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[VENT POST] The situation my sister and I are in
Posted a year agoI'm putting this on here because I need to vent and I'd rather do it here than a place like Twitter or Facebook.
My sister and I are not in a good place right now.
We still live at home, our father is doing at home kidney dialysis and he has us has his caretakers. I'm not going to go into too much detail about his health, other than we know he's is slowly deteriorating day by day. My sister is 23 and I'm 26, she put her education on hold and I put my life on hold to take care of our father. I want out, and I know she does to, but she won't outright say it due to our family being the type that berates one member for not doing what the majority of the family wants.
My father has been dialysis for 2 years now, only last May he decided to do his treatment at home. He asked my two sisters and I to help him and we agreed, not thinking much of it, he's our father, why wouldn't we help him in his time of need?
Our older sister backed out, family reasons she said.
Now almost 8 months of home treatment, my lil sis and I are realizing the toll it's taking on us. My sis and I have the ability to leave when either one of us want, but I would never leave my sister to take care of our father alone, and she wouldn't do that to me either. On top of this, we have 3 older siblings, 2 out of the 3 who won't help out because they have families and children to take care of, so 'naturally' its on us to care for our father.
Hes been on the transplant list for 3 years now through 2 different hospitals. But recently, he had asked my sister and I for one of our kidneys. We consulted each other about our decision and came to the conclusion that we won't answer unless he asks our older siblings first, and he hit us with that he's afraid to ask them. We know this was a selfish answer, but we were upset that he had the audacity to ask the only two children of his taking care of him to give up a kidney for him. We want the life our siblings have been given the opportunity to live; to go out, find our purpose, meet new people and maybe start a family of our own. The truth is, the key to our freedom and putting our lives on track is for one of us to give up a kidney and live a half life.
Our older sister and her fiance said they are willing to get themselves tested to see if they're a match for him, but of course, our father said he wouldn't do that to her because she has a son and is worried about how having one kidney would affect her ability to have future kids. It threw us for a loop, explaining we would have her back if she needed a kidney in the future, but he's out right refusing her kidney.
I'm just so tired. I work a fulltime job plus a part time job thats an hour away (im basically working 2 fulltime jobs due to the driving), so my sister does dialysis during the weekdays. The weekends are mine time to help out father with his treatment. We're stuck and we don't know what to do. We're not sure how long we can keep this up
~Ayz/Bill~
My sister and I are not in a good place right now.
We still live at home, our father is doing at home kidney dialysis and he has us has his caretakers. I'm not going to go into too much detail about his health, other than we know he's is slowly deteriorating day by day. My sister is 23 and I'm 26, she put her education on hold and I put my life on hold to take care of our father. I want out, and I know she does to, but she won't outright say it due to our family being the type that berates one member for not doing what the majority of the family wants.
My father has been dialysis for 2 years now, only last May he decided to do his treatment at home. He asked my two sisters and I to help him and we agreed, not thinking much of it, he's our father, why wouldn't we help him in his time of need?
Our older sister backed out, family reasons she said.
Now almost 8 months of home treatment, my lil sis and I are realizing the toll it's taking on us. My sis and I have the ability to leave when either one of us want, but I would never leave my sister to take care of our father alone, and she wouldn't do that to me either. On top of this, we have 3 older siblings, 2 out of the 3 who won't help out because they have families and children to take care of, so 'naturally' its on us to care for our father.
Hes been on the transplant list for 3 years now through 2 different hospitals. But recently, he had asked my sister and I for one of our kidneys. We consulted each other about our decision and came to the conclusion that we won't answer unless he asks our older siblings first, and he hit us with that he's afraid to ask them. We know this was a selfish answer, but we were upset that he had the audacity to ask the only two children of his taking care of him to give up a kidney for him. We want the life our siblings have been given the opportunity to live; to go out, find our purpose, meet new people and maybe start a family of our own. The truth is, the key to our freedom and putting our lives on track is for one of us to give up a kidney and live a half life.
Our older sister and her fiance said they are willing to get themselves tested to see if they're a match for him, but of course, our father said he wouldn't do that to her because she has a son and is worried about how having one kidney would affect her ability to have future kids. It threw us for a loop, explaining we would have her back if she needed a kidney in the future, but he's out right refusing her kidney.
