What meth does to a whole family....
6 years ago
So, from today on, one of my 3 brothers is a hard core meth user, turned his kids room into a drug room, abused his wife, and disowned our family practically, what a way to spend Sunday.
This has been going on for a while so i am just trying to summarize here...
IN the beginning, we just suspected drugs were involved because my brother was paranoid of everything and the wife was unhealthily skinny. We knew that my brother was emotionally abusing her and not being a proper father to his children, but we knew physical abuse did not occur. My brother called my mom saying he was so scared to enter his own home because he thought someone changed the locks and people were out to kill him. So, my mom and dad had to go to the house and tear up the floor and AC vents to prove to him there wasn't any secret listening devices or cameras in his house. My family and i have tried multiple times to get the wife out of there and to our house, but i feel like that wouldn't help. As soon as we did, they both came over, my brother stayed there for only a few minutes, got angry at us, admitted to them doing meth and left. The wife got upset at him for telling us about their drug addiction, but we knew he was dangerous when it came the the wife. So we locked all the doors in the house til morning when he showed up again to talk. I was asleep, but as soon as he stormed out again, my parents when to go take the wife to her mother's house where her kids were. But, as soon as they left i got a call from my mom telling me "lock all the doors in the house and fast!" that is NEVER something you want to hear over the phone! my parents were worried he would come back to the house. soon as night fell again, we locked all the doors once more, but soon realized he fled to a neighboring town to a golf course. we told the police and they apprehended him the next morning.
so now my brother, after causing drama and stress and fear in our family, he was caught by the police and put in a drug rehab center, we went over to his house to get some of his things before the land lords come and take the house away. I walked up in the house and there was a pot head on his couch playing his xbox, as soon as my dad kicked his ass out, we saw a hooka on the table and a gas mask with a hole in it for the hooka. I am just so disappointed in my brother, doing all this shit while also having 2 young children in the house! we also found K2 as well not just meth and pot, we also saw a air compressor machine to seal bags and in his child's room we saw pot and in the closet saw growing lights. Why....just why. the wife now has a restraining order against my brother even tho they were BOTH doing pot in the house the mother and my brother! i might not be able to see my niece and nephew for a while....i think they are going to get custody of the wife's mom...
my life this whole week has been just terrible for me and my whole family, we cried, got angry, and were disappointed, i have had to comfort all my family from this, but i might break myself here soon...
This has been going on for a while so i am just trying to summarize here...
IN the beginning, we just suspected drugs were involved because my brother was paranoid of everything and the wife was unhealthily skinny. We knew that my brother was emotionally abusing her and not being a proper father to his children, but we knew physical abuse did not occur. My brother called my mom saying he was so scared to enter his own home because he thought someone changed the locks and people were out to kill him. So, my mom and dad had to go to the house and tear up the floor and AC vents to prove to him there wasn't any secret listening devices or cameras in his house. My family and i have tried multiple times to get the wife out of there and to our house, but i feel like that wouldn't help. As soon as we did, they both came over, my brother stayed there for only a few minutes, got angry at us, admitted to them doing meth and left. The wife got upset at him for telling us about their drug addiction, but we knew he was dangerous when it came the the wife. So we locked all the doors in the house til morning when he showed up again to talk. I was asleep, but as soon as he stormed out again, my parents when to go take the wife to her mother's house where her kids were. But, as soon as they left i got a call from my mom telling me "lock all the doors in the house and fast!" that is NEVER something you want to hear over the phone! my parents were worried he would come back to the house. soon as night fell again, we locked all the doors once more, but soon realized he fled to a neighboring town to a golf course. we told the police and they apprehended him the next morning.
so now my brother, after causing drama and stress and fear in our family, he was caught by the police and put in a drug rehab center, we went over to his house to get some of his things before the land lords come and take the house away. I walked up in the house and there was a pot head on his couch playing his xbox, as soon as my dad kicked his ass out, we saw a hooka on the table and a gas mask with a hole in it for the hooka. I am just so disappointed in my brother, doing all this shit while also having 2 young children in the house! we also found K2 as well not just meth and pot, we also saw a air compressor machine to seal bags and in his child's room we saw pot and in the closet saw growing lights. Why....just why. the wife now has a restraining order against my brother even tho they were BOTH doing pot in the house the mother and my brother! i might not be able to see my niece and nephew for a while....i think they are going to get custody of the wife's mom...
my life this whole week has been just terrible for me and my whole family, we cried, got angry, and were disappointed, i have had to comfort all my family from this, but i might break myself here soon...
Remember you have lots of friends here that be glad to lend a ear if needed. :3
Im terribly sorry you and the family had to witness this situation.
Whatever what may happen next, I hope you and the family will be alright