Sorry.

Aw, sorry to hear that. /hugs

I was somewhat the same way with a few deaths in my family. It'll either hit you later or you'll just feel a kind of...emptiness with no real emotion, kind of like being in a daze. Hope you'll be ok.

I'm sorry.......Recently 6 of my family members were murdered,and I felt close to them.......

D:
Nothing I can really say...
like aside from...
better luck new time?

*Feels like n' ass, runs off to bang head on a wall.*

I'm very sorry to hear that... =w=

I felt the same way when one of my uncles who I've been with the most passed away...

I wasn't sure what to feel when the news came, but just thinking about it makes me want to cry... especially when my normally happy cheery aunt cries about him...

I know... But time, I am not grieving for her, although she has my sympathy. I knew she was going to die. But it's the vulnerability of my friends and loved ones. Those that remain.

Well that was frank. Sorry to hear it, though. Keep your chin up, ne? c:

Always.

Oh, I'm so incredibly sorry to hear that. Man, I hope you feel better. We're here for ya!

I will. Give it a day, and I'll forget why I'm sad.

It's a void, Alto. When people die, they leave a void inside you. A lot of people fill up that void with sorrow, looking forward and only seeing the emptiness that has now come into their future. Some people fill it up with happiness, with memories that they will hold dear for the rest of their lives. And sometimes, you just don't know what to do with it. You feel the void, and for awhile, it just is.

Sometimes, that's just the way people are. But you're not alone, Alto. Whatever you do with that void, even if you do nothing with it, know that there are people who will be there for you. If you ever need to talk, I'll be here for you. I'll be praying for you and your family.

The void she left was not the type of void one would think. I am scared for the ones who are alive and mean everything to me. While she did not have a significant role in my life, she definitely reminded me of the saying that I've come to know and embrace, "Memento Mori." "Remember, that you will die." Remember your own mortality. It can be interpreted in several ways, but this time, I'm interpreting it that no one is immortal, we all risk dying. And that's what scares me, death can come from anywhere. However, just because I know this, doesn't mean that I will not risk my life ever again, I throw out my other interpretation of Memento Mori, which would mean that we should do everything while we can. Just stay alive until it's really your time.

I'm sorry for you, my condolence...

Thank you very much.

I am sorry for your loss.

IT's okay. Thank you for your concern.

I'm sorry to hear that hun *hugs* I hope you find a way to deal with it soon, much love xxxx

I can deal with her death just fine, it's the people who are alive and close to me that I am worried about.

Thank you though.

Well so long as you're there for them hun, just don't block it all out *glomps an cuddles*

=/ that sucks... didnt know him that well did you?

In all honesty... no. I didn't know her that well... I'd only heard stories of my cousin being very sickly and always being hospitalized. When I'd gone to see her, she looked happy, I thought that she could get up and do stuff again, like my grandmother eventually would do.

She died of scleroderma, which is the hardening of tissue, and it spready to her kidneys. She couldn't recover. Now she's dead.

But... This is something I was expecting. The thing that truly worries me... Is the fact that my loved ones can die. I'm more scared for my loved ones. I grieve becomes sometimes, my loved ones aren't strong enough on their own, and so many things can take them from me. When my boyfriend tells me he's sick, I get so worried. My hair is already turning gray.

I'm wrought with fear for those I love. The ones who are alive. The ones who mean the most to me.

So.. to you, and to the others who cherish my being as I cherish theirs... Don't die. Don't die so soon without telling me a good reason. Don't leave me. I'm scared of being on my own.

I can very well understand how you feel bud...you becareful as well, just dont die.

were u close to him?

No. Not at all. But, she was nice to visit while she was still alive.

sry, i thought she was a boy, be strong that's the only thing i can think of to say to u, sry

*hugs*

Oh im so sorry! *hugs*