It's about my grandmother (Nani, as she is called more often). I seriously think she may be mentally ill, not just senile, but seriously ill. She has always been narrow minded, argues for the drama of it (what I'm most worried about), is extremely clingy, and can never even THINK of putting herself in someone else's shoes (apathy is it?). She's been like this since her childhood (proof from great grandmother) and I'm beginning to think this is a personality disorder. I have tons of stories illustrating this and if anyone has ANY information or knowlage of a place where I can discuss this, than PLEASE post.