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5 years ago
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I’ve always wondered why some dominantes feel the need to boast about themselves. This is more just a random thought that I could never figure out a solid reason for. Sometimes thinking too much gets you nowhere and honesty it doesn’t matter why other doms do it. In the end life goes on answer or not.
The type of dom im talking about is the kind that thinks one night in bed with them no matter if your gay, straight, dom or sub; it will change your world forever. The type of dom that thinks they know exactly who you really are deep down inside and they're so sure of themselves that they don’t take any other opinion or answer into consideration.
I’ve personally had a lot of experience with this type of ‘dom’ and i'm not sure what goes through their mind if anything at all. I’m not hating on them or kink shaming but from my experience saying “no not interested” or anything besides how much you want their dick, well.. They just don't accept it.
Now im pure dom, could bend over and take a dick just like any straight male can but it doesn’t mean I enjoy it or that it turns me on in any way shape or form. It may be hard to relate to some people but for me, when this type of person assumes that dom or not; he is a better dom than you and has to vocalise it, to me it just seems rude. I’ve seen it done in different ways like people saying that all furries of this species are sub deep down inside. Sure it can be taken as a joke but typically the same person thinks so highly of themselves that its hard to take anything they say like that as a joke. To me it comes off as they actually believe it.
Maybe it’s just me complaining about that type of person but in my opinion a dom shouldn't boast about themselves or make others feel inferior to them. To me it comes off as childish or as if they are hiding something. Maybe trying to convince themselves about something. Maybe it's their personality or confidence. Maybe they just find it fun. I’m not sure but a true dom will let others do the boasting for them.
I’ve said it a few times but I despise how some dominantes think that being aggressive 24/7 will make them a good dom. When did being a jerk become socially acceptable as being a dom? A true dom knows when to work their subs and when to build them up. But most importantly a true dom knows how to tell a sub from a dom.
As I’ve said, I’ve had a lot of experience with this type of person. Most of them hitting on me in some way and not understanding what the word no is. So maybe my view on the situation is a bit one sided when I say that I find it annoying in the least. I try to stay friendly and positive with them but I’ve also thought that maybe being the opposite will work better?
What do you guys think? Sub or dom, do you find this type of person attractive or annoying? Have you ever ran into someone like this or just dont pay attention to things like that? I'm curious.
The type of dom im talking about is the kind that thinks one night in bed with them no matter if your gay, straight, dom or sub; it will change your world forever. The type of dom that thinks they know exactly who you really are deep down inside and they're so sure of themselves that they don’t take any other opinion or answer into consideration.
I’ve personally had a lot of experience with this type of ‘dom’ and i'm not sure what goes through their mind if anything at all. I’m not hating on them or kink shaming but from my experience saying “no not interested” or anything besides how much you want their dick, well.. They just don't accept it.
Now im pure dom, could bend over and take a dick just like any straight male can but it doesn’t mean I enjoy it or that it turns me on in any way shape or form. It may be hard to relate to some people but for me, when this type of person assumes that dom or not; he is a better dom than you and has to vocalise it, to me it just seems rude. I’ve seen it done in different ways like people saying that all furries of this species are sub deep down inside. Sure it can be taken as a joke but typically the same person thinks so highly of themselves that its hard to take anything they say like that as a joke. To me it comes off as they actually believe it.
Maybe it’s just me complaining about that type of person but in my opinion a dom shouldn't boast about themselves or make others feel inferior to them. To me it comes off as childish or as if they are hiding something. Maybe trying to convince themselves about something. Maybe it's their personality or confidence. Maybe they just find it fun. I’m not sure but a true dom will let others do the boasting for them.
I’ve said it a few times but I despise how some dominantes think that being aggressive 24/7 will make them a good dom. When did being a jerk become socially acceptable as being a dom? A true dom knows when to work their subs and when to build them up. But most importantly a true dom knows how to tell a sub from a dom.
As I’ve said, I’ve had a lot of experience with this type of person. Most of them hitting on me in some way and not understanding what the word no is. So maybe my view on the situation is a bit one sided when I say that I find it annoying in the least. I try to stay friendly and positive with them but I’ve also thought that maybe being the opposite will work better?
What do you guys think? Sub or dom, do you find this type of person attractive or annoying? Have you ever ran into someone like this or just dont pay attention to things like that? I'm curious.
By the context of your journal, you're obviously meaning sexual doms. However, these points apply to the dominant type of personality in everyday life, sports, and the workplace as well. While those above-listed behaviors might be okay in a roleplay, beyond that most would find it off-putting, to put it mildly. I've probably run into some offline, but don't remember. I have seen plenty on here, especially the "big, bad macro dominant / I'm a god and demand you worship me" type that push that image in every comment they make. If they're that way offline...heaven help them.
In regards to the context of your journal, there's a time and place for that behavior...if their partner is willing or into that. If not, and they don't respect that, I see them being disappointed, alone, and trying to blame it on the other person for "being too weak to handle" them. If they become abusive...then it doesn't matter, they've proven they're not dominant, they're just rotten.