I don't, at least you didn't go to jail for beating the crap out of them. I tell people that mostly because I am kinda proud that I actualyl hit someone.

I always though that honesty and bluntness is a good thing to have. people that I know me know that I do not like to lie to people just to preserve their feelings.

and I'm still a closet furry.

Problem is, if I do see him, I probably will punch him.

And he's got about 200 lbs on me, so that's not gonna end well -__-

And even worse, he's so obtuse he wouldn't understand WHY I punched him. I should write a list of reasons I can recite before hand.

You could avoid contact and the weight difference.

A) Explosives
B) Gunpowder based weaponry
C) Arrows

Take your pick. I prefer all of them wrapped up onto one.

Just write the reasons on a piece of paper, wrap it around a large rock, and throw it at his head.

Oh dear ...:/

well I have done this in the past and it didn't end well, but I take it you do not want to save this, for the lack of a better word, relationship. I have written a list of things that the offensive person has done to me and why I found it offensive. Just remember that they do have feelings, and you can either save their feelings or wipe you ass with them. I take if you may with to do the latter rather than the prior so, what you do is based on what kind of relationship you want after you use their feeling like toilet paper, leave their feelings raw and bleeding and smelling like some rotting thing you cat dragged in from the forest; however, if there is even a slight chance you want to save it try and save their feelings a little. Even the most obtuse people will understand you if you say they have hurt you and you wish nothing but ill for them.

Oh I have one of those, and with good reason too, always late with their part of the bills, lived here rent free for three years (was supposed to be a temporary stay while they were looking for a place to move too and just didn't bother to look) borrowed stuff without asking and even when asking and told no just used it anyways regardless, broke stuff and denied it (including a freaking door lock...) when there was no-one else that could have possibably done it, and then to top it all off fucked off back home to the folks owing me £134 for bills that they ran up that I had to deal with. Got a sneaking suspision that they've changed their fursonia too so I can't track 'em down online. bastard...

If you want total frustration try hating a woman who outs you on the workplace. Not just as a furry but as a gay person. Some months ago I learned that this woman at my school had been gossiping about me since December. Now I never came out to her cos we're not friends, but I'd always been polite and helpful to her. The problem is that I cannot smash her face in like I wish I could and I cannot even give her harsh words because I spoke with some people higher up and they told me that since she's a woman, I would have to chose my words carefully, even if she is the one in the wrong. Basically I would have to speak to my Principal and while I am in very good standing with him cos I did a lot of work for my school (international projects, directing the school play, etc) I don't want to mix my work with personal.

That's nonsense. Give her a harsh speaking to if she deserves it, and stand ground for your gender. You can't let women get what they want because they're equipped with a different set of genitals.

School starts again in a while; I'll see how things go but at some point I will have to confront her if she's still there because this thing has been gnawing at me all the while. I'm just not one to gladly lay down and take this kind of crap.

Good :)

Bivor? Bivor who?

I've learned a LONG time ago that hating someone is stupid.

1. It wastes your time and energy.

2. It effects everything you do the rest of the day.

3. In the end, getting angry is how THEY win. Whoever the asshole is, they set out to annoy or anger you. If you let them anger you one time, they'll be happy, and do it again. The best way to piss them off, win, and keep your sanity at the same time is to ignore them. I've learned this through many years of public school bullying. As long as it's not physical violence that leaves a mark, the administration will do NOTHING! They may give them a slap on the wrist, but that's about it. I'm afraid that we're on our own. Besides, If you beat the living hell out of them, then you get in trouble or go to jail, and the police or whoever will just say that you could've handled it better or told someone. As if. So ignoring the idiot is the best option.

Remember, we live about 80-90 years.

30 are spent asleep.

the first 5 are spent learning how to walk, talk, think, eat, ect.

12 - 13 years are spent at school. Thats about 8 hours a day, 5 days a week, for 9 months, every year until your 18.

If you don't go to college, then it's directly into the workforce, where you work the same number of hours as you did in school, only with varying extra hours.
That lasts for about 40-50 years depending on your job.

The last 5 are spent as a frail older person. Often senility.

If you take out the time spent sleeping and at work/school, thats about 8 hours a day to yourself on average. Think about that! Only 8 hours a day to yourself for about 50-60 years.

Don't waste a single minute on jerks. If they decide to bother you, that's THEIR own time that they waste. Use your time to enjoy yourself.

Or at least wait to hate them after you retire. When you retire, you'll have more time than you know what to do with.

Hmm...what you said is just so insightful. The end about retiring a bit depressing and dark but still makes a lot of sense. Wish I could let go...but I can't still...I'm gonna enjoy my life as best I can.

Good for you! Remember, the best way to let something go and forget about it is to occupy your time as best you can. Start a new hobby, see a movie, draw something huge, travel, hide in the bushes and jump out yelling as people walk by, make up interesting insults for when the occasion calls for it, find an old cartoon and watch every episode of it, bake a pie and give it to a friend saying that there's a special ingredient and when they ask what it is yell SEMEN!

But, whatever floats your boat is good too.