Little boyo is now 10 months old, crawls in his own way and can stand himself up for a time. He's getting better with his variety of sounds and is just... a handful at times. I wouldn't trade him for the world. The longer and longer I have this dad status, the better I feel and I absolutely love spending time with him.

I lost my job of 4 years and 7 months on the 2nd of November and due to circumstances I will not be able to work in that field ever again. I hate it but I don't have the spoons to fight it and didn't take time to be at a loss about it. I put in applications and accepted a job offer that starts at the end of the month