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this bothers me lately!
6 years ago
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kinda hard to explain, but people who just.. dont give a shit unless something happens to THEM?
like if you know somebody who did something BAD, or they did something BAD to your friend, but you refuse to care unless they do something bad to you??
"Oh, he hasnt been mean to me. I can't judge cause he's only ever been nice to me! : ) " like???? what the fuck thats so selfish and weird. some people witness their friends getting abused and dont say or do anything?? and act normal? WTF
I've had so many experiences in this area its appalling. Are people really so tryhard? do they want to look so casual and middle-ground they'll put the comfort and attention of an asshole above you? ERRGGGGG idk im not good at explaining it but it drives me mad
like if you know somebody who did something BAD, or they did something BAD to your friend, but you refuse to care unless they do something bad to you??
"Oh, he hasnt been mean to me. I can't judge cause he's only ever been nice to me! : ) " like???? what the fuck thats so selfish and weird. some people witness their friends getting abused and dont say or do anything?? and act normal? WTF
I've had so many experiences in this area its appalling. Are people really so tryhard? do they want to look so casual and middle-ground they'll put the comfort and attention of an asshole above you? ERRGGGGG idk im not good at explaining it but it drives me mad
i appreciate this feedback though, it's some sweet validation.
if someone is mean to my friends? they're toast, idc if they're sweet to me. they've already proven they suck.
let alone if they're straight up abusive.
thanks for replying with this I feel better seeing people with sense!