So besides being non-binary, I've figured out aromantic asexual irl, something I *have* managed to come out about to family with some success (lot of grumbling about 'no grandkids' and 'you've never had a GF/BF how do you know?), which is something of a relief?

I also now exclusively go by Rook online now, that and my newly decided upon non-binary name to replace my birthname: Cedar!

They/Them pronouns still as well plz <3