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General | Posted 6 years agoMy only reason to stay here is due to liking art and wanting to continue to enjoy it.
Beyond that I have left the fandom. Pups Gersky is now dead for good.
Beyond that I have left the fandom. Pups Gersky is now dead for good.
What 2017 shown me.
General | Posted 8 years agoJan. 2017
Excitement builds up! Talks further of getting an apartment with my love Skunky. He was away with family and enjoying some back at home time after a crazy 2016 school year. We were both hyped. We searched high and low for some really great places. (His dad did a lot of the searching for us) and we finally found some great apartments we went and visited months later when they were available.
Feb. 2017
I was struggling to find a better job. One that I would stay at for a long time and enjoy. I ended up loving working at a bbq place. Its was along the lines of fast food but on a different sort of level. I was trained quickly due to my many years of experience in other food industry jobs. It felt like a great fit. Things were looking great!
Mar.-Apr. 2017
Skunky was stressing out badly over school. It was affecting his free time and out time to be together. I told him to not worry too much about the whole us thing and to focus on school so he didn't have so much happening to stress him out. We went and toured the new apartments and we fell in love with them almost immediately. I could tell us planning to move in with one another would be something that would change my life for good. I finally found the happiness I have been missing for so many years.
May 2017
Skunky explains to me that was going to be leaving again and spending the summer back home but had to leave early for a job opportunity he landed from school. I was all for it! I wished him all the luck and told him to focus on that. Well the whole missing him stuck me hard. It increased some depression that was bottled up from not spending much time with him already while he focused on school and finals. Work wasn't helping much either. Lots of stress started to build up. End of May I moved out of my apartment and into a new one. We housed my things and Skunky's things there for just a month time. I lived there and watched over things as Skunky departed back home. I missed him so much.
June 2017
Was hit by a wave of sadness and loneliness watching Skunky's Twitter posts and seeing how much fun he was having. As for me I was working my tail off to make some extra money for yet more moving cost. Was looking forward to have a place with him. It sucked sure but I was determined to see this happen. So I worked and worked.
July 2017
Celebrated the 4th at work and then alone. I didnt' think much of it really. What I didn't know was yet to come.. Rest the month went on slowly. At the end of the month I was prepping to move into the bigger place. Skunky was making his way to Florida to meet some friends and hit up Mexaplex.
Aug. 2017
Moving day at last! Oh boy.. only one of the hired help even showed up. Thank god for him tho or else I don't think I would ever had finished this alone. Took me 12 hours to finish. That wasn't what crushed me tho. Took me a nice break and ran through Twitter. Saw something that killed me inside. A post from a popular murrsuiter was being RT'd like crazy. Skunky was in the video posted. I felt my chest sink in. Here I am moving all of our things into the new apartment and he's down in Florida having sex with others.. That day became 1000 times harder for me to finish off. Long story short, Skunky broke up with me 2 days before his return to the new apartment. Mind you I had been there over a week and a half and he drops this bombshell on me out of nowhere. He tells me he couldn't handle the stress of pursuing and career and having a relationship.. I attempt suicide that very night. I nearly lost my job over this.. Skunky returns..
Sep. 2017
The awkwardness in the apartment is unnerving. Little is said between Skunky and I and he finds comfort in a friend that would visit every weekend. No one came to see me. I asked around but only ended up working more hours. The atmosphere was very dark. Some chatting happened and may had found a way to attend MFF finally! I was feeling good and happy. I quickly put in for the time off months in advance.
Oct. 2017
Still little was said between Skunky and I. He focused on school and I focused on work. I worked my Halloween cause Skunky said he wasn't going to go. So I didn't take that day off. Get off work, caught a ride home from a coworker cause it was slightly raining. Well that cancelled out my plans to suit up and walk around in town. Get on Twitter. There's Skunky posting pics from the KCFur Howl event he told me he wasn't going to go to. Lies.. more fucking lies..
Nov. 2017
Someone finally came to visit me! I was super happy. We spent the best weekend together. Was so much fun! I try out a new fetish and role. I got to be a bit of a dom and really enjoyed the experience. Nothing bothered me that weekend. Weeks past and I kept to myself, Skunky to himself. We were chatting more now but not a lot. Not long after the same friend came back to visit! Excitement blew over me once more! We went to a shop and bought some fun things to try out. BEST WEEKEND OF MY LIFE! Things started to look better in my vision. That shitty summer was beginning to fade away. Week later, said friend no longer wants to fool around. He then moved further away. I... I.. don't know what the fuck I did. Why is everyone just running away from me? No Thanksgiving for me, I ate pizza rolls alone. Skunky was yet again gone off having fun.
Dec. 2017
Horrible end of what was the shittiest year I think I had ever experienced. Depression hit me hard. I stopped caring. I lacked energy. I stopped eating. Woo... I lost weight.. and then I lost my job.. Just end my life already.. everything was already taken from me.. Near the end of the month had someone come and visit me out of the blue! It helped cheer me up and we had a great overnight time. Christmas came.. Nothing.. No calls, no emails, no texts except from a few friends and a really cute and nice card with a couple gift cards for me. I glad I got something. Hurt me more when I couldn't give back.
2017 turned out to be more of a nightmare than what I thought it would. Started out great and got better. Halfway it all fell apart and went down hill from there. Just goes to show you all that when I bitch and complain that my life is cursed, I wasn't joking at all. Its truly fucking cursed. Happiness is something I dread and fear. I no longer make attempts to pursue anything that would bring me joy cause it won't last.
Excitement builds up! Talks further of getting an apartment with my love Skunky. He was away with family and enjoying some back at home time after a crazy 2016 school year. We were both hyped. We searched high and low for some really great places. (His dad did a lot of the searching for us) and we finally found some great apartments we went and visited months later when they were available.
Feb. 2017
I was struggling to find a better job. One that I would stay at for a long time and enjoy. I ended up loving working at a bbq place. Its was along the lines of fast food but on a different sort of level. I was trained quickly due to my many years of experience in other food industry jobs. It felt like a great fit. Things were looking great!
Mar.-Apr. 2017
Skunky was stressing out badly over school. It was affecting his free time and out time to be together. I told him to not worry too much about the whole us thing and to focus on school so he didn't have so much happening to stress him out. We went and toured the new apartments and we fell in love with them almost immediately. I could tell us planning to move in with one another would be something that would change my life for good. I finally found the happiness I have been missing for so many years.
May 2017
Skunky explains to me that was going to be leaving again and spending the summer back home but had to leave early for a job opportunity he landed from school. I was all for it! I wished him all the luck and told him to focus on that. Well the whole missing him stuck me hard. It increased some depression that was bottled up from not spending much time with him already while he focused on school and finals. Work wasn't helping much either. Lots of stress started to build up. End of May I moved out of my apartment and into a new one. We housed my things and Skunky's things there for just a month time. I lived there and watched over things as Skunky departed back home. I missed him so much.
June 2017
Was hit by a wave of sadness and loneliness watching Skunky's Twitter posts and seeing how much fun he was having. As for me I was working my tail off to make some extra money for yet more moving cost. Was looking forward to have a place with him. It sucked sure but I was determined to see this happen. So I worked and worked.
July 2017
Celebrated the 4th at work and then alone. I didnt' think much of it really. What I didn't know was yet to come.. Rest the month went on slowly. At the end of the month I was prepping to move into the bigger place. Skunky was making his way to Florida to meet some friends and hit up Mexaplex.
