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Friendship and fighting
16 years ago
I have just about had it. I try to help 2 friends by getting both sides of the story, and when I find out it was just a case of stubborness and mention how it could have all been avoided in the first place, I get accused of taking the other ones side and told to BACK OFF.
When 2 of my friends fight, I don't care who is right and who is wrong, I am usually just trying to mend the broken bridge or fence that I find myself on and settle the argument any way I can, usually with an "agree to dissagree" though anymore that tends to land me in more trouble then I likely would be if I just left it well enough alone.
If I hear about a fight with another friend from one that was involved (usually the other friend) I would/will usually intervein so I can try and find that middle ground and see both sides, and now due to doing such I am hurting deeply and wondering what to do.
Who heals the healers?
Who mends those that try to mend?
Who helps those that help others?
These are questions that are often asked yet few have been able to answer. Who am I? I am a healer that needs healed, I am a mender that needs mended, I am a helper that needs help, and finally I am a wolf pup caught between pack mates that I feel do care for me but might wind up hurting me more, unintentionally, before too long.
When 2 of my friends fight, I don't care who is right and who is wrong, I am usually just trying to mend the broken bridge or fence that I find myself on and settle the argument any way I can, usually with an "agree to dissagree" though anymore that tends to land me in more trouble then I likely would be if I just left it well enough alone.
If I hear about a fight with another friend from one that was involved (usually the other friend) I would/will usually intervein so I can try and find that middle ground and see both sides, and now due to doing such I am hurting deeply and wondering what to do.
Who heals the healers?
Who mends those that try to mend?
Who helps those that help others?
These are questions that are often asked yet few have been able to answer. Who am I? I am a healer that needs healed, I am a mender that needs mended, I am a helper that needs help, and finally I am a wolf pup caught between pack mates that I feel do care for me but might wind up hurting me more, unintentionally, before too long.
