"Do You RP?"
6 years ago
General
Kinda? Not really? I never know how to answer that anymore.
Writing nearly every day, I have to say actually breaking it down and digging deep into a structured back and forth roleplay isn't really my thing. I just don't have the time or energy after a long day in the porn fields.
But! I'm still exceptionally, unreasonably thirsty at basically all times. And I absolutely love sharing that energy with others. It's not like I can hold it all myself. Whether it's sharing specific ideas, details, scenarios we've imagined our characters in together, or even some prolonged teasing about the sort of things we want to do to each other ... I *love* that sort of thing. It's hotter to me to speak in hypotheticals and remain in noncommittal lewd conversation than to actually roleplay these days.
Some people seem to hate this! They act like I'm stringing them along or deflecting because I don't want to RP with them but am afraid to say that or whatever. I get messages back like "okay tell me when we can RP bye" as if we're not even allowed to speak otherwise. It's strange!
Anyway. If you have a similar kind of formal-roleplay-averse approach to teasing and discussing all your horniest thoughts, DO feel free to hit me up and share them anytime. I can't always respond back at full force, but catch me at the right time and I love to tease people to oblivion (or be teased there myself if I'm really lucky). But if you're the sort who wants RP all the time or who starts one out of nowhere and expects me to reply in-character only, maybe don't!
(Not to say I don't some days still feel the urge, but I'm pretty sure the cravings I have in those situations are far too specific and needy for anyone to ever fulfill. >.>)
Writing nearly every day, I have to say actually breaking it down and digging deep into a structured back and forth roleplay isn't really my thing. I just don't have the time or energy after a long day in the porn fields.
But! I'm still exceptionally, unreasonably thirsty at basically all times. And I absolutely love sharing that energy with others. It's not like I can hold it all myself. Whether it's sharing specific ideas, details, scenarios we've imagined our characters in together, or even some prolonged teasing about the sort of things we want to do to each other ... I *love* that sort of thing. It's hotter to me to speak in hypotheticals and remain in noncommittal lewd conversation than to actually roleplay these days.
Some people seem to hate this! They act like I'm stringing them along or deflecting because I don't want to RP with them but am afraid to say that or whatever. I get messages back like "okay tell me when we can RP bye" as if we're not even allowed to speak otherwise. It's strange!
Anyway. If you have a similar kind of formal-roleplay-averse approach to teasing and discussing all your horniest thoughts, DO feel free to hit me up and share them anytime. I can't always respond back at full force, but catch me at the right time and I love to tease people to oblivion (or be teased there myself if I'm really lucky). But if you're the sort who wants RP all the time or who starts one out of nowhere and expects me to reply in-character only, maybe don't!
(Not to say I don't some days still feel the urge, but I'm pretty sure the cravings I have in those situations are far too specific and needy for anyone to ever fulfill. >.>)
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Teasing is sooo very nice though~
I do enjoy teasing them though. Just enough to make them thirsty for more.
I feel like I can write what I want if I have a scene in mind, faster and (almost always) better. And to be even more blunt, I feel like some recent RP requests are more akin to "can I get some of your writing, but for free?" Not that I think anyone has ill intentions out of the gate or anything, but sometimes it can feel like that.
Who knows what such a conversation can lead to.
It's very strange. D:
Noticing this sort of "quickly exhausted by constant RP" in myself has left me hesitant to reach out to other writers because I imagine they're getting approached all the time. I appreciate you posting about this. I might reach out on Discord and try really hard not to just gush about how much I love your writing. >.>