Aug. 2017
Moving day at last! Oh boy.. only one of the hired help even showed up. Thank god for him tho or else I don't think I would ever had finished this alone. Took me 12 hours to finish. That wasn't what crushed me tho. Took me a nice break and ran through Twitter. Saw something that killed me inside. A post from a popular murrsuiter was being RT'd like crazy. Skunky was in the video posted. I felt my chest sink in. Here I am moving all of our things into the new apartment and he's down in Florida having sex with others.. That day became 1000 times harder for me to finish off. Long story short, Skunky broke up with me 2 days before his return to the new apartment. Mind you I had been there over a week and a half and he drops this bombshell on me out of nowhere. He tells me he couldn't handle the stress of pursuing and career and having a relationship.. I attempt suicide that very night. I nearly lost my job over this.. Skunky returns..
Sep. 2017
The awkwardness in the apartment is unnerving. Little is said between Skunky and I and he finds comfort in a friend that would visit every weekend. No one came to see me. I asked around but only ended up working more hours. The atmosphere was very dark. Some chatting happened and may had found a way to attend MFF finally! I was feeling good and happy. I quickly put in for the time off months in advance.
Oct. 2017
Still little was said between Skunky and I. He focused on school and I focused on work. I worked my Halloween cause Skunky said he wasn't going to go. So I didn't take that day off. Get off work, caught a ride home from a coworker cause it was slightly raining. Well that cancelled out my plans to suit up and walk around in town. Get on Twitter. There's Skunky posting pics from the KCFur Howl event he told me he wasn't going to go to. Lies.. more fucking lies..
Nov. 2017
Someone finally came to visit me! I was super happy. We spent the best weekend together. Was so much fun! I try out a new fetish and role. I got to be a bit of a dom and really enjoyed the experience. Nothing bothered me that weekend. Weeks past and I kept to myself, Skunky to himself. We were chatting more now but not a lot. Not long after the same friend came back to visit! Excitement blew over me once more! We went to a shop and bought some fun things to try out. BEST WEEKEND OF MY LIFE! Things started to look better in my vision. That shitty summer was beginning to fade away. Week later, said friend no longer wants to fool around. He then moved further away. I... I.. don't know what the fuck I did. Why is everyone just running away from me? No Thanksgiving for me, I ate pizza rolls alone. Skunky was yet again gone off having fun.
Dec. 2017
Horrible end of what was the shittiest year I think I had ever experienced. Depression hit me hard. I stopped caring. I lacked energy. I stopped eating. Woo... I lost weight.. and then I lost my job.. Just end my life already.. everything was already taken from me.. Near the end of the month had someone come and visit me out of the blue! It helped cheer me up and we had a great overnight time. Christmas came.. Nothing.. No calls, no emails, no texts except from a few friends and a really cute and nice card with a couple gift cards for me. I glad I got something. Hurt me more when I couldn't give back.
2017 turned out to be more of a nightmare than what I thought it would. Started out great and got better. Halfway it all fell apart and went down hill from there. Just goes to show you all that when I bitch and complain that my life is cursed, I wasn't joking at all. Its truly fucking cursed. Happiness is something I dread and fear. I no longer make attempts to pursue anything that would bring me joy cause it won't last.
Life changes and Life goals
General | Posted 8 years agoI just moved to a new place. Its the first time moving in with a boyfriend. I've tried it before but the conditions were not that great. I'm struggling currently with some personal issues and its been extremely difficult for me mentally. I'm gonna try to be a better individual but at this time I don't feel like I belong anywhere. My life is a work in progress still and it just feels like it never improves.. I'm trying..
Needing help to sell my fursuit.
General | Posted 8 years agoI'm giving up the furry life since it no longer has meaning for me. I'm wishing to sell my fursuit and in need of help doing so. I have no idea what I need to do to make this happen. If you can assist me that would be awesome. Thank you in advance!
Event cancelled
General | Posted 10 years agoHere's why
Hey Todd,
Bad news-- I've just checked in with my GM, and it doesn't look like we're planning on getting Zootopia on our movie schedule when it comes out next month. As you probably know, we have a fairly small venue, and we just don't get all the new releases that we would like to have.
Email I got today from our event coordinator..
I'm sorry I failed you all..
I'm fucking crushed right now.. Please don't look at me and leave me be.. I'm not worth it at the moment..
*shattered tears*
Hey Todd,
Bad news-- I've just checked in with my GM, and it doesn't look like we're planning on getting Zootopia on our movie schedule when it comes out next month. As you probably know, we have a fairly small venue, and we just don't get all the new releases that we would like to have.
Email I got today from our event coordinator..
I'm sorry I failed you all..
I'm fucking crushed right now.. Please don't look at me and leave me be.. I'm not worth it at the moment..
*shattered tears*
Zootopia Event Update!
General | Posted 10 years agoOkay so unfortunately the catering is out the window. Had too many issues with people not wanting to pay for something they are not interested in. SO on that note it will be just a movie outing. I Currently have 12 rsvp for event on Groupspaces and several by other means. We have at least 15-17 going for sure. Now the kicker for this to work is to have 38 attendees. We are just about half way there and running out of time for me to reserve us any chance at our own theater room. PLEASE ask around and spread the word that we are still looking for more to join in on the fun! As of the last Journal here is what is the info as for now:
Location: Alamo Drafthouse, 1400 Main street, Kansas City, MO 64105
Date: March 4, 2016
Time: TBD
Since this event will be on prime time (date of release) it will cost $11.50 per ticket (unless changed by Alamo later) If you want to watch the movie in suit feel free!
Since catering is no longer to happen, we will still meet up early enough to gather and get our movie tickets and all that. Also again, Alamo has a great menu for all sorts of hungry animals, even you vegetarians! There is a bar that serves the theater as well so PLEASE have your I.D. with you if you are wanting to drink.
Also if I get anyone from out of state that attends, I will have crash space available.
Hit me up if you have anymore questions! ThePupsWeLuv[at]gmail.com
Location: Alamo Drafthouse, 1400 Main street, Kansas City, MO 64105
Date: March 4, 2016
Time: TBD
Since this event will be on prime time (date of release) it will cost $11.50 per ticket (unless changed by Alamo later) If you want to watch the movie in suit feel free!
Since catering is no longer to happen, we will still meet up early enough to gather and get our movie tickets and all that. Also again, Alamo has a great menu for all sorts of hungry animals, even you vegetarians! There is a bar that serves the theater as well so PLEASE have your I.D. with you if you are wanting to drink.
Also if I get anyone from out of state that attends, I will have crash space available.
Hit me up if you have anymore questions! ThePupsWeLuv[at]gmail.com
Zootopia Event in the works!
General | Posted 10 years agoHEY ALL! Pups here with some exciting news! I will be hosting an event to celebrate the release of Zootopia!
Just need a final head count on who all will be attending. Information I have thus far:
Catering will be provided by Alamo Drafthouse. You CAN fursuit! Changing will be done upstairs. I did ask if they could adjust air flow in the theater we get.
Location: Alamo Drafthouse, 1400 Main street, Kansas City, MO 64105
Date: March 4, 2016
Time: TBD
Since this event will be on prime time (date of release) it will cost $50 per person to accommodate for movie tickets and catering. The catering will be before the movie! If you want to watch the movie in suit feel free!
Also if I get anyone from out of state that attends, I will have crash space available.
Hit me up if you have anymore questions! ThePupsWeLuv[at]gmail.com
Also let me know what you may want for noms! Alamo has a variety of foods they can provide or we can do pizza or something else!
If you can please let me know by no later than the end of December so I can finalize everything with the Alamo Drafthouse. Thanks for reading and looking forward to seeing you there!
Just need a final head count on who all will be attending. Information I have thus far:
Catering will be provided by Alamo Drafthouse. You CAN fursuit! Changing will be done upstairs. I did ask if they could adjust air flow in the theater we get.
