Hello my name is Rhys.

I have been going on a journey for some time now learning more about who I am as a person. Within the past couple months I have come to some new conclusions about myself that I wish to share with you all.

I used to think I was male and that I wanted to be a boy in all senses of the word. But while i've been figuring myself out I have come to realize that doesn't really fit me either. I don't really want to be fully male. Honestly Male doesn't really fit for me.

Female has never fit for me and has felt quite wrong when I tried to describe myself that way. Growing up I was always more of a Tomboy than a girly girl. and She/her pronouns have never sit well with me either like it always felt like someone was talking about someone else instead of me you know?

So I've come to realize that Im more comfortable and happy being neutral or androgynous. I've seen the word Agender many times before now and i always felt a bit of a connection with it but I never really allowed myself to say yes that's me. because till recently I have held this internal belief that I had to fall on the binary that I had to be either male or female. But now I have come to understand and know that that doesn't have to be the case. I can be Neither. And that is what I am.

I am proud to say I am a Proud Agender person. That my perferred pronoun is They/Them. But while im neither male nor female I am still okay with being called he since most of you have known me for so long under the he pronoun. For me its not me identifying with masculinity or maleness its just I like the sound of he/him if I have to use Binary gendered language.

So I hope this gives you a little bit more insight into who I am and I hope you all continue to be here while I continue my life's journey.

I love you all!