Have you tried talking to them about it? In the end it's up to you to curate your experience online so if it'll make you more comfortable doing so, go ahead.

yea i did, and one i still respect as a person but the other I removed as a friend from places cause there's just no good vibes i get when i see him

Well it depends. Are they still talking to you or no? Did you have feelings for either of 'em or maybe both at one point and nothing happened? Because if its just two friends dating, fuck it, no need. But if they pushed you away for good because they don't want anything to do with you then yes. Analyze the situation entirely before making such a decision.

i don't talk to them, and my feelings for them have soured quite a bit, so i'm at least blocking the one

Then move on. No sense in holding on to things that are no longer good for you, ever. That's how you build toxicity in your life and just end up all around bitter and angry and depressed over it. That's no bueno, ever.

i understand completely, thank ya for the advice <3 i really do appreciate the feedback!

You're quite welcome love! *hug*

*big hugs* <3

I'm pretty averse to drama so I understand being hesitant to do it. However, over the years what I've come to realize is that if you need to block someone for your own personal well-being there is zero shame in that. I'm not exactly liberal with the block button myself still, but if it's something where I just flat-out do not want to talk to them I'll do it right away. To a certain point it's not out of pettiness, and it's not fair to project that onto yourself. It's not petty to have some consideration for yourself in a two way conversation.

I would maybe suggest giving it some time, depending on how long you've known them and how good friends you are/were. If you think you can just take a break and let time do it's thing, I would do that first. If it is kinda eating at you though, I think blocking and just moving on is also a valid option and I wouldn't feel too bad about it. Again, you gotta consider yourself too.

i didn't know them too long, but i thought we were closer but oh well. i can move past them now

Hmm. That is a tough situation, and I'm really sorry you're going through it. My only advice is to wait a day or so before deciding to block or not, I always find that I make decisions I regret in the heat of the moment. We're supporting you through any decision you make though! <3

thank you for the sweet words! i appreciate the sentiment and i decided to at least block one of them for now

yep i agree

Block. Bc u feel like a third wheel. I would want to forget them entirely bc they left u for dead AND hooked up behind ur back.

yea it felt p shitty imo, and they def dont seem to care about my feelings in the matter anyway

Mhmm

Fuck em forget em block em. Life's too short to think about shit like that. Trust me, you'll thank me later. It's the only reason why I won't retire ever.

hehe i agree! thank ya for the advice :3