Things I shouldn't have to say~
6 years ago
Yesterday something very interesting happened to me!
I was turned down for a commission from someone (Someone I had just found, mind you) because they "heard some things" from my ex.
If you've "heard some things" from my ex, maybe talk to me? Get to know me? Form your own opinion like an adult?
But if you don't want to talk to me and only want to think I'm an angry shrew of a woman please take this document of my side of things, at the very least. https://docs.google.com/document/d/.....it?usp=sharing
and if hearing it from me isn't enough, here's a random note I got near the end of my relationship with him: https://imgur.com/6Z1nNmW
Do NOT write his name below. I don't want a witch hunt, I want to be free of this. This is the LAST I'm saying about this matter.
I'm sick of him continuing to pop up in my life and spread lies about me.
I have never and WILL never send anyone after this person as they have clearly done to me. If you harass anyone on my behalf, I am not a party to it nor do I condone it.
I have moved on. Others haven't. This is my final word on it.
If you don't know who this is about, move on.
You're better off not knowing.
This was written for the people that have already decided what I'm like through someone that crushed me down for an entire relationship.
Does this person have an FA? I'd love to know so I can block them. I dont want such a person near me like ever
I believe he deleted it because I'm scary, even though I never messaged him or spoke to him at all afterwards lol
I hope this crazy stuff does stop. It's so not right.
You deserve so much better <3
Yea I moved on pretty much immediately... I just would like to stop having people come at me because of one person I've dated.
Sorry you had to go through all of this! I really hope things get better for you, and you don't have to keep dealing with the memories of that piece of shit.
But hey life has been super good! I'm with someone amazing and I'm free to still talk to my friends haha. Just super annoying when people claim I'm terrible because of that hoe
And yeah, I'm glad to hear that! That's great!
And yeah, that sucks. Really seems like people love to form opinions of someone from something they don't know all the facts about. :/
I sure hope he stops this childish shit. Totally uncool, ugh. You'd think some people would, uh...grow up??? I guess not, yeesh.
So sorry you went through something like that Dx I'm glad you got out of that toxic relationship x_x
I feel sorry for what u went through during that unhealthy relationship, and now heβs acting like an total child and spreading βinfoβ about u during that relationship. GOD I hate people like that.
Glad u did the right thing and ended it with and really hope he stops acting a spoiled angry child
I am so sorry that you had to go through this, it just shook me and took my back to my own "polyamorous" ex-relationship.
I am so glad you got away and I'm so sorry that he's still trying to affect your life.
Thank you
So it helped me in a way I guess...get some closure.