Your feelings match my own about this site in general!

I hate artists with a simmering passion who solely draw to sate some sort of twisted allure. I mean, do they even stop for a moment and say "Hold on, will somebody be freaked out/weirded
out if I upload this? I better make something that doesn't make me look like a freak." Browsing is a veritable nightmare when it comes to finding anything sane around here!

Fat characters in particular I tend to tread very carefully, Unless I designed them myself. Because 90% of them usually indulge in something that I cannot forgive. Only if the character and creator themselves is tame, that's when i'll make an exception.

that's one of the reasons I need a separate account just for my fat characters. It's not something that appeals to a wide group of people, and I understand that, so I try to be respectful to other people's wishes. You'll notice on the RPG for them, I generally put a lot of my characters and spoilers and warn people what they're about to view.

I don't mind people for having or drawing Pink's like that, but it can still be gross when exaggerated too much. It's hard to find a lot of the more tasteful stuff when looking through all of that. there's only really a few fat for artist site truly like.

You may like  TimmyJCoyote he tends to draw the more innocent side of fat furs.

I think your plight is similar to this:
https://www.furaffinity.net/journal/2450609/