Location: Alamo Drafthouse, 1400 Main street, Kansas City, MO 64105
Date: March 4, 2016
Time: TBD
Since this event will be on prime time (date of release) it will cost $50 per person to accommodate for movie tickets and catering. The catering will be before the movie! If you want to watch the movie in suit feel free!
Also if I get anyone from out of state that attends, I will have crash space available.
Hit me up if you have anymore questions! ThePupsWeLuv[at]gmail.com
Also let me know what you may want for noms! Alamo has a variety of foods they can provide or we can do pizza or something else!
If you can please let me know by no later than the end of December so I can finalize everything with the Alamo Drafthouse. Thanks for reading and looking forward to seeing you there!
Life Update
General | Posted 10 years agoCould be better..
Current status
General | Posted 10 years agoSo for those who haven't heard yet, two weeks ago I made an attempt on my at work. To keep this short, I didn't do this willingly. So now I am in an intensive outpatient therapy group and have to attend 3 times a week for 3 hours per session for up to 15 sessions. So far this has helped me out greatly. I'm not working at the moment due to being on medical leave and will return to work June 7th. Its been a pretty hard road. My boyfriend 
firetyger has been in the hospital for 2 weeks now. He ended up losing his right leg just below the knee to a serious bone infection. He's gonna be in physical therapy for several more weeks. Its been tough on us both not able to spend enough time together. My car barely makes the trip to Kansas as it is. He could use your prayers and luck. A recent thing, well not so recent, it showed up last year when we had a past roommate, popped up and has become a huge problem. I somehow now have bed bugs, thus why I haven't asked anyone to come hang out as of late. I'm doing what I can to eliminate this problem but it is major and has robbed me of many nights of sleep. Don't worry, the pests will be gone in time but don't think I'm contagious or anything but I will understand if you think I might give them to you by some means. So yea.. life currently sucks. Only a few high points and mostly rock bottom ones. I'm gonna need all the luck I can get to turn this life around..
firetyger has been in the hospital for 2 weeks now. He ended up losing his right leg just below the knee to a serious bone infection. He's gonna be in physical therapy for several more weeks. Its been tough on us both not able to spend enough time together. My car barely makes the trip to Kansas as it is. He could use your prayers and luck. A recent thing, well not so recent, it showed up last year when we had a past roommate, popped up and has become a huge problem. I somehow now have bed bugs, thus why I haven't asked anyone to come hang out as of late. I'm doing what I can to eliminate this problem but it is major and has robbed me of many nights of sleep. Don't worry, the pests will be gone in time but don't think I'm contagious or anything but I will understand if you think I might give them to you by some means. So yea.. life currently sucks. Only a few high points and mostly rock bottom ones. I'm gonna need all the luck I can get to turn this life around..Life and Con update
General | Posted 10 years agoSo it appears that I am in need of therapy. I was told that I was to seek out IOP (Intensive Out Patient) treatment, which I am doing today. Also have to find a physician to prescribe me some anti-depressant meds. So yep, I'm in bad shape.
Con update: I don't have plans to go to any more cons this year. Wanted to do MWFF but with the rooms already gone, I highly doubt I will find anyone I'm willing to room with since I won't be going with my mate if I did go. Status on this con may change but don't see it happening.
Other things: I've done away with most local furs. Its been lonely yes but nicer than usual. I've also stopped posting on social media, i.e. Twitter and Facebook. Only plans I have for this year for fun are Rockfest in May and maybe skydiving in July.
That's it for now.
Con update: I don't have plans to go to any more cons this year. Wanted to do MWFF but with the rooms already gone, I highly doubt I will find anyone I'm willing to room with since I won't be going with my mate if I did go. Status on this con may change but don't see it happening.
Other things: I've done away with most local furs. Its been lonely yes but nicer than usual. I've also stopped posting on social media, i.e. Twitter and Facebook. Only plans I have for this year for fun are Rockfest in May and maybe skydiving in July.
That's it for now.
Important Update
General | Posted 10 years agoAlright so I have been getting asked why see a therapist for? Well here is the low down on my current situation. For the past 5-6 months I haven't been myself. I've gotten to the point of suicidal thoughts and violent scenarios racing through my head. With recent known information about my past relationship, it has only gotten incredibly worse. This mentality I've been dealing with has me eating less, extreme depression, anit-socialism and poor performance at work. Tonight I went 3/4 of the work shift not talking to anyone, had many ask me what's wrong, I didn't respond,. What caused this to happen? Turns out my breakup with my ex was planned out and executed like a plot. Said person who planned this was extremely proud of themselves and even bragged about it to friends that I fucking know. Over the weekend I found out that nearly half the people I talk to or hangout with knew of this and no one told me til recently. Really?? Like wtf.. So as it stands, I am forced to seek help cause I don't think I can keep my destruction under wraps for much longer. I'm hoping that by seeking help it will hinder my need to die. Cause as of right now, I don't see any point to continue living. A few other person issues with my current relationship has me worried too. It feels like I just don't have the time to enjoy myself with my boyfriend. I try but I'm either thinking about depressing bullshit or work has me exhausted that I mostly sleep over at his house when we do get to see each other. My insatiable sexual appetite has me on the ropes too. We've not done any sort of "fun" for near a month now and there has been little physical contact, as in kissing or hugs, snuggles, cuddles, etc. I'm not sure what I need to do to not fuck this relationship up like I did the last one.. Not having a car has gotten me pretty pissed off. I hate being stuck at home and just waiting around to go to work. No matter how hard I try to work on getting a new one, some new expense comes up and I have to dip into my funds. I was hoping to have at least $3-4k saved up for a ride. I don't even have $100 for it. It seems like my life is falling apart and I can't do anything to stop it. I don't sleep much now either. Constantly tired, depressed and lonely.. I fear what may come if something good doesn't happen soon..
Late night chat with myself and what's been going on with me
General | Posted 10 years agoWhat's on you mind Pups?
Well, to start off.. a lot. Things haven't been too great for me as of late. There are a lot of factors messing with me emotionally and physically.
Just start from the beginning if ya can okay?
Alright, most of my depression started up soon after I lost my last boyfriend Windwolf. I told him I understood why he needed to leave but deep down I didn't want him to go. He did end up finding someone better than me but what screwed me up was he found said furson while we were still dating.. I know the guy and have high respect for his goofy ass. Lol He's a great guy tho and I'm happy for the both of them. Sadly for me, I've just never given up trying to win him back even tho he's far past being over me. I'm not sure why I can't just let it go and move on.
Damn.. man.. sorry to hear about that. Has anything happened that has maybe helped you out some?
Yes and no. It went months on end being the outcast of anyone's attention and I pretended to okay with seeing them together off and on but it ate me up inside. So so much that I started having suicidal thoughts. Now I would never act on any of these thoughts but they were all so surreal that it kinda felt like I did give up my life each time. I let myself fall deeper and deeper into this pit of despair it physically made me sick. After several months I started to feel better and ended up moving on somewhat. What had me down for most of the time was my last job. I knew it was a dead end and I didn't care.
What made you decide to leave your job?
I knew the direction it was going and what all it would entail. I didn't want to see myself end up in a place more miserable than I already was at. The job promotion was a complete joke and it would screw me over in the long run of things. So I sought after for a new job. Windwolf helped me land one where he works.
Oh cool! What do you think of the job? Is it something you were hoping for?
I really like the job. It has opened up a new chapter in my work life. I've never worked in the medical field before and I love it. Even though the job is just a repeat one every single night, I don't want to lose it.
Right on man. Happy for ya there. So what's been eating at you as of late tho?
