is it worth it to have the incest warning?
6 years ago
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DeviantArt Under images of Ricin and Aika now I post this at the top:
"Notice:
Ricin and Aika are an incestuous couple. They are half siblings to each other, and have had a strong bond ever since Aika was born (as Ricin is a year older).
They are not human, though their own family is against their incestuous relationship. They go through a lot of pain and sorrow because of their choice to be together.
I separate fantasy from reality. Please keep their context in mind when commenting.
Troll comments will be deleted, but I’ll answer any curious questions.
Thank you."
Is it helpful that I give the context? I could just tag the image as "incest", but would that scare off more people rather than having a more "in your face" message at the top?
I just wonder, since whitemantis doesn't put any disclaimer and gives no fucks (which is very inspiring!)
I just can't decide if I want to "give no fucks" and not give context and post whatever, or have the context each time so people at least know? But if my message is actually helpful for people to not feel so weirded out or uncomfortable about it, I'll keep it!
That's my deciding factor! I wanna hear from those who may feel put off by the context, or are actually helped by the context!
Here's some images of Rika, too:
https://www.furaffinity.net/view/30881726/
https://www.furaffinity.net/view/30671693/
https://www.furaffinity.net/view/29978801/
https://www.furaffinity.net/view/29935866/
https://www.furaffinity.net/view/28956869/
https://www.furaffinity.net/view/28727386/
"Notice:
Ricin and Aika are an incestuous couple. They are half siblings to each other, and have had a strong bond ever since Aika was born (as Ricin is a year older).
They are not human, though their own family is against their incestuous relationship. They go through a lot of pain and sorrow because of their choice to be together.
I separate fantasy from reality. Please keep their context in mind when commenting.
Troll comments will be deleted, but I’ll answer any curious questions.
Thank you."
Is it helpful that I give the context? I could just tag the image as "incest", but would that scare off more people rather than having a more "in your face" message at the top?
I just wonder, since whitemantis doesn't put any disclaimer and gives no fucks (which is very inspiring!)
I just can't decide if I want to "give no fucks" and not give context and post whatever, or have the context each time so people at least know? But if my message is actually helpful for people to not feel so weirded out or uncomfortable about it, I'll keep it!
That's my deciding factor! I wanna hear from those who may feel put off by the context, or are actually helped by the context!
Here's some images of Rika, too:
https://www.furaffinity.net/view/30881726/
https://www.furaffinity.net/view/30671693/
https://www.furaffinity.net/view/29978801/
https://www.furaffinity.net/view/29935866/
https://www.furaffinity.net/view/28956869/
https://www.furaffinity.net/view/28727386/
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I guess context really is a choice if you want to give it or not. Honestly go with whatever makes it easier for you in the end.
I just wanna first see if people will say the context helps them! If I get a few people saying so, I'll keep it.
I find if you push that its an incestuous relationship people tend react more negatively to that then if it's a simple tag ^.^ xxx
So I'd wanna see if anyone agrees with what ya said (for themselves for how they'd react)
If someone makes a fuss and flames you for it (despite everything else that's on this site), delete the comment and move on.
Aside from that, no need to put on any warning paragraphs or anything.
If you're worried, extra steps can only further endear you to those who do worry about that content.
I'd like to think those that ARE into that thing would be cool about extra notice as well.- Course
I've also met those who get pissed about tags and are weirdly "happy" about hurting people. Which I don't get.
P.S. FYI: Incest is definitely not my cup of tea so- I'm the audience you're probably most worried about- and just a simple tag is perfect for me. <3
and yeah, I think I may simply re-word the warning part of it possibly. >3> make it more simple
thank you for your words!
Explaining why or how it works out between two characters isn't really going to affect their dislike for it because it still is what it is regardless.
I think a simple tag is sufficient enough because if some people who might be uncomfy with the idea of incest just see an image of two individuals it probably won't be the first thing that comes to mind, ignorance is bliss in that case.
But having the tags there for others who are interested in it is nice because then they'll be able to come across your work when doing a search perhaps.
I also agree with Crytuf that if you're adding actual story on your posts, the context blurb is fine.
Essentially just do what you personally feel the most comfortable with, most of the time if people don't like it they'll just skip over it.
Anyone who does tend to get in a huff about things and leave rude commentary, well, they're going to get that way no matter what you do most likely lmfao.
I'm a person who similarly has an incestuous couple that I draw, and no I don't condone it irl either.
But I'm also pretty tight lipped about my characters in general unless people ask me specific questions so I don't even tag mine.
Frankly I'm a person who feels it's no one's damn business what kind of content I draw for my personal OCs. xD
As long as my ratings are marked properly, I could care less about what other people think.
They said:
"The warning is helpful to me, I'm not a fan of incest I do want to follow these twos story because I find some of the themes so far interesting and I do know up front that it is incestuous. There was an artist with some twin characters that were together and I was very interested in their world and I didn't realize that these characters were twins and was really put off when I did find that out. Your message helped me not feel so weirded out by it personally but that's just me."
So it may not stop their dislike of incest (which is not my goal!) but if it helps them not feel as uncomfortable, and maybe even help them want to see the characters still, I think that's what is most important! It's because of their response that I do want to keep the warning/notice, though I'll edit it a little bit to be more simple and not mention about trolls. It will just be there to give context!
But it does make sense and either way I'm glad you're finding a happy medium! c:
I do say however that maybe if you feel putting background context is needed, maybe just do it for the specific picture (like how Whitemantis does it) and not put the OCs whole life story on each post?
I think a simple tag is sufficient if needed xD
actually, there's another artist I watch/follow that posts a little snippet explaining their story on every picture under their specific characters, just describing what it is to hopefully catch more interest, so I think I may go that route! That way it's not a "warning", but a "hey, here's what to know about these character's story if you're interested!!"