I think it's alright, so long as the change is more for a constructive end. However at the same time, I believe one often does need to hold onto a few of the things that made them who they are; otherwise they risk losing themselves altogether.

Agreed completely.

Change.. sometimes people need to change. I haven't changed one bit since middle school lol But I know for some people, their lives might change if something major happens like a death in the family. When my grampa died earlier this year, I changed a lot. I didn't even joke around anymore. But after a while, I went back to my old self again. I couldn't live without bad sexual innuendos.. blame it on Threes Company lol

If ur changing for the better then it should be alright, but if ur changing over simple little things, so other than that I feel it is alright to change a little at times ^^.

I dont mind the changes as long as long as its a WIP...but if they have been one way for months a year even and change on a whim...do not like. Makes me feel I didnt know the real them in the first place. If you have to continually re-invent yourself, then there are some problems there...depends on how close I am to you if I'll even suggest my help. It's always good to be in on the change, if you can see or feel it coming, it helps to understand and accept it.

If the change is in a good direction, then yes. Like a boyfriend splitting up with you because of your inability to clean... you start making yourself pick up your stuff once in a while. That's a good change.

Completely reinventing yourself simply for the drama of it is not a good thing... I know people that do that. Eventually, they DO revert back to themselves, once they grow up, or something else changes.

But it also depends on what happened in their life. When I changed schools, I changed myself completely, but that was more of a return to what I really was, deep down. I'd had to bury it all that time because of the various unplesant people at my old school. There can be all sorts of circumstances... I'm very bad at giving definate yes or no answers...

There are some good changes, and I'm currently going through one. I really never was myself, considering I was unknowingly keeping a major part of myself hidden from even myself. Ever since I came out to myself I've been changing.

It depends on whether the change is for better or for worse

And you know one person that "changed" and screwed up a lot


Hes WAY better now, though. Back to his old dorky self :P

I'm not talking about him, if thats who you're thinking I'm talking about, hes not a friend anymore, and thus I wouldn't care 'bout him.

Im not really talking all about him

i said that it would depend on whether the change was good or bad. Like, if somebody changed from being a nice sweet guy into a gangster, then i wouldnt be friends with them anymore. But if it was the other way around, i think it would be great

there are tons like that... you cant really do much about them either

People don't change, but situations do.