Well, soon after I was offered the job, I put in my 2 weeks at the other one. Sure they were sad to see me go, but I had to. Leaving that job dropped off so much stress from my life. It was a needed change. Once I got the hang of the new job I ended up getting sick quite often. My immune system wouldn't fight off these flu bugs and I lost a lot of time in a short amount of months. The new job has a point system for attendance. Its a bit complicated so I will give a brief explanation. You are given 8 points a year. Each time you miss a day its a point. However if you miss several days but have a doc note it all counts as one occurrence instead of several. If you hit 8 points you are fired. I myself have 3 points left due to how often I got sick last year. A point will drop off once a year passes on the day you got it. So say, I got one back in Sept. on the 14th, then the following year on the same date, the point will go away. It has me so worried that I may lose this job due to getting sick again or something else happening. I don't want to lose this job. I can't lose this job. Its taking me in a more positive direction and I need it.
Wow.. that sucks you got sick so many times man. I'm glad you are feeling better tho!
Than ks. X3
Oh yea, word is that you got a new boyfriend?
Yea I did. I've known him for years now and he's such a sweetheart. So caring and generous. I do love him a lot. His fur name is Fire Tyger. He's sorta local and its been a good 4 months now since we started dating. It took a while for me to finally grow a pair and ask him out. He's hinted to me many times beforehand that he liked me but I explained to him my fear of losing him like I lost Windwolf. I didn't want to go through with that again. Especially with him. He understood and backed off a bit. Month or so past and then I finally told him how I felt and we hit it off pretty quick. Already had lots in common. Even was able to hit up a couple fur cons together in the short months we've dated.
That's what up! Good boy! He has made you happy right? I mean being with him has helped no?
Yea it has helped A LOT. He really can take away my stress and anguish. A couple times I pushed his buttons and we argued. Appears that I enjoy fighting. Every relationship I've had has had an argument or two if not more. But he got over it and so did I and we moved on.
That's good to hear. But you still haven't told me what's been wrong lately?
You're right I haven't. But.. here goes. Recently one of our cars has dropped. Meaning we only have a car to share between my roommate and I. Since it is his car, he has say over it. I've not been able go and see my boyfriend much in the past month, only briefly here and there and its been killing me.. On top of the fear of losing my job plus still showing feelings about Windwolf but his lack of acknowledging me outside of work. We talk somewhat on World of Warcraft, but that's about it. He never wants to hangout, but I need to think of it this way. Who the hell would want to hangout with an ex right?
Yea.. I can see where being an ex would come into play here. But you're still friends right? Even tho its little communication, he still says hi now and then?
Like I said, mostly at work. He is my boss and I need to treat him like one. We use to be close but the past months it seems like he's avoiding me completely.
Just give it some time. I'm sure he's got things going on that he hasn't told you.
He did just get promoted at work and it has taken away a lot of his free time. So yea, we'll see what's up in the future.
So anything else going on you want to share?
Maybe a few last things. I've been reaching out to some therapists for help with my depression and bipolorism. I'm still waiting to hear back from them tho to see if I can set up an appointment or something. Still in the works. But other than that, that's all that has had me down as of late.
Well thanks for sharing Pups. I'm sure things will work out for the best.
Yea me too. I'm hoping..
Well, to start off.. a lot. Things haven't been too great for me as of late. There are a lot of factors messing with me emotionally and physically.
Just start from the beginning if ya can okay?
Alright, most of my depression started up soon after I lost my last boyfriend Windwolf. I told him I understood why he needed to leave but deep down I didn't want him to go. He did end up finding someone better than me but what screwed me up was he found said furson while we were still dating.. I know the guy and have high respect for his goofy ass. Lol He's a great guy tho and I'm happy for the both of them. Sadly for me, I've just never given up trying to win him back even tho he's far past being over me. I'm not sure why I can't just let it go and move on.
Damn.. man.. sorry to hear about that. Has anything happened that has maybe helped you out some?
Yes and no. It went months on end being the outcast of anyone's attention and I pretended to okay with seeing them together off and on but it ate me up inside. So so much that I started having suicidal thoughts. Now I would never act on any of these thoughts but they were all so surreal that it kinda felt like I did give up my life each time. I let myself fall deeper and deeper into this pit of despair it physically made me sick. After several months I started to feel better and ended up moving on somewhat. What had me down for most of the time was my last job. I knew it was a dead end and I didn't care.
What made you decide to leave your job?
I knew the direction it was going and what all it would entail. I didn't want to see myself end up in a place more miserable than I already was at. The job promotion was a complete joke and it would screw me over in the long run of things. So I sought after for a new job. Windwolf helped me land one where he works.
Oh cool! What do you think of the job? Is it something you were hoping for?
I really like the job. It has opened up a new chapter in my work life. I've never worked in the medical field before and I love it. Even though the job is just a repeat one every single night, I don't want to lose it.
Right on man. Happy for ya there. So what's been eating at you as of late tho?
Well, soon after I was offered the job, I put in my 2 weeks at the other one. Sure they were sad to see me go, but I had to. Leaving that job dropped off so much stress from my life. It was a needed change. Once I got the hang of the new job I ended up getting sick quite often. My immune system wouldn't fight off these flu bugs and I lost a lot of time in a short amount of months. The new job has a point system for attendance. Its a bit complicated so I will give a brief explanation. You are given 8 points a year. Each time you miss a day its a point. However if you miss several days but have a doc note it all counts as one occurrence instead of several. If you hit 8 points you are fired. I myself have 3 points left due to how often I got sick last year. A point will drop off once a year passes on the day you got it. So say, I got one back in Sept. on the 14th, then the following year on the same date, the point will go away. It has me so worried that I may lose this job due to getting sick again or something else happening. I don't want to lose this job. I can't lose this job. Its taking me in a more positive direction and I need it.
Wow.. that sucks you got sick so many times man. I'm glad you are feeling better tho!
Than ks. X3
Oh yea, word is that you got a new boyfriend?
Yea I did. I've known him for years now and he's such a sweetheart. So caring and generous. I do love him a lot. His fur name is Fire Tyger. He's sorta local and its been a good 4 months now since we started dating. It took a while for me to finally grow a pair and ask him out. He's hinted to me many times beforehand that he liked me but I explained to him my fear of losing him like I lost Windwolf. I didn't want to go through with that again. Especially with him. He understood and backed off a bit. Month or so past and then I finally told him how I felt and we hit it off pretty quick. Already had lots in common. Even was able to hit up a couple fur cons together in the short months we've dated.
That's what up! Good boy! He has made you happy right? I mean being with him has helped no?
Yea it has helped A LOT. He really can take away my stress and anguish. A couple times I pushed his buttons and we argued. Appears that I enjoy fighting. Every relationship I've had has had an argument or two if not more. But he got over it and so did I and we moved on.
That's good to hear. But you still haven't told me what's been wrong lately?
You're right I haven't. But.. here goes. Recently one of our cars has dropped. Meaning we only have a car to share between my roommate and I. Since it is his car, he has say over it. I've not been able go and see my boyfriend much in the past month, only briefly here and there and its been killing me.. On top of the fear of losing my job plus still showing feelings about Windwolf but his lack of acknowledging me outside of work. We talk somewhat on World of Warcraft, but that's about it. He never wants to hangout, but I need to think of it this way. Who the hell would want to hangout with an ex right?
Yea.. I can see where being an ex would come into play here. But you're still friends right? Even tho its little communication, he still says hi now and then?
Like I said, mostly at work. He is my boss and I need to treat him like one. We use to be close but the past months it seems like he's avoiding me completely.
Just give it some time. I'm sure he's got things going on that he hasn't told you.
He did just get promoted at work and it has taken away a lot of his free time. So yea, we'll see what's up in the future.
So anything else going on you want to share?
