going bad, For several years now, I’ve been trying to move in with my boyfriend Chatai who lives in the United States, for properly getting to live together we have to meet each other in person so we can apply for a certain kind of visa, And tough we wanted to pay this vacations out of our own hard work, it’s proven too big of a task and we need help financing this meet up.
That would be the TL;DR
We really want to be together and we don’t want to wait anymore, if this doesn’t work, we’ll have to see things like both trying to move to another country who’s not bugged by two gays being together.
Every little bit of help we can get will be very useful, if possible, a reblog on tumblr would do wonders too
https://nedoiko.tumblr.com/post/172.....ko-escape-plan
If you have any question feel free to ask
Okay, I’m finally doing this after receiving the suggestion of many of my closest friends and my boyfriend, I don’t want to make too long of a post so here’s the thing:
I’m currently living in Venezuela and you should know, the Country is really going bad, For several years now, I’ve been trying to move in with my boyfriend Chatai who lives in the United States, for properly getting to live together we have to meet each other in person so we can apply for a certain kind of visa, And tough we wanted to pay this vacations out of our own hard work, it’s proven too big of a task and we need help financing this meet up.
That would be the TL;DR
We really want to be together and we don’t want to wait anymore, if this doesn’t work, we’ll have to see things like both trying to move to another country who’s not bugged by two gays being together.
Every little bit of help we can get will be very useful, if possible, a reblog on tumblr would do wonders too
https://nedoiko.tumblr.com/post/172.....ko-escape-plan
If you have any question feel free to ask
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Otherwise, I really wish y'all luck.
Form that's required for PR https://www.uscis.gov/i-130
Please make sure you're accurate in your information as this is not an easy task to complete.
*Edit: This is IF YOU'RE MARRIED. Even longer wait if you're not and applying for standard PR.
I'd suggest using a lawyer that's based where your fiance is. It'll make the process A LOT easier and generally they take into consideration if you have an active agent in the US on your behalf.
A few things we learned along the way that will make it easier:
1. Remember that the K-1 Visa is only valid for 3 months. In that time, you have to get married or you're obligated to return.
2. Make sure to apply for a Social Security number as soon as possible after arriving in the states. If your K-1 expires (married or not) you'll have to wait for your alien residency identification (which can take months, this will make it very difficult for your SO to handle taxes)
3. Your SO has to provide health insurance and you cannot benefit from social services, if the government finds that they cannot support you, you'll be obligated to return to your country (however I believe you will be able to return when he can prove that he can support you)
4. Have about $2000 saved for document fees for your change of residency paperwork.
I've had places for similar things tell me things like "We cant give them at the moment because we dont have the specific paper/plastic to print them"
Thanks a bunch still! I hope your friend finds a solution too
If you need any help for stops, I live close to the south border of Mexico, peninsula actually, :p which could help just to get away from your country
My boyfriends actually lives on the northern border which that cooould also help, since he's also looking for ways to get to the other side but i don't know if he knows about so far.
Still, best of luck!
In any case, I know that the whole visa business can be quite annoying, I'll give the GoFundMe a look okay?
Unrelated, but I didn't realize you two were a couple. It's a little funny to me that two of the best femboy/girlyboy artists in the fandom are a couple.
I didnt know you were there nedo, I hope you can escape soon yo
I've seen many of my friends struggle through seeing / being with their partners because of strict immigration laws that are only getting harder (especially for us queer folk.) I realize how often we take advantage of the fact that things are easier when you're not from different countries and I want to help any friend in need who's struggling through the process. I'm here for words of encouragements if needed, I have faith in you guys 8~8 <333
the only thing I can tell you is good luck