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Posted 10 years agoMe
24-year old guy, you can find the rest on my main page. I'm lazy right now.
What languages do you speak?
English and Dutch
What day are you getting there?
I have early/late, so on Tuesday.
How are you getting there?
Together with
shivon with his car
Who will you be with?
With as many people as I know who are attending the con. Probably will be meeting some others as well. If you want to get to know me, you're welcome of course.
Who are you rooming with?
I'll be rooming with
xylios
Will you tell me your room-number and can I surprise visit you?
Depends on the cuteness of your suit. :P Nahw, if my roomie is OK with it you can drop by.
What is the best way to contact you at the con?
Skype, if there is a stable WiFi network that is.
How can I find you at the con?
In suit... Or with a camera. Those who know me will probably recognize me. :P
What suit(s) will you have?
Look for a blue-white Kodi wuff (see my main page) by the name of :shadeswuffky:
Can I dance with you?
While I'm just standing there, yes. Or flail around in suit around me. ^.^
Can I touch you?
Not in the no-no spots, thank you. I guess I've said that before.
Can I talk to you?
Always. Ah well, not always, but you know.
Can I hug you?
Try me.
Can I take photos of you/with you?
Sure.
Can I buy you lots of drinks?
No.
Do you do art?
I'll draw you circles, triangular shapes and stick figures if you want to.
Do you drink Alcohol/Smoke?
Don't smoke, folks. It kills you. Yes, also that tobacco-free hookah.
Alcohol... depends. Some whisky, yes. Special beer, yup. The rest, not so much.
Can I give you lots of money?
No.
Can I hug or snuggle with you?
That depends A LOT! We'll see.
Can we hang out?
Yush!
Are you nice?
No. I'm an asshole. I have one, too.
Where will you be most of the time during the con?
I have no idea. There's a big chance I'll be in the city a lot, but there are some events I really would like to watch.
Can I come to dinner with you?
Wow, that's... specific. Why not. But I'm already taken. :P
Last time/last con/last meet/last chat we talked so much and now you forgot my name? Why???
I think that won't be the case, actually... I remember the people I met on FWH. Quite good with names, it's a trick.
Attending any events?
No, but I'll definately be watching a few!
Other cons you may go to?
Not this year. Was doubting to go to MWFF, but it's likely too expensive for now. Which is a shame, but hey. :P Can't have everything in life.
Can I ask you a personal question about the con?
Uhm?
24-year old guy, you can find the rest on my main page. I'm lazy right now.
What languages do you speak?
English and Dutch
What day are you getting there?
I have early/late, so on Tuesday.
How are you getting there?
Together with
shivon with his carWho will you be with?
With as many people as I know who are attending the con. Probably will be meeting some others as well. If you want to get to know me, you're welcome of course.
Who are you rooming with?
I'll be rooming with
xyliosWill you tell me your room-number and can I surprise visit you?
Depends on the cuteness of your suit. :P Nahw, if my roomie is OK with it you can drop by.
What is the best way to contact you at the con?
Skype, if there is a stable WiFi network that is.
How can I find you at the con?
In suit... Or with a camera. Those who know me will probably recognize me. :P
What suit(s) will you have?
Look for a blue-white Kodi wuff (see my main page) by the name of :shadeswuffky:
Can I dance with you?
While I'm just standing there, yes. Or flail around in suit around me. ^.^
Can I touch you?
Not in the no-no spots, thank you. I guess I've said that before.
Can I talk to you?
Always. Ah well, not always, but you know.
Can I hug you?
Try me.
Can I take photos of you/with you?
Sure.
Can I buy you lots of drinks?
No.
Do you do art?
I'll draw you circles, triangular shapes and stick figures if you want to.
Do you drink Alcohol/Smoke?
Don't smoke, folks. It kills you. Yes, also that tobacco-free hookah.
Alcohol... depends. Some whisky, yes. Special beer, yup. The rest, not so much.
Can I give you lots of money?
No.
Can I hug or snuggle with you?
That depends A LOT! We'll see.
Can we hang out?
Yush!
Are you nice?
No. I'm an asshole. I have one, too.
Where will you be most of the time during the con?
I have no idea. There's a big chance I'll be in the city a lot, but there are some events I really would like to watch.
Can I come to dinner with you?
Wow, that's... specific. Why not. But I'm already taken. :P
Last time/last con/last meet/last chat we talked so much and now you forgot my name? Why???
I think that won't be the case, actually... I remember the people I met on FWH. Quite good with names, it's a trick.
Attending any events?
No, but I'll definately be watching a few!
Other cons you may go to?
Not this year. Was doubting to go to MWFF, but it's likely too expensive for now. Which is a shame, but hey. :P Can't have everything in life.
Can I ask you a personal question about the con?
Uhm?
FWH '15 meme
Posted 10 years agoOoh, it is so early... But it's my first con ever, so I had to steal this from 
drias right away!
What day are you getting there?
Friday 27th, straight from my night shifts. So I guess I will stay up late that night xD
Who will you be with?
Whoever steps in front of me. I know some of you, some I don't.
What suit(s) will you have?
shadeswuffky
Can I dance with you?
Ehm... If I could actually dance well, which I cannot. But you can always try and trick me into dancing :3
Can I touch you?
Not in my no-no spots, thank you. The rest is fine if it isn't in an awkward way.
Can I talk to you?
Always. I don't mind if I know you or not, I'm a very open guy.
Can I hug you?
99% of the time, yes. If I don't know you yet, please also provide me with your name. Makes things easier, isn't it?
Can I take photos of you/with you?
Only in suit, or out of suit if it is a special occasion and you have my permission.
Can I buy you lots of drinks?
Well uh... I don't drink THAT much, so no thank you.
Do you drink Alcohol/Smoke?
No smokies. Alcohol... depends on the social situation.
Can I give you lots of money?
No.
Can I hug or snuggle with you?
You can snuggle me if I know you well. We'll see how things go.
Can we hang out?
Always. I quite like good company. :)
Are you nice?
Hahaha, no, I'm an asshole. Ask
sambers
Where will you be most of the time during the con?
Dunno yet.
Other cons you may go to?
Eurofurence 21, maaaaaybe MWFF
Who are you rooming with?
shivon
Attending any events?
If there are any.
How can I find you at the con?
In suit: blue-gray Kodi wuff.
Out of suit: lean built 6" guy with brown hair and flimsy glasses. I'm a hottie though! 8)
drias right away!What day are you getting there?
Friday 27th, straight from my night shifts. So I guess I will stay up late that night xD
Who will you be with?
Whoever steps in front of me. I know some of you, some I don't.
What suit(s) will you have?
shadeswuffkyCan I dance with you?
Ehm... If I could actually dance well, which I cannot. But you can always try and trick me into dancing :3
Can I touch you?
Not in my no-no spots, thank you. The rest is fine if it isn't in an awkward way.
Can I talk to you?
Always. I don't mind if I know you or not, I'm a very open guy.
Can I hug you?
99% of the time, yes. If I don't know you yet, please also provide me with your name. Makes things easier, isn't it?
Can I take photos of you/with you?
Only in suit, or out of suit if it is a special occasion and you have my permission.
Can I buy you lots of drinks?
Well uh... I don't drink THAT much, so no thank you.
Do you drink Alcohol/Smoke?
No smokies. Alcohol... depends on the social situation.
Can I give you lots of money?
No.
Can I hug or snuggle with you?
You can snuggle me if I know you well. We'll see how things go.
Can we hang out?
Always. I quite like good company. :)
Are you nice?
Hahaha, no, I'm an asshole. Ask
sambersWhere will you be most of the time during the con?
Dunno yet.
Other cons you may go to?
Eurofurence 21, maaaaaybe MWFF
Who are you rooming with?
shivonAttending any events?
If there are any.
How can I find you at the con?
In suit: blue-gray Kodi wuff.
Out of suit: lean built 6" guy with brown hair and flimsy glasses. I'm a hottie though! 8)
Can I borrow some duct tape for my mouth?
Posted 11 years agoTomorrow, I will be enjoying eating out after a regular, probably very busy weekend shift at the emergency department. Normally I love dining with people, but this time... There might be some fuzz.
Reason for that thought is the people who I'll be going out with, in this case my dad and some of his friends. My dad practically is the only important person in my life I didn't tell about my bisexuality. He sometimes makes awkward jokes about gay people and though I don't have trouble telling him stuff, the things he says leave no room to make a serious remark. Apart from that, I think he is unable to cope. He isn't the kind of person who reflects on other peoples feelings and this is too far from his own (sexual) interest for him to be able to understand. I don't say he doesn't love me, it's just this.
Those friends of his are quite the same. They always ask when I will FINALLY be coming home with a girlfriend, because of my age and the fact that I never discuss girls in their presence. Well, I think you can see why. So, last time someone asked me that question, I snapped and kind of screamed in his face that I have had some relationships but that I am bisexual and that that is none of his business.
So, attending that dinner will possibly be a problem. They will ask that stupid question again, mostly for their own pleasure. I don't think I'll be able to cope this time, so things could escalate to the point I'll be yelling unreasonable things for the entire restaurant to enjoy. I know that it is on very short notice, but any advice would be highly appreciated.
Edit after dinner
So... it has gone well. Yush, got the same old question three times (!) in different ways, but I was able to cope a lot easier than expected. Apparently I'm not as easily startled as I was a few years ago, maybe due to hearing lots of awkward things and going through a good verbal contact training as a doctor. So when they asked, I simply smiled, answered shortly and diverted the attention. The second and third time, I just grinned and kind of took the mickey out of the one asking. But it seems they have their suspicions. Ah well, lets see if they ever have the guts to confront me with it.
Reason for that thought is the people who I'll be going out with, in this case my dad and some of his friends. My dad practically is the only important person in my life I didn't tell about my bisexuality. He sometimes makes awkward jokes about gay people and though I don't have trouble telling him stuff, the things he says leave no room to make a serious remark. Apart from that, I think he is unable to cope. He isn't the kind of person who reflects on other peoples feelings and this is too far from his own (sexual) interest for him to be able to understand. I don't say he doesn't love me, it's just this.
Those friends of his are quite the same. They always ask when I will FINALLY be coming home with a girlfriend, because of my age and the fact that I never discuss girls in their presence. Well, I think you can see why. So, last time someone asked me that question, I snapped and kind of screamed in his face that I have had some relationships but that I am bisexual and that that is none of his business.
So, attending that dinner will possibly be a problem. They will ask that stupid question again, mostly for their own pleasure. I don't think I'll be able to cope this time, so things could escalate to the point I'll be yelling unreasonable things for the entire restaurant to enjoy. I know that it is on very short notice, but any advice would be highly appreciated.
Edit after dinner
So... it has gone well. Yush, got the same old question three times (!) in different ways, but I was able to cope a lot easier than expected. Apparently I'm not as easily startled as I was a few years ago, maybe due to hearing lots of awkward things and going through a good verbal contact training as a doctor. So when they asked, I simply smiled, answered shortly and diverted the attention. The second and third time, I just grinned and kind of took the mickey out of the one asking. But it seems they have their suspicions. Ah well, lets see if they ever have the guts to confront me with it.