Maybe a few last things. I've been reaching out to some therapists for help with my depression and bipolorism. I'm still waiting to hear back from them tho to see if I can set up an appointment or something. Still in the works. But other than that, that's all that has had me down as of late.
Well thanks for sharing Pups. I'm sure things will work out for the best.
Yea me too. I'm hoping..
TFF bound early Thursday morning.
General | Posted 11 years agoHave to work tonight then taking tomorrow to finalize things.
Haven't been in the best of moods lately so don't get your hopes up too much for me to be very social at the con I'm afraid..
Haven't been in the best of moods lately so don't get your hopes up too much for me to be very social at the con I'm afraid..
My BDSM quiz results.
General | Posted 11 years agoNot surprised by them. XD
== Results from http://bdsmtest.org/ ==
96% Experimentalist
96% Voyeur
93% Bondage Receiver
93% Exhibitionist
93% Primal (Prey)
90% Primal (Predator)
83% Switch
82% Brat
79% Non-monogamist
79% Submissive
75% Slave
74% Degradation Receiver
73% Brat Tamer
71% Masochist
70% Girl/Boy
66% Dominant
63% Degradation Giver
61% Bondage Giver
60% Sadist
53% All-Rounder
50% Daddy/Mommy
50% Master/Mistress
49% Pervert
16% Vanilla
See my results online at http://bdsmtest.org/result.php?id=61581
== Results from http://bdsmtest.org/ ==
96% Experimentalist
96% Voyeur
93% Bondage Receiver
93% Exhibitionist
93% Primal (Prey)
90% Primal (Predator)
83% Switch
82% Brat
79% Non-monogamist
79% Submissive
75% Slave
74% Degradation Receiver
73% Brat Tamer
71% Masochist
70% Girl/Boy
66% Dominant
63% Degradation Giver
61% Bondage Giver
60% Sadist
53% All-Rounder
50% Daddy/Mommy
50% Master/Mistress
49% Pervert
16% Vanilla
See my results online at http://bdsmtest.org/result.php?id=61581
If I learned anything from last night..
General | Posted 11 years agoIt is that to express concern for an type of racial matter, no matter your race, you AUTOMATICALLY are sided with the enemy. Wanting peace by means of silence isn't an option cause if you don't speak up, you've sided with the enemy. People twisting your words around instantly cause of their "emotional" tie to whatever events have unfolded makes you out to be one of the bad guys. So as of today, I will no longer comments, RT or post on social media sites any or all concerns for the lives of others. I will no longer be wishing anyone a good day, happy birthday or the like as it could be used against me. To sum it all up, I'm going to Shut the Fuck Up for good. Oh wait.. silence means I'm with the enemy.. Well fuck this idea too.
Okay so I had some mishaps take place over Twitter last night and it really fucked with my head. I get people are outraged by the Grand Jury Decision in Ferguson but seriously.. its not EVERYONE WHO DOESN'T SIDE WITH MICHAEL BROWN's fault. Expressing concern and telling others not to get involved with the protests doesn't mean I've picked the wrong side. I'm just upset with these events just like all the rest of you out there but please don't reconstruct what I post to make me the bad guy. I probably should have either stayed out of the conversation or added more to it. In any case this ends my rant. May those conflicted by recent misunderstandings be well and that I am sorry we don't share all the same views.
Okay so I had some mishaps take place over Twitter last night and it really fucked with my head. I get people are outraged by the Grand Jury Decision in Ferguson but seriously.. its not EVERYONE WHO DOESN'T SIDE WITH MICHAEL BROWN's fault. Expressing concern and telling others not to get involved with the protests doesn't mean I've picked the wrong side. I'm just upset with these events just like all the rest of you out there but please don't reconstruct what I post to make me the bad guy. I probably should have either stayed out of the conversation or added more to it. In any case this ends my rant. May those conflicted by recent misunderstandings be well and that I am sorry we don't share all the same views.
CPFC Good/Bad News
General | Posted 11 years agoGood news: I'm going!
Bad News: Will only be there Friday evening to Sunday afternoon. Work is work. x_X
If you're going see you there!
Bad News: Will only be there Friday evening to Sunday afternoon. Work is work. x_X
If you're going see you there!
Going to Central Plains Fur Con!
General | Posted 11 years agoSignal boost for some local fur friends! FYI ITS A PARTY!!
General | Posted 11 years agoI will be going so it won't be so weird for some new furs hosting. n.n
This was put together for those who were not able to make to Camp Lucky.
Event is on Saturday 9 - 13 - 2014
Hosts: Jimmy (IceWolf82 on Fur Affinity, IceWolf JLK on FB), along with Tony (FireWolf Aph on FB/ Fuzzyrottie on FA).
You may remember us from Pups Gersky's birthday party. We are pretty much brand new to the group and only know a couple people.
Location: 21706 W 52nd Terrace
Shawnee, Ks 66226
Time: We're flexible. Anytime after 2pm. We'll fire up the grill as soon as anyone's hungry.
Agenda: We'll have burgers, hot dogs, snacks, basic soda selections, and some alcohol selections. If you've got a favorite beer, wine, or specialty selection, feel free to bring it over.
***We've got Xbox 360 and PS2 or a couple of retro gaming units that will be connected to 2 televisions. The third television with theater sound is open for suggestion. Have a Movie or concert you think the group would like? Bring it over.
Mood: It's the weekend! Enjoy, relax, hang out, eat, drink, and be merry :)
We have some comfy spots to crash for the night. You might want to bring a pillow just in case you're not up for a sober drive home.
RSVP?? Yes please, We'd love to have enough food and drink for all. We'd love to meet some new friends and take the opportunity to introduce ourselves as well as FurtheOtter (our out of town guest), and Fluffy Love! (Our in-town pest) lol.
This was put together for those who were not able to make to Camp Lucky.
Event is on Saturday 9 - 13 - 2014
Hosts: Jimmy (IceWolf82 on Fur Affinity, IceWolf JLK on FB), along with Tony (FireWolf Aph on FB/ Fuzzyrottie on FA).
You may remember us from Pups Gersky's birthday party. We are pretty much brand new to the group and only know a couple people.
Location: 21706 W 52nd Terrace
Shawnee, Ks 66226
Time: We're flexible. Anytime after 2pm. We'll fire up the grill as soon as anyone's hungry.
Agenda: We'll have burgers, hot dogs, snacks, basic soda selections, and some alcohol selections. If you've got a favorite beer, wine, or specialty selection, feel free to bring it over.
***We've got Xbox 360 and PS2 or a couple of retro gaming units that will be connected to 2 televisions. The third television with theater sound is open for suggestion. Have a Movie or concert you think the group would like? Bring it over.
Mood: It's the weekend! Enjoy, relax, hang out, eat, drink, and be merry :)
We have some comfy spots to crash for the night. You might want to bring a pillow just in case you're not up for a sober drive home.
RSVP?? Yes please, We'd love to have enough food and drink for all. We'd love to meet some new friends and take the opportunity to introduce ourselves as well as FurtheOtter (our out of town guest), and Fluffy Love! (Our in-town pest) lol.
Ice Bucket Challenge fails.
General | Posted 11 years agoAll of you who are doing this new FAD has lost ALL respect from me. Its no longer about raising awareness, we already KNOW about it but still people think they need to keep making videos. Its sad that something positive has become the next Harlem Shake. I'm very disappointed that everyone seems to think they NEED to make a video. =/
How about DONATING to the cause and stop spreading your chance to be apart of the next internet fail.
How about DONATING to the cause and stop spreading your chance to be apart of the next internet fail.
Thank you all for attending!
