Break ups are so tough. :C
16 years ago
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Wishing everyone a better day and happieness in the future!
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-- Quote of the day --
~“To each there comes in their lifetime a special moment when they are figuratively tapped on the shoulder and offered the chance to do a very special thing, unique to them and fitted to their talents. What a tragedy if that moment finds them unprepared or unqualified for that which could have been their finest hour.”
~ Sir Winston Churchill .~
So my boyfriend of 5 month just called today to tell me he wanted space and that we where moving to fast, so he broke up with me. I'm very shocked and very hurt because we had gotten a kitten together and now it's over. I'm still recovering from my divorce so I'm a really big mess now. can anyone tell me why men are such heart breaking jerks? Cause I'm really sick and tired of crying for them now.
x6A9x
~x6a9x
I'm sorry to hear about this, hun. Really, people are jerks. I've known women to be as evil as men in relationships. I felt the same way after all of my breakups. I've never been married, but I've been engaged. I really hope things work out for you in the long run. You'll have your heart broken every time until you meet the right man. It may seem horrible, but in the end is it not worth it when you finally find that one? I can tell you that it is worth it. I've found my one, and I promise you'll find yours too. I'm betting it will be when you least expect it.
Snowbunny
~snowbunny
OP
Thanks for the helpfull advice it really does help make me feel a little better.
x6A9x
~x6a9x
Just take deep breaths and focus on the present.
notveryathletic
~notveryathletic
*wraps tail around tightly and hopes you'll be ok* I'm here for you if you want to talk ok?
Snowbunny
~snowbunny
OP
Thanks for the support.
Megido
~megido
I'm sure there's a subconscious reason that makes men do these things. Possibly a number of them. Probably no good ones. Fear of commitment... shit like that. I am guilty of it myself.
Snowbunny
~snowbunny
OP
Heh heh thanks for the warning Megi I'll watch for it next time. :3 Or better yet just not get attached to any of them to set myself up like this again.
Megido
~megido
At least don't get attached until they can express solid interest in a long term relationship. I don't know... I'm nobody to give love advice. xD
Snowbunny
~snowbunny
OP
True true. X3
white_wolfess_aya
~whitewolfessaya
Well we love you Snow and BOYS are jerks
Snowbunny
~snowbunny
OP
Yes they are! I'm doing better though and I think the wild night of drinking helped also. :3
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