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6 years ago
Heyo,
So yesterday was singles day apparently. I find these pop up holiday things kinda weird, but like it at the same time.
I just wanted to say for those out there who are single, you're doing just fine. Often times i see there is a lot of pressure to be in a relationship and some people use that as a status symbol. I've also been in the situation where family or friends ask when i am going to find someone. I also know of people who were in bad relationships and did not leave for fear of being alone.
What's important is to love yourself. Be confident and proud of who you are, quirks and all. If there is something about you that makes you feel insecure and that you don't love, work to change it. People come and go in life, whether that is friends or partners, but you'll always have yourself.
Kinda corny i know, but i support you all.
So yesterday was singles day apparently. I find these pop up holiday things kinda weird, but like it at the same time.
I just wanted to say for those out there who are single, you're doing just fine. Often times i see there is a lot of pressure to be in a relationship and some people use that as a status symbol. I've also been in the situation where family or friends ask when i am going to find someone. I also know of people who were in bad relationships and did not leave for fear of being alone.
What's important is to love yourself. Be confident and proud of who you are, quirks and all. If there is something about you that makes you feel insecure and that you don't love, work to change it. People come and go in life, whether that is friends or partners, but you'll always have yourself.
Kinda corny i know, but i support you all.
KonaTheExalt
~konatheexalt
Been single for 2 years and sorta sticking to it. I simply haven't found anyone, since they are moving forward too fast and has high expectations. Which leaves me not interested. As much as I enjoy the idea of finding a partner again someday, I would rather take it slow than rushing ahead. I have many people that adores me, and some of them has confessed their feelings to me. But I just don't feel connected to those people. So I'm pushing myself away from one another, in fear of re-living the same situation as I was in before. I know eventfully, it will change.
I've been single pretty much since I couldn't find a girl to date. And then I realized that I may be better off living asexual, as I found out that I don't think that sexual relations are a thing for me after all.
Roxy_Rabbit
~frankieteardrop
I have always been single and I have desperately wanted to be in a relationship. It’s easy to forget how lucky I am to not have that responsibility yet. Now I am enjoying being single while it lasts and I couldn’t be more happier.
spiky-hair
~spiky-hair
Thank you! It's been tough for me when it seems like all your friends are with someone (or getting hitched) and it feels like you're the only one who is still single. I keep my personal life pretty private. In my old workplace, I had colleagues who would constantly pry, try and give their two cents, one was determined to set me up on a date, to some degree it was awful. I'd love to be in a relationship, but with the way my career is starting to take off, I'm not sure I'd have time for one and I'm still not sure I'm ready for one.
Astro Pantherion
~cg-panthera
31 years old, and still single and rocking. Its not likely to change any time soon, and I'm fine with that.
Farel
~farel
Very comforting words. Thank you
