Feeling unappreciated
5 years ago
General
This isn't meant as a gripe or lashing out at someone, but I'm just feeling unappreciated. For a few artists and other friends I've written their characters into my stories with many adorable scenes, but to this day not a single one of them has messaged me and said that they appreciated what I wrote for them. Nobody has thought about commissioning or illustrating any of those scenes. Nor has anyone actually thought that those stories would constitute a fair art-trade.
Writing stories (especially good ones) takes just as much work as illustrating scenes. Especially if there are multiple characters involved who all need to interact in their own little ways that makes for an enjoyable read.
What do I know though? Nobody even comments on what I wrote for them :(
Writing stories (especially good ones) takes just as much work as illustrating scenes. Especially if there are multiple characters involved who all need to interact in their own little ways that makes for an enjoyable read.
What do I know though? Nobody even comments on what I wrote for them :(
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Comments can spur ideas for new stories too, like if your character met Timothy and Friendly, what would happen? ^_^
One thing I just want to say. Creating gift creations (be that art stories music whatever) doesnt necessarily mean the recipient will necessarily do similiar. Gifts generally are supposed to be given without thinking of getting something back in return. (altho getting stuff in return is certainly appreciated) But maybe if you did trades instead then you'd get something back for your effort.
Also Im wondering if you tell people when you write them into a story? It might be that they don't know they've been written into a story so don't realise so that's maybe why people havent said thank you or written to you? I know I accidentally find pictures people have drawn for me and I didnt know existed and It always makes me feel awful that I never saw it when t was first made.
Im sorry you feel under appreciated that can certainly be a thing here, but now you've said it out in the open like this then hopefully people will realise (as I have) that we should be more vocal about our appreciation of the work you do.
I don't expect everyone to do something in return for me, but when nobody reciprocates a gift or even comments on what I wrote for them, it just feels like my time and effort went into a black hole.
As for appreciation, I'm sure some do appreciate it, but just neglected to say thank you, some people are just like that, good people but being a bit absent minded.
*Hugs tightly*