General | Posted 11 years agoI want to just say how amazing you all are as friends. You guys made my event one of my favorite birthdays I have celebrated to this date! Thank you guys so much and I love the gifts I received! ROCKET RACCOON FOR THE WIN! Again you guys make my tail wag so hard. I hope everyone had a great time and look forward to seeing you all again at the next event of if I decide to just want company or vice versa. ^^ *snugs you all so tightly*
I do think the movie outing was beyond worth it. I won't post spoilers but MAN YOU MUST SEE GUARDIANS!
I do think the movie outing was beyond worth it. I won't post spoilers but MAN YOU MUST SEE GUARDIANS!
A year older now.
General | Posted 11 years agoYep its that time of year again. :3
Guys let me know which show you will be attending please!
General | Posted 11 years agoAug. 1st Movie 1 -
Movie: Guardians of the Galaxy
Location: Cinemark Mirriam / 5500 Antioch
Merriam, KS 66202
Time: 7:20 PM
You may stay overnight, but it will be limited space!
Aug. 1st Movie 2 -
Movie: Guardians of the Galaxy in 3D
Location: Cinemark Mirriam / 5500 Antioch
Merriam, KS 66202
Time: 10 PM
Movie: Guardians of the Galaxy
Location: Cinemark Mirriam / 5500 Antioch
Merriam, KS 66202
Time: 7:20 PM
You may stay overnight, but it will be limited space!
Aug. 1st Movie 2 -
Movie: Guardians of the Galaxy in 3D
Location: Cinemark Mirriam / 5500 Antioch
Merriam, KS 66202
Time: 10 PM
Pups 2 Day Wagathon! Update!
General | Posted 11 years agoLike to thank those of you who made it out Friday for the pre-event and enjoyed seeing the movie Lucy. It was really good! Also looks like it will be a great turnout with all the RSVPs I have gotten. Looking forward to seeing you all! n.n *waggles*
UPDATES BELOW!
The movie is 2 hours long just FYI!!
Aug. 1st Movie 1 -
Movie: Guardians of the Galaxy
Location: Cinemark Mirriam / 5500 Antioch
Merriam, KS 66202
Time: 7:20 PM
A few things happened and I will not be back til after midnight nor will anyone be at my house before me. If you still want to come over after midnight around 1-1:30 am that is fine. You may stay overnight, but it will be limited space!
Address: 3205 Englewood Terrace, Independence, MO 64052
Text me before if you can! (Number is listed below)
Aug. 1st Movie 2 -
Movie: Guardians of the Galaxy in 3D
Location: Cinemark Mirriam / 5500 Antioch
Merriam, KS 66202
Time: 10 PM
Afterwards we head back to my place (see above location of my den) for more food fun and drinks! You must be 21+ to drink! NO ACCEPTIONS!
Aug. 2nd (BDAY YAY!)
Will start the BBQ around 2:00 PM and the party will rage on for however long we can go! (Sunday is rest and hangover day. LOL) Music, Games, Fun!
NOTICE!!
After 9 PM Saturday I will ask those not 18+ to leave due to possible adult nature activities. (Semi-Nudity and the like)
SECOND NOTICE!!
IF MORE THAN 30 ATTENDEES SHOW UP AND YOU DID NOT RSVP YOU WILL HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT FOOD ON YOUR OWN. SORRY!
Contact info: Cell 816-695-2905 text only please!!
Email: ThePupsWeLuv[at]gmail.com
Contact me with any and all questions please!
RSVP BY MONDAY JULY 28! My max is 25-30 people and if you are willing to help out or suggest options with food/drink costs that would be great! Due to most of us paying rent I will understand if you're not able to do so. If I had more time/funding I would allow more people to come over. Drop bys or calls are always welcome! Please give your fur name or real name in the email!
RSVP here: ThePupsWeLuv[at]gmail.com (If you are gonna bring food/drinks, please state in your rsvp email!)
Next pages is more box text on the information.
Pups 31st Two Night Wagathon!
Howlies all! Pups here and I'm planning on having me one great bday this year! I will be turning 31 on Aug. 2nd and would love to have you all celebrate with me! However since drinking will take place I can only invite those old enough to drink for this event. (Evening time after 9 pm is adult (18+) only) You can still send me bday snugs, humps, rubs or what have you x3 *wag wag* despite the age restriction! I'll love you all the same. ^^
NOW! INFO BELOW!!!
MAIN EVENT INFORMATION!!
Friday Aug 1st: I WILL/MUST/HAS TO HAPPEN be going to see Guardians of the Galaxy. If I can leave work at a decent time, I would like to go twice. Once with those who can't handle 3D and later that night with those who want to see it in 3D. One lucky furson of the group going will get to buy my ticket as a bday gift! xP (Or if money is an issue, I can cover myself lol) After both movies are done and over with there will be a get together back at my den. Drinks, Food, Games will be present. I do have crash space for those who are wanting to spend the night (but it is limited!)
On Saturday Aug 2nd (BDAY YAY!!! *BUTT WIGGLE DANCE*) I will be having an afternoon BBQ at my house for those who would like to attend. AGAIN drinking age is 21+. There will be games, drinks and of course food!! Just a heads up there might be some co-workers of mine attending these events but don't fret they have been warned about us furries by yours truly! XD There will be time for gifts or other announcements. A theme is being worked out on the adult times. Again another email update will take place.
Bringing gifts isn't required but I won't say no! ^-^ Any help with food/drinks is appreciated greatly!
BBQ food – Hot dogs, Burgers, Fries, Tots, Ribs (etc) Also let us know what you would like to eat!
SO FELLOW FURS! I tried to plan this as soon as I possibly could but had to acutally wait til I knew what my work schedule looked like before committing to this. COUNT IT DOWN! 2 - WEEKS AWAY!
SEE YOU ALL SOON!
PS: A FINALIZED email and all completed updates will be post NO LATER than July 29th.
I JUST WANT TO SAY (IN ALL CAPS APPARENTLY) THAT THOSE OF YOU WHO ARE NOT ABLE TO MAKE IT, I WILL WORK SOMETHING ELSE OUT LATER ON FOR US TO GET TOGETHER. n.n
UPDATES BELOW!
The movie is 2 hours long just FYI!!
Aug. 1st Movie 1 -
Movie: Guardians of the Galaxy
Location: Cinemark Mirriam / 5500 Antioch
Merriam, KS 66202
Time: 7:20 PM
A few things happened and I will not be back til after midnight nor will anyone be at my house before me. If you still want to come over after midnight around 1-1:30 am that is fine. You may stay overnight, but it will be limited space!
Address: 3205 Englewood Terrace, Independence, MO 64052
Text me before if you can! (Number is listed below)
Aug. 1st Movie 2 -
Movie: Guardians of the Galaxy in 3D
Location: Cinemark Mirriam / 5500 Antioch
Merriam, KS 66202
Time: 10 PM
Afterwards we head back to my place (see above location of my den) for more food fun and drinks! You must be 21+ to drink! NO ACCEPTIONS!
Aug. 2nd (BDAY YAY!)
Will start the BBQ around 2:00 PM and the party will rage on for however long we can go! (Sunday is rest and hangover day. LOL) Music, Games, Fun!
NOTICE!!
After 9 PM Saturday I will ask those not 18+ to leave due to possible adult nature activities. (Semi-Nudity and the like)
SECOND NOTICE!!
IF MORE THAN 30 ATTENDEES SHOW UP AND YOU DID NOT RSVP YOU WILL HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT FOOD ON YOUR OWN. SORRY!
Contact info: Cell 816-695-2905 text only please!!
Email: ThePupsWeLuv[at]gmail.com
Contact me with any and all questions please!
