Just letting everyone know that in the coming week I will be switching profiles

Identity
It is something that means little to some while to others it’s everything. I have banned a person from my daughters server who made a comment that is borderline hate speech, saying “you can’t be a woman of culture if you were born with a penis and no boobs or vagina”
This turns my stomach for many reasons.
First of which, I myself have been struggling with identity. For years I felt that I lost who I truly was. It wasn’t until I came to a nice little discord server and met a precious kitty that I was able to find myself. Erza Bear is the identity that I wish I was in real life. However, where and who I am in real life makes it impossible. It’s very common for me to be surrounded by transphobic or homophobic people. I try my best to ignore their views on those subjects cause I believe that friends can still be friends even if they disagree on things.
However, a good chunk of my friends that I have made on discord are either gay or trans. I have grown very fond of them. I know a couple who are struggling with their own identity. And for someone to say that they cannot be a “woman of culture” is trying to prohibit the person from fully experiencing that identity. Who are we to say no?
The person who I banned also said it was not sexism. To say that makes the person not feel recognized as their new identity. To say that he was banned for a “stupid” reason shows that he fails to realize how his comments affect others.
Yes, a person has the right to believe what they wish. But saying what he did imposes his belief on others. While his words were not exactly forceful, they do carry weight. If he said “ I don’t believe in trans” then that will be simply stating his belief. But what he said was beyond that.
I know that not everyone can believe in everything. But this letter is something that I am putting out to clarify my stance.
I did over react to the person. I agree to that. I was burning with rage. Really I should have backed off to clear my head before addressing it. But I still believe what I did was right. He showed no sign of realizing his wrong doing. And to add, I put this ban to a vote and not one person voted to allow him to stay. Not one.

So summarize, I believe that you can have your own beliefs. Not everyone will agree. But comments that are even borderline hate speech can hurt people and what he did can be seen as trying to deny a persons identity.

I don’t know who or what I am
I thought I finally found myself
I thought I finally found freedom
But... I am still trapped inside this god forsaken body.
With this god forsaken mind.
I tell people to never be afraid of expressing themselves.
I tell them they should never be ashamed of who they are
But who am I?
Am I Erza Bear? Dragon girl, born of human parents and got turned into a monster?
Am I a simple quiet man. Who has trouble communicating his thoughts? Not being able to express himself properly. Then causing misunderstanding and/or actually hurting someone.
Am I the strong and beautiful woman who tries her best to guide and push others to be better than they were yesterday?
Am I the man who is over weight and ugly who tries to avoid human contact cause he has very little experience with it?
Who am I?
What the fuck am I?

I’m entering in this raffle I hope you will too
http://www.furaffinity.net/journal/9129024/
I will be advertising this on a couple vore discord servers that I’m in