Don't force your kinks on me, I mean it. For example, making me a huge chonker. I don't enjoy that personally, might be your thing, but it isn't mine. At most, I'd be slightly pudgy, I'm not a huge lard boi. If you don't know if someone enjoys something, try to ask them on a serious note so that you won't irritate them. It's better to make sure than to assume after all. Thank you for coming to my TED talk