RSVP BY MONDAY JULY 28! My max is 25-30 people and if you are willing to help out or suggest options with food/drink costs that would be great! Due to most of us paying rent I will understand if you're not able to do so. If I had more time/funding I would allow more people to come over. Drop bys or calls are always welcome! Please give your fur name or real name in the email!
RSVP here: ThePupsWeLuv[at]gmail.com (If you are gonna bring food/drinks, please state in your rsvp email!)
Next pages is more box text on the information.
Pups 31st Two Night Wagathon!
Howlies all! Pups here and I'm planning on having me one great bday this year! I will be turning 31 on Aug. 2nd and would love to have you all celebrate with me! However since drinking will take place I can only invite those old enough to drink for this event. (Evening time after 9 pm is adult (18+) only) You can still send me bday snugs, humps, rubs or what have you x3 *wag wag* despite the age restriction! I'll love you all the same. ^^
NOW! INFO BELOW!!!
MAIN EVENT INFORMATION!!
Friday Aug 1st: I WILL/MUST/HAS TO HAPPEN be going to see Guardians of the Galaxy. If I can leave work at a decent time, I would like to go twice. Once with those who can't handle 3D and later that night with those who want to see it in 3D. One lucky furson of the group going will get to buy my ticket as a bday gift! xP (Or if money is an issue, I can cover myself lol) After both movies are done and over with there will be a get together back at my den. Drinks, Food, Games will be present. I do have crash space for those who are wanting to spend the night (but it is limited!)
On Saturday Aug 2nd (BDAY YAY!!! *BUTT WIGGLE DANCE*) I will be having an afternoon BBQ at my house for those who would like to attend. AGAIN drinking age is 21+. There will be games, drinks and of course food!! Just a heads up there might be some co-workers of mine attending these events but don't fret they have been warned about us furries by yours truly! XD There will be time for gifts or other announcements. A theme is being worked out on the adult times. Again another email update will take place.
Bringing gifts isn't required but I won't say no! ^-^ Any help with food/drinks is appreciated greatly!
BBQ food – Hot dogs, Burgers, Fries, Tots, Ribs (etc) Also let us know what you would like to eat!
SO FELLOW FURS! I tried to plan this as soon as I possibly could but had to acutally wait til I knew what my work schedule looked like before committing to this. COUNT IT DOWN! 2 - WEEKS AWAY!
SEE YOU ALL SOON!
PS: A FINALIZED email and all completed updates will be post NO LATER than July 29th.
I JUST WANT TO SAY (IN ALL CAPS APPARENTLY) THAT THOSE OF YOU WHO ARE NOT ABLE TO MAKE IT, I WILL WORK SOMETHING ELSE OUT LATER ON FOR US TO GET TOGETHER. n.n
Event and Information! Pups 2 Day Wagathon!
General | Posted 11 years agoEvent Information
Pre event
July 25th
Movie: Lucy
Location and Time: Cinemark Mirriam / 5500 Antioch
Merriam, KS 66202 / 9:15 PM
__________________________________________________________________
The movie is 2 hours long just FYI!!
Aug. 1st Movie 1 -
Movie: Guardians of the Galaxy
Location: Cinemark Mirriam / 5500 Antioch
Merriam, KS 66202
Time: 7:20 PM
Those who go to movie 1, can head back to my house (3205 Englewood Terrace, Independence, MO 64052 and hangout if you want)
You may stay overnight, but it will be limited space!
Aug. 1st Movie 2 -
Movie: Guardians of the Galaxy in 3D
Location: Cinemark Mirriam / 5500 Antioch
Merriam, KS 66202
Time: 10 PM
Afterwards we head back to my place (see above location of my den) for more food fun and drinks! You must be 21+ to drink! NO ACCEPTIONS!
Aug. 2nd (BDAY YAY!)
Will start the BBQ around 2:00 PM and the party will rage on for however long we can go! (Sunday is rest and hangover day. LOL)
NOTICE!!
After 9 PM Saturday I will ask those not 18+ to leave due to possible adult nature activities. (Semi-Nudity and the like)
SECOND NOTICE!!
IF MORE THAN 30 ATTENDEES SHOW UP AND YOU DID NOT RSVP YOU WILL HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT FOOD ON YOUR OWN. SORRY!
Contact info: Cell 816-695-2905 text only please!!
Email: ThePupsWeLuv[at]gmail.com
Contact me with any and all questions please!
RSVP BY MONDAY JULY 28! My max is 25-30 people and if you are willing to help out or suggest options with food/drink costs that would be great! Due to most of us paying rent I will understand if you're not able to do so. If I had more time/funding I would allow more people to come over. Drop bys or calls are always welcome! Please give your fur name or real name in the email!
RSVP here: ThePupsWeLuv[at]gmail.com (If you are gonna bring food/drinks, please state in your rsvp email!)
Next pages is more box text on the information.
Pups 31st Two Night Wagathon!
Howlies all! Pups here and I'm planning on having me one great bday this year! I will be turning 31 on Aug. 2nd and would love to have you all celebrate with me! However since drinking will take place I can only invite those old enough to drink for this event. (Evening time after 9 pm is adult (18+) only) You can still send me bday snugs, humps, rubs or what have you x3 *wag wag* despite the age restriction! I'll love you all the same. ^^
NOW! INFO BELOW!!!
Pre - event: I would like to invite a pawful of you next Friday to go see the new movie Lucy. We probably won't be seeing it in 3D so keep that in mind. A couple of us locals can't handle the animation or the glasses. I'm sorry if that does matter to you! I will be deciding on location this weekend so another email update will be sent later on.
MAIN EVENT INFORMATION!!
Friday Aug 1st: I WILL/MUST/HAS TO HAPPEN be going to see Guardians of the Galaxy. If I can leave work at a decent time, I would like to go twice. Once with those who can't handle 3D and later that night with those who want to see it in 3D. One lucky furson of the group going will get to buy my ticket as a bday gift! xP (Or if money is an issue, I can cover myself lol) After both movies are done and over with there will be a get together back at my den. Drinks, Food, Games will be present. I do have crash space for those who are wanting to spend the night (but it is limited!)
On Saturday Aug 2nd (BDAY YAY!!! *BUTT WIGGLE DANCE*) I will be having an afternoon BBQ at my house for those who would like to attend. AGAIN drinking age is 21+. There will be games, drinks and of course food!! Just a heads up there might be some co-workers of mine attending these events but don't fret they have been warned about us furries by yours truly! XD There will be time for gifts or other announcements. A theme is being worked out on the adult times. Again another email update will take place.
Bringing gifts isn't required but I won't say no! ^-^ Any help with food/drinks is appreciated greatly!
BBQ food – Hot dogs, Burgers, Fries, Tots, Ribs (etc) Also let us know what you would like to eat!
SO FELLOW FURS! I tried to plan this as soon as I possibly could but had to acutally wait til I knew what my work schedule looked like before committing to this. COUNT IT DOWN! 2 - WEEKS AWAY!
SEE YOU ALL SOON!
PS: A FINALIZED email and all completed updates will be post NO LATER than July 29th.
I JUST WANT TO SAY (IN ALL CAPS APPARENTLY) THAT THOSE OF YOU WHO ARE NOT ABLE TO MAKE IT, I WILL WORK SOMETHING ELSE OUT LATER ON FOR US TO GET TOGETHER. n.n
Pre event
July 25th
Movie: Lucy
Location and Time: Cinemark Mirriam / 5500 Antioch
Merriam, KS 66202 / 9:15 PM
__________________________________________________________________
The movie is 2 hours long just FYI!!
Aug. 1st Movie 1 -
Movie: Guardians of the Galaxy
Location: Cinemark Mirriam / 5500 Antioch
Merriam, KS 66202
Time: 7:20 PM
Those who go to movie 1, can head back to my house (3205 Englewood Terrace, Independence, MO 64052 and hangout if you want)
You may stay overnight, but it will be limited space!