I'm just so tired. I work a fulltime job plus a part time job thats an hour away (im basically working 2 fulltime jobs due to the driving), so my sister does dialysis during the weekdays. The weekends are mine time to help out father with his treatment. We're stuck and we don't know what to do. We're not sure how long we can keep this up
~Ayz/Bill~
I had a problem
Posted 5 years agoLast year in early March, I recieved a lump some of money from an undisclosed source. And what did I do with that money? I wasted it all on commissions here on FA. Anything that caught my attention, I bought it with out a second thought and continued on buying art until December, the month I ran out of money. But I wasn't just doing this in 2019 exclusively, no, ever since mid-2017, it became a habit of mine to buy art in the furry community whenever I could. At the time, I recently acquired a job and was bringing in $360 a week, with most of the money going towards art commissions. It was sort of like an addiction. I just couldn't stop buying art. For about 2 and a half years, purchasing furry art (mainly yiff) became a part of my life, and most of the art I bought was very nice. Found a lot of skilled artists and supported them as much as I can.
In 2019, along with the endless spending on yiff, I also bought a use car, paid for half of it and I'm still currently paying it off for the next 3 years; and I pulled out a loan to buy a Microsoft laptop in an attempt to build up my credit. Needless to say, I almost ruined myself with my reckless spending here on FA, leaving me with only $200 at the end of 2019
As cheesy at it may seem, I made a New Years resolution to stop my spending in furry art and save up as much money as I can so I could pay off my car every month and possibly try to pay off my laptop loan as early as possible, which i was able to do last week. Also, tax season screwed me over and had to pay the government around $7000. On a side note, the effects of Covid-19 pushed back the Tax deadline to July 15th, with was a big plus for me, gave me enough time to save up as much money as I can, and successfully pay the money to the IRS.
So far this year, I bought around 7 pieces of furry art in the beginning but that was all. My plan is to continue saving money so that I can pay off my car as soon as possible, because god damn these monthly payments are killing me, and maybe when I dig myself out of this mess, I'll treat myself to some art sparingly when the time comes.
Spending was always a problem for me as long as I can remember and on the other side of the coin, saving money was never my strong suit. Now I finally see the value and importance of saving up any money I earn and use it for the necessities first and luxuries second. The first half of this year was hard for me but eventually I got over my nasty habit of endless spending furry art.
I may not have uploaded all the art I purchased onto my FA page, but there is alot. In my art folder on my phone, there it 878 images of furry art and yiff I bought in the last couple years.
If you took the time to read this, thank you. I needed to get this off my chest.
~Ayz/Bill~
In 2019, along with the endless spending on yiff, I also bought a use car, paid for half of it and I'm still currently paying it off for the next 3 years; and I pulled out a loan to buy a Microsoft laptop in an attempt to build up my credit. Needless to say, I almost ruined myself with my reckless spending here on FA, leaving me with only $200 at the end of 2019
As cheesy at it may seem, I made a New Years resolution to stop my spending in furry art and save up as much money as I can so I could pay off my car every month and possibly try to pay off my laptop loan as early as possible, which i was able to do last week. Also, tax season screwed me over and had to pay the government around $7000. On a side note, the effects of Covid-19 pushed back the Tax deadline to July 15th, with was a big plus for me, gave me enough time to save up as much money as I can, and successfully pay the money to the IRS.
So far this year, I bought around 7 pieces of furry art in the beginning but that was all. My plan is to continue saving money so that I can pay off my car as soon as possible, because god damn these monthly payments are killing me, and maybe when I dig myself out of this mess, I'll treat myself to some art sparingly when the time comes.
Spending was always a problem for me as long as I can remember and on the other side of the coin, saving money was never my strong suit. Now I finally see the value and importance of saving up any money I earn and use it for the necessities first and luxuries second. The first half of this year was hard for me but eventually I got over my nasty habit of endless spending furry art.
I may not have uploaded all the art I purchased onto my FA page, but there is alot. In my art folder on my phone, there it 878 images of furry art and yiff I bought in the last couple years.
If you took the time to read this, thank you. I needed to get this off my chest.
~Ayz/Bill~
