I see. Anyway you ok? Been a while since we heard from you.

Yeah everything is fine, thx

Sorry to hear that bud, hope youve been doing well tho! -hugs-

Thank buddy, hope you're doing well too. -hugs back-

Sorry to hear you had a bad experience with it. I think it's wonderful. But like all things, it does boring if you keep doing the same position over and over for example. Maybe try doing different positions, using toys and such?

I'm sure eventually I'll find someone to actually have fun with but I've kinda been pretended so I don't hurt other people feelings. I tried different positions but none clicked with me

I have the exact same problem. I tried it, and it's not very fun. I guess I'm just happy seeing art and reading about it, and that's the extent of my enjoyment. But IRL, it's kinda disappointing.

Yes it is super boring, I like looking at art and reading it too but lately I haven't found anything good. Any recommendations?

Well, everyone has their own taste in porn, really. All I can recommend is what's in my favorites, but I know it ain't for everyone. I'm not exactly vanilla myself (which is exactly why regular sex is boring for me, I'm a kinky bastard!).

Good sex is something that comes with good chemistry and experience.

If you're not feeling it, then it's not gonna be good for you, no matter what.

The biggest thing though, is that you shouldn't think of it as putting dick in hole, there's way more to sex than that. But that's where the chemistry has to be there. It's all about playing with your senses in the most intimate way.

Each person is different, and if it's just not something that interests you, that's cool too.

And yes, spending way too much time looking at porn, furry or not, drastically warps what sex should be.
Although it's sometimes fun to look up kinks to see if you'd actually wanna try doing it.

I've tried lots of things but in the end I'm a wimp when it comes to pain and I'm kind've a germaphobe. The people I hooked up with were good friends and some strangers but I haven't had any fun doing so lol

Well, it shouldn't be about the pain unless that's what the play is going to be about. And there's nothing wrong with being a germaphobe, that's also why good bottoms douche if they know they're gonna get some.

Hopefully you'll find someone who makes you feel comfortable with being sensual. If you do find someone you wanna do stuff with, take it slow and just relax. Sometimes the best times with someone is just being able to snuggle with them. Like I said, it doesn't have to always be about actual fucking to be a good time. It really is a crapshoot and I know, I've had my fair share of duds...

*Burr hugs*

I always thought sex would be this hyper pleasurable feeling that everybody experienced in the same way, and I was a bit disappointed when I tried it. Both me and my boyfriend don't feel anything from oral, and anal isn't what I thought it'd be either, though I do find anal strangely fun if that makes sense? Like it's not really sexually stimulating for me, but the act of topping or bottoming is just exhilarating and fun to do.
Funnily enough though, we find we're both just really into porn, so we just bring up FA or whatever and just jack it together and we both really enjoy doing that instead of all that other stuff people do.
I don't see anything wrong with it, I think that's just the way I am. And though I may not be able to enjoy sex as much as I'd like to, You bet your ass I enjoy seeing big men going at it in anyway possible!

I really appreciate you saying all this, is really helps me feel like I'm not some freak who can't feel pleasure. I do like watching porn, so maybe I need a jerk buddy lol

I find it's oddly heartwarming knowing the person next to you is into the same weird stuff as yourself~

Sadly an all too normal experience. Personally, I love sex, when it's done right it's a great time. But yes, in the end it's a big tossup and definitely more about the stuff that happens before penetration than the "sex" itself.

If you do want to continue drawing porn, I'd recommend getting in touch with yourself again. Find a good way to masturbate that sparks up the imagination. Maybe turn on the voyeur in you and think less about the experience of the fantasy than the view of it? Helped me once upon a time.

And if you don't want to draw porn, just draw, man. I know it's not what many of your followers, my self included admittedly, came here to see, but I'm sure plenty of us would still love to see whatever you feel like putting out.

Thanks dude, always good to hear from you. You have given me some great advice today, I don't think I will stop drawing porn but I'll definitely make some more clean art from now on. I could just live off the fantasy of sex and try to interpret that into my NSFW art.

That sucks.

I've had a very strong sex drive ever since I was 15, and I've been craving sex badly ever since.
Sadly, I've never been able to get laid, and it has caused me a lot of problems over the years, such as depression, anxiety, low self-esteem, irritability, a junk food addiction, and daily blue balls.

The daily blue balls are unbearable. I cry myself to sleep every night from the pain, and I spend about 5 minutes in the bathroom at work because the pain gets to where I can't do any work, not to fap, but to let the pain cease a bit before returning to work. I'm pretty sure these pains are from my sexual urges torturing me because I'm not getting laid regularly.

I need to get a love/sex partner immediately because I don't know how much longer I can take these pains, as I've been dealing with them for years! I'm in my fucking (no pun intended) 20s, I should've gotten loved and laid already! I'm running out of time, here!

Believe it or not, I've had 3 friends who literally died because they never had sex in their lives and that they felt like they were undesirable. Two of them killed themselves, while the 3rd one's heart gave out.

What do you mean?
I've basically been forced to be celebrate my entire life, and I've also been emotionally abandoned. Psychological damage is to be expected from all of this.

I'm sorry to hear that about you and your friends... When I was around 15, my sex drive was crazy high too and to be honest that's why I started drawing. I don't have any of that art on here but it helped me get by. I think sex is different for everyone, my first time when I was 19 and it just wasn't what I expected. Then throughout the years I kept trying but it didn't get any better but it might be totally different for you. Try out some dating app but be honest with what your looking for so you don't mislead anyone. I'm sure it will be a good experience for you.

Grindr, dude

i can relate to that a lot. Sex is occasionally great, but generally, enjoying porn and masturbating can be just as satisfying

You may just need to experience it with the right person, I'm honestly not big on it rl either. I'm glad its not stopping you from drawing though.

The dangers of fantasies.

Sex is clumsy and invasive and well goofy and taking it at all seriously will end in disappointment and even confusion. It needs to be fun and with someone you can expose yourself to, enjoy the moment and enjoy the moment not because sex is in itself fun but feeling good with the other person is fun.

Idk, sex is kinda overrated. When it's really good it's REALLY good, but it's so much effort for honestly not that much of a payoff most of the time. I'd rather draw porn than have sex. Plus it's like you either gotta be stuck in a relationship or having sex with some rando most of the time, neither of which appeal that much to me.

when you see porn over an over you kind of lose interest try comics or others to pass the time their are some good ones on this site

theirs others that do good art like land an other things this is what it all should be about not just sex sex sex

poor humans it is another reason most relationships fail today they try to make it only about sex

not about love if you truly want to be in a good relationship date first see if you love them or it will only be sex an the relationship falls apart


we know of those trying to well ill leave that for you to learn as for us ta ta for now