Aug. 1st Movie 2 -
Movie: Guardians of the Galaxy in 3D
Location: Cinemark Mirriam / 5500 Antioch
Merriam, KS 66202
Time: 10 PM
Afterwards we head back to my place (see above location of my den) for more food fun and drinks! You must be 21+ to drink! NO ACCEPTIONS!
Aug. 2nd (BDAY YAY!)
Will start the BBQ around 2:00 PM and the party will rage on for however long we can go! (Sunday is rest and hangover day. LOL)
NOTICE!!
After 9 PM Saturday I will ask those not 18+ to leave due to possible adult nature activities. (Semi-Nudity and the like)
SECOND NOTICE!!
IF MORE THAN 30 ATTENDEES SHOW UP AND YOU DID NOT RSVP YOU WILL HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT FOOD ON YOUR OWN. SORRY!
Contact info: Cell 816-695-2905 text only please!!
Email: ThePupsWeLuv[at]gmail.com
Contact me with any and all questions please!
RSVP BY MONDAY JULY 28! My max is 25-30 people and if you are willing to help out or suggest options with food/drink costs that would be great! Due to most of us paying rent I will understand if you're not able to do so. If I had more time/funding I would allow more people to come over. Drop bys or calls are always welcome! Please give your fur name or real name in the email!
RSVP here: ThePupsWeLuv[at]gmail.com (If you are gonna bring food/drinks, please state in your rsvp email!)
Next pages is more box text on the information.
Pups 31st Two Night Wagathon!
Howlies all! Pups here and I'm planning on having me one great bday this year! I will be turning 31 on Aug. 2nd and would love to have you all celebrate with me! However since drinking will take place I can only invite those old enough to drink for this event. (Evening time after 9 pm is adult (18+) only) You can still send me bday snugs, humps, rubs or what have you x3 *wag wag* despite the age restriction! I'll love you all the same. ^^
NOW! INFO BELOW!!!
Pre - event: I would like to invite a pawful of you next Friday to go see the new movie Lucy. We probably won't be seeing it in 3D so keep that in mind. A couple of us locals can't handle the animation or the glasses. I'm sorry if that does matter to you! I will be deciding on location this weekend so another email update will be sent later on.
MAIN EVENT INFORMATION!!
Friday Aug 1st: I WILL/MUST/HAS TO HAPPEN be going to see Guardians of the Galaxy. If I can leave work at a decent time, I would like to go twice. Once with those who can't handle 3D and later that night with those who want to see it in 3D. One lucky furson of the group going will get to buy my ticket as a bday gift! xP (Or if money is an issue, I can cover myself lol) After both movies are done and over with there will be a get together back at my den. Drinks, Food, Games will be present. I do have crash space for those who are wanting to spend the night (but it is limited!)
On Saturday Aug 2nd (BDAY YAY!!! *BUTT WIGGLE DANCE*) I will be having an afternoon BBQ at my house for those who would like to attend. AGAIN drinking age is 21+. There will be games, drinks and of course food!! Just a heads up there might be some co-workers of mine attending these events but don't fret they have been warned about us furries by yours truly! XD There will be time for gifts or other announcements. A theme is being worked out on the adult times. Again another email update will take place.
Bringing gifts isn't required but I won't say no! ^-^ Any help with food/drinks is appreciated greatly!
BBQ food – Hot dogs, Burgers, Fries, Tots, Ribs (etc) Also let us know what you would like to eat!
SO FELLOW FURS! I tried to plan this as soon as I possibly could but had to acutally wait til I knew what my work schedule looked like before committing to this. COUNT IT DOWN! 2 - WEEKS AWAY!
SEE YOU ALL SOON!
PS: A FINALIZED email and all completed updates will be post NO LATER than July 29th.
I JUST WANT TO SAY (IN ALL CAPS APPARENTLY) THAT THOSE OF YOU WHO ARE NOT ABLE TO MAKE IT, I WILL WORK SOMETHING ELSE OUT LATER ON FOR US TO GET TOGETHER. n.n
Really upsetting to let things ruin fun.
General | Posted 11 years agoThis is directed at the KCFur group.
Allow me to say that I am ashamed that you will just let Anthroguy ruin an event that was planned out and so much work went into it. I deeply apologize if I may have offended anyone by inviting him to my party event. Yes I understand that all the drama and bullshit that he caused over the years and that his actions aren't easily forgivable, but that doesn't change the fact that the event in question was cancelled over drama that had no place at the event to begin with. The only reason I asked Paprika to use Group spaces for a massive email was to get friends to come to the event. It was IN NO way a KCFur event. It wasn't hosted by KCFur, it was me who was hosting and it wasn't going to be just furries at it either. I wanted those I deemed close enough to me to be there to help celebrate all the years they've made me happy. I wanted to host something that hasn't been done in a while or at all if I think about it. I miss you guys so much and wanted to connect back with some of you at the party since I missed out on the last KCFur event. I may have gone a bit far with cancelling the whole thing but know this, I've been trying to help Anthroguy gain face back. He's not making it easy for me but I'm giving him the chance. Yes he is my friend and I won't exclude him from having fun with me or around me. I'm sorry some of you hate him, yes hate is the word I would use for this, and don't feel you can stand being around him. He's trying his hardest to change, I've seen it and I've helped him. His actions on the group can be forgiven and as some of you have said, shouldn't be taken serious. But as those of you who want to continue holding a grudge instead of moving the fuck on, I decided to cancel my event as I don't feel right in uninviting guests. So I just said fuck it. I'll hang with you all on my own time. Just a personal note, I don't hate the group. I love all you guys and respect all the hard work put forth by each and everyone of you. It just saddens me at the actions and how things have become. I hope in time certain mishaps can be forgotten and we all find peace again. I may try to host something next year but I won't put in as much passion as I did for this recent event. Thank you for reading and hope you all the best.
Allow me to say that I am ashamed that you will just let Anthroguy ruin an event that was planned out and so much work went into it. I deeply apologize if I may have offended anyone by inviting him to my party event. Yes I understand that all the drama and bullshit that he caused over the years and that his actions aren't easily forgivable, but that doesn't change the fact that the event in question was cancelled over drama that had no place at the event to begin with. The only reason I asked Paprika to use Group spaces for a massive email was to get friends to come to the event. It was IN NO way a KCFur event. It wasn't hosted by KCFur, it was me who was hosting and it wasn't going to be just furries at it either. I wanted those I deemed close enough to me to be there to help celebrate all the years they've made me happy. I wanted to host something that hasn't been done in a while or at all if I think about it. I miss you guys so much and wanted to connect back with some of you at the party since I missed out on the last KCFur event. I may have gone a bit far with cancelling the whole thing but know this, I've been trying to help Anthroguy gain face back. He's not making it easy for me but I'm giving him the chance. Yes he is my friend and I won't exclude him from having fun with me or around me. I'm sorry some of you hate him, yes hate is the word I would use for this, and don't feel you can stand being around him. He's trying his hardest to change, I've seen it and I've helped him. His actions on the group can be forgiven and as some of you have said, shouldn't be taken serious. But as those of you who want to continue holding a grudge instead of moving the fuck on, I decided to cancel my event as I don't feel right in uninviting guests. So I just said fuck it. I'll hang with you all on my own time. Just a personal note, I don't hate the group. I love all you guys and respect all the hard work put forth by each and everyone of you. It just saddens me at the actions and how things have become. I hope in time certain mishaps can be forgotten and we all find peace again. I may try to host something next year but I won't put in as much passion as I did for this recent event. Thank you for reading and hope you all the best.
