Curious question to the fandom
7 years ago
General
Sometimes, someone just has to say it
So furries, as I've seen for over a decade now, heavily tends to be a very sexually expressive community. Often I see relationships that spark up and immediately their characters are doing sexy stuff. I have no idea how far that carries over into actual real life, so I'm left to assume. Now, for me, I have focused more on hobbies and work, so it's been a long while. I'm not to promiscuous really.
Anyway, I recently got into a relationship and I've been out of it so long that I think I have let to much of the fandom rub off on me, meaning, it's been the 2nd date and i want to bone the crap out of her. But I know I need to be patient.
My question, not just to my watchers, but to the fandom as a whole. How quickly does it turn into sex? The relationships, fwb, all that. How important is sex in a relationship to many of you? And does it dictate many of your feelings towards your partner. Would no sex, or very little be possible?
No cheating though, this isn't a question for open relationships or poly. Monogamist relationships are really who I'm asking.
Anyway, I recently got into a relationship and I've been out of it so long that I think I have let to much of the fandom rub off on me, meaning, it's been the 2nd date and i want to bone the crap out of her. But I know I need to be patient.
My question, not just to my watchers, but to the fandom as a whole. How quickly does it turn into sex? The relationships, fwb, all that. How important is sex in a relationship to many of you? And does it dictate many of your feelings towards your partner. Would no sex, or very little be possible?
No cheating though, this isn't a question for open relationships or poly. Monogamist relationships are really who I'm asking.
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relationships are tough, even people irl cant stay together
and i know of one couple who were at it for 5 years and now what was a threesome is now just a couple
so they can last short or long and some just dont work out
Personally, I am VERY romantic and in some instances, sex isn't needed. however, I am also a VERY sexual individual lol. If I love my partner Id be willing to stay with them. but if I need sexual gratification somewhere else, or they need it somewhere else, I expect us to be able to have that freedom to handle what we need. as long as they come home to me at the end of the day
https://www.glamour.com/gallery/the.....elationships#3
There are people who aren't about sex or want nothing to do with it -raises hand- but those are very few and I've seen people get shit because they won't suck someone's e-dick or don't want people to treat them like a slab of meat.
Honestly, to me I could give a shit less about sex. If I ever got with someone sex would be once in a blue moon. Of course a lot of people like to get it on so this wouldn't fly with other people. It's hard enough trying to get a response from people let alone find someone who isn't as sexually hungry. People should honestly wait for sex in a relationship. Too early or too often can make things sizzle out.
Thank you for your thoughts and views on things!
No problem.
In real life while I have had relationships I am very unwilling to have sex with anyone, I mean there has been some foreplay and what not and that has been nice and I quite enjoy it, but I can't bring myself to use another human being like meat for selfish pleasure. I also personally crave Monogamy, I want to be with one person forever. I think sex is a beautiful thing meant to be enjoyed to create a much deeper bond with another person, too many people treat it like masturbation, a one sided act for their own pleasure and a bonus if their partner gets off.
Then again I am not everyone and my views and opinions are mine and mine alone.