General update - Saving to move from toxic home
4 years ago
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Just to update you all that I got into a fight with my dad and his girlfriend last night cause they got a new kitten recently and they didn't like how I was handling introducing theirs to mine slowly and minimizing the chance of fights. Basically literally what every pet behavior expert will tell you but because its coming from me and I accidently mention "I read online" they got pissy with my dad claiming my cat as his despite me paying for everything for her the last few years now xux
Anyway in the argument they really said "Do you wanna live here" and with how much we've been getting into fights and how his gf really don't like my "rebellious attitude" we feel we were low key threatened to be kicked out. Idk if they will or not but home is becoming way more toxic, everyone becoming more conservative and racist, I feel like I can't talk about anything least out loud and we're walking on eggshells. Don't want to look at someone wrong and get called to a "family meeting" because I'm not "smiling enough" or something, or get in trouble for using something we were just told we could use whenever a few days ago. My bf and I are getting sick and tired and just wanna move, but much sooner than we planned. We planned on waiting longer, home was more chill when he initially moved up but now its gotten worse. We've been looking at places for rent for months and have places we wanna try including a decent studio apartment opening in August. Only problem being is that my bf is laid off right and his registration expire so he can't drive, the DMV is by appointment only and the earliest we got is in June and with covid he doesn't wanna take public transit nor do we even know anyone in the area he can ride with for work. so that only gives us a couple months to save for the studio so I'm gonna be trying to push more adopts and art out and try to make a decent amount before August. Tbh I'm not even that confident we can get a place by the end of this year we're younger 20s and make very little and have little to no credit score xux.
I'm so stressed out now
Umm TLDR cause I ranted a bit..
Our home is becoming increasingly toxic the last straw being the wellbeing of my cat being threatened so my bf and I wanna move out asap which is much sooner than originally planned. My bf isnt working right now due to his car needing updated registration and we can't go to the DMV till June. There's a decent place we're interested in opening in August so I wanna get as much saved asap so I can finally have some peace.
Expect lots of sale posts in the future, hopefully I wont get too burned out xux
May look into starting a Patreon but I don't know about that tbh, they seem to be going downhill but monthly pay sounds real nice.
Anyway in the argument they really said "Do you wanna live here" and with how much we've been getting into fights and how his gf really don't like my "rebellious attitude" we feel we were low key threatened to be kicked out. Idk if they will or not but home is becoming way more toxic, everyone becoming more conservative and racist, I feel like I can't talk about anything least out loud and we're walking on eggshells. Don't want to look at someone wrong and get called to a "family meeting" because I'm not "smiling enough" or something, or get in trouble for using something we were just told we could use whenever a few days ago. My bf and I are getting sick and tired and just wanna move, but much sooner than we planned. We planned on waiting longer, home was more chill when he initially moved up but now its gotten worse. We've been looking at places for rent for months and have places we wanna try including a decent studio apartment opening in August. Only problem being is that my bf is laid off right and his registration expire so he can't drive, the DMV is by appointment only and the earliest we got is in June and with covid he doesn't wanna take public transit nor do we even know anyone in the area he can ride with for work. so that only gives us a couple months to save for the studio so I'm gonna be trying to push more adopts and art out and try to make a decent amount before August. Tbh I'm not even that confident we can get a place by the end of this year we're younger 20s and make very little and have little to no credit score xux.
I'm so stressed out now
Umm TLDR cause I ranted a bit..
Our home is becoming increasingly toxic the last straw being the wellbeing of my cat being threatened so my bf and I wanna move out asap which is much sooner than originally planned. My bf isnt working right now due to his car needing updated registration and we can't go to the DMV till June. There's a decent place we're interested in opening in August so I wanna get as much saved asap so I can finally have some peace.
Expect lots of sale posts in the future, hopefully I wont get too burned out xux
May look into starting a Patreon but I don't know about that tbh, they seem to be going downhill but monthly pay sounds real nice.
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I send you lots of courage and love <333
I really hope things get better soon and that you can move out asap ;o; <3
Patreon can be a good idea if you want to try it! Please take care of yourself ;;