Ya I'm all for having fur friends to visit me with the intent knowing that they are going to come..When I'm expecting fur friends to show up in like a few weeks advance or less its pretty hard to deal with the fact that they cancel on me and either want to reschedule or just not come at all...This pisses me off pretty quick cause if i put a lot of effort into either schedule time off for work for this or put any other plans aside for furs to visit and they don't..Then they have wasted a great deal of my time that i could have done something else. Case and point..If you say your going to do something then do it..Your lucky if i excuse u once or maybe twice but after that you loose credibility with me. I don't have time for excuses and i don't have time to rearrange my work schedule around for someone else to not show. And trying to deal with getting off from work or get the schedule rearranged is like pulling teeth..So please be considerate to not only me but others when making big plans to do something with them. Especially if you put them off over to do something stupid.

Yes Fursuiters. : 3 Most of us furs love them and love hugs from them and such as well...So do i. I love fursuit hugs and cuddles and..sometimes other things..in private. Now one fur making the insult of saying that he thinks i like fursuiters a bit too much and i like hanging with them quite alot. Look...heres the thing. I like fursuits. Its really the only thing that gets us closest to looking like our own fursona and living out our fantasies. And no i dont randomly grope any fursuiters in public or sexualy harass anyone. And the things that do go on in the bedroom stay there..Fetishes do not transubstantiate to what furries are about. I do enjoy fursuiters just for being silly and fun and hugable and cute in public..And i dont hit on every random furry in suit or out of suit so dont try to accuse me of being a perv or as we say "A Furvert". Now for those furs who do send certain signals like hitting on me and making suggestive things towards me. If i decide i want to do something with them in return of those signals then don't get mad if i do want to..U asked for it. Don't start something ya cant finish. Over all i enjoy the fandom as a whole. Love the fursuiting and the art and the story writing and role playing and almost all we have to offer in the fandom. Im as into the fandom as much as you can get in a positive way. But as many adult furs here are im also an adult fur too. And i like to have adult fun too once in a while. So we all just have to get over it. Its not like im gonna let the media see it. Now in some point in the future id like to get a fursuit. I just await the day it happens. Thats all i have to say about that...(Yea im one of those furs.) So anyone who doesnt like it..Im sugar and spice and everything nice..So bite me. : P

By me being a subby deer that does mean i am subbmisive to certain things. Yea even in bed. lol. But dont get used to the idea of thinking that you can disrespect me or anything. Dont try making snap insults to me or try to peer pressure me into doing something i dont want to do sexually or none sexually. This is not a master slave thing. So please be respectful and don't try to physicaly hurt me. I dont like that. Thats all i have to say about this.

Yes i know im ranting quite a bit but i have to let it out somewhere. Im so tired of hearing about all how the worlds going to end..This really isnt a issue ive had with furries its just more of an issue with people i see on the street but id thought id talk about it anyway. So..I find it very deconstructive to see so many people planning for there deaths instead of planning for there lives. teh.Oh like how oh the world is gonna end in 2012...And now we are here in 2013 and alive and .oh wait..we are still here. And after its been all said and done they are all like..well..actualy 2012 was the beginging sign of the world ending..its really gonna end on whatever year it is...Or the Y2k thing in 2000...Absolutly stupid. Paranoid is what this is being..People will believe anything when its televised or written in a book or even looking it up on the internet. Its a shame. Even if the world really does end sometime soon ya think im gonna care..I just want to be furry and be happy and enjoy my life before i die. Some people find comfort in being a big success in a career choice..Others enjoy sitting around smoking pot all day..Whatever. All i want to do is what i want to do is enjoy my life and take it as the only life i have to live and am sure to get..If for some reason if it means working in a factory as a job for the rest of my life to be happy so be it. What i see with some people is that they think that all there life troubles will be solved by having career or be the thing to make them happy. Others think its just eating healthy and nothing else..How about actualy having fun for once in your life? I like to have fun and be happy. None of these thing in the following statements make me happy. If it means i live a shorter life then so be it..Quality is more important to me rather than live long and miserable. But yea back to the end of the world thing..Ya its not gonna end on your accord..Not by what some christian says or anything else. And besides all i see is people doing the usual day in and day out things they do everyday anyways. Oh? the worlds ending? Oh well.. Im gonna go get some dinner now. Im hungry. And then im gonna go watch tv. Thats all i have to say...about that.

In the furry fandom in some part of my life theres always been the point of having to hear someone complain of oh im offended by this or im offended by that. Or craming opinions down other one throats or guilt tripping people all the time to make them feel ashamed of themselves and so on and so fourth. U may get where this is going..For the past many months..maybe even a year now. i can admit to one BIG issue i have within myself..I have a problem with over thinking almost everything all the time on a daily basis. The constant torment of worrying what other people...mostly furs think about me or what there saying behind my back or am i in general consitered a nice person or consitered rude and disrespectful. Questioning others motives and wondering about the fur friends that i have truely are my friends. Constantly trying to change my manners around different people to adapt to how they are just to get along with them. The reality of all this is that no matter what i do i cant please everyone...This constant issue is really becoming antagonistic to my brain. and can prevent me from developing socialy. Ive had this discussions with a few of my fur friends before. But i thought id post it on here for everyone to know what im going through. Reciently i lost 3 supposably fur friends about a month ago due to the fact that i was thought of as clingy and a creeper and not an intersting person and such. Basicaly i was told i had some unhealthy habbits and such. And i was told that if i didnt change these things that they were not gonna be my friends anymore..Well..Can u guess how this ends? They arent my friends anymore..No matter what i say they have already desided in advance not to listen to me. And really what are unhealthy habbits anyway if they are being said of that from someone whos this is making an opinion? Definantly many variables to what is consitered healthy or not. Anyway theres many problems here and while im trying to stop with the over thinking and what not i cant please everyone..There are areas where i think ive been more mature than other people too..Ive delt with furs who get all offended by me calling them cute..How can such a positive compliment be so offensive? If someone calls me cute or even says they want to get me in bed with them really actualy DOESNT bother me. It doesnt nesesaraly mean im gonna do anything with them..But i must have something going on that attracts some furs. And no im not the guy or as its been said the uncle frank of the party who sits by himself in the corner. But yes i am exlpring some things sexualy... And yea i get lonely and sometimes lustfull a bit. But oh well. Its just it get super frusterating how many state how much they get offended about something and everyone else just sits around them just blindly agreeing with them while doing the same thing themselves that others hate. So many furs bashing things..Bashing on Bronies bashing on how oh that guy over there is a furvert cause he likes having sex alot with furries in fursuits and he likes plushies and blah blah blah. This guy did this and this person did that and im tired of it. I just met a nice fur at one of the bowling meets and he was happy to see me again at this one that just happened. And no later than the next day from another one of my fur friends i hear bad roomers about this one furs..We arent in high school anymore. Its time to stop playing the roomer game and to stop putting our offence on a pedistool. Id really like to see furs get along with one another and see past the trivial things so we Really can be all one big happy family. And when people insult me or tell me i should act this way or do something a certain way or whatever..all it does is feed into the problem i have with overthinking. Also with overthinkiing another problem branches off of this with me trying to be a perfectionist on some things and as a part of that i dont like failure. If some of you furs have the same problem i do then comment back. I do try to be flexible as a person so cut me some slack. Im just not gonna be perfect at pleasing your every will. I can understand some other points of view as long as they are logicaly relevant. And i do care for others feelings. Just don't try making me feel inferior for my mistakes as a person. Tha'ts all i have to say about that.