Took me a little while to accept the same thing. I never lost my gut when I was lifting, so I decided to not let it bother me. Now I'm a big belly bull and loving it. You may get to the same point in due time.

I've definitely put on muscle from all the lifting I do at work. So I still have that going for me.

That's always good.

I still struggle with my own. I don't like where I am yet I struggle to loose the belly. I'm adjusting and healthy so I don't worry too much but totally get where you're coming from.

I should probably try to eat healthier at times. Maybe some crunches too.

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I've been heavy-set most of my adult life ever since I was a teenager, and I'm still not used to it and still don't like it.

Gone up and down with my weight most of my life, too: currently at 35 pounds of weight lost since I started a ketogenic diet back in February. It's working very well and I'm particularly pleased because I know I'm losing more fat than muscle this time (as opposed to other times I've tried dieting).

Thanks and it's great to hear from you brother bull.

Out of curiousity: what is it about the heavy-set trait that you find attractive? I know it may not be easy to describe but I'm curious. You can PM if you prefer.

I've hated my overweight physical appearance for so long that I find it hard to even believe that others could possibly find it attractive. I know it's obviously true since I've seen it on here since I joined many years ago, but I don't see it.

One thing is that they are sturdy and I know I cant break them sexually.

Also, the extra padding is more comfortable to cuddle on and to wrap arms around. A cute round tummy is great to rub and kiss on.

Fair enough, that makes sense.

I often prefer my ladies to be curvy but I don't mind toned and athletic either. It's just something I need to learn to accept about my own body shape and be proud of it, or at least less unhappy with it, that will do me a lot of good in the self-esteem area. Thank you for sharing that.

I am reminded of a conversation I had with one of my doctors a couple years back. I was gaining some weight and I was concerned the medicine they had me on was the cause. They assured me that it couldn't be the medicine because it should be making me lose weight. My reply: "It's not working!"

Regular exercising, not snacking too much, and the like are usually the best ways to avoid it or manage it. Those are my two problems at least.

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I'll keep those in mind, buddy. Thanks for your advise.