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6 years ago
⏬Squeaker be squeaken⏬ I hate to say it but im struggling with keeping connection with sheori. I dont want to give her up but due to the events in september its just been a wavering uneasy and other feelings. Believe me it took me 6-7 years to actually connect with a fursona ...im not willing to let her go. i just need something to help keep her with me. Itd be dumb for me to give her up for something so insignificant. Im just....struggling is all. Im trying my best to move forward....
So!
Im taking suggestions with changes in these subjects:
Clothing
Accessories (chokers, earrings, rings, bracelets, cell phone, etc sorta thing because her current collar will now no longer be mandatory. it will be added as an optional thing for her. )
Make up fashion
Possibly default hair style, id like to keep it long just saying.
If you know my well enough i might take suggestions on actual physical changes to her but in minor ways. Like beauty marks or maybe actually adding some other sort of marking..or scar or something. but keep in mind this is the real iffy section of suggestions.
If you have personal questions such as bio(yeah i admit ive been too lazy to type it out in her ref uploads), her personality, etc to where you can make a better judgment on what to suggest , feel free to ask.
So!
Im taking suggestions with changes in these subjects:
Clothing
Accessories (chokers, earrings, rings, bracelets, cell phone, etc sorta thing because her current collar will now no longer be mandatory. it will be added as an optional thing for her. )
Make up fashion
Possibly default hair style, id like to keep it long just saying.
If you know my well enough i might take suggestions on actual physical changes to her but in minor ways. Like beauty marks or maybe actually adding some other sort of marking..or scar or something. but keep in mind this is the real iffy section of suggestions.
If you have personal questions such as bio(yeah i admit ive been too lazy to type it out in her ref uploads), her personality, etc to where you can make a better judgment on what to suggest , feel free to ask.
Yeah sheori is naturally white too..im just not sure what else would look good outside pink for her. Ive tried purple in the past (my actual favorite color) but it didnt look right due to i like......darker shades. So it sticks out with the white fur.
I really dont desire being unsure of whats "me" again.
I do have a rl tattoo but im not sure how "Tiggy" would look on a mouse if you get what i mean. XD
Chances went through the same as time went on, from a hoodie and cargo jeans for years, and now wears workshirts and flight jacket with a slick set of slacks or jeans. It was a refreshing change, without altering the character you wish to keep them as. Go on, help yourself!
I might suggest when it comes to wardrobes, do at least ONE set up that feels just wild, unusual about you, just to get it out there. I recall a story similar where they went, on a whim, bought a pair of 'fuck me' pumps, these pump shoes, candy red, and look like you'd wear them with some barely modest clothing. Didn't wear them much at all, she may have only wore them three times for the look in the mirror, she never took it anywhere, but it was just one wild and zany whim just to make herself feel better in both her situation and her freedom.
In your case, might I suggest a style you may not have tried? Even if not kept, just a fun look at doing something outlandish! Cocktail dresses to business casual outfits?
We are always in somewhat of an emotional and mental maturity flux... Sometimes what we relate to one day can change in the next... Don't feel bad for not feeling connected to her, but possibly embrace something different if you feel led to it. But whatever you do, don't sell her or anything. Telwenty years from now you may find her pictures in a folder and fall in love with her again... You'd regret it if you sold her.
I really dont know what else could be me...so it distresses me some that this disconnect is happening in the first place an mostly due to emotional duress trying to get over someone I really had deep feelings for and he was around a grand majority of my sona's creation/life.
So I can try taking a break again from her and see how it goes while making changes for her in Hope's it helps with a reconnect while I continue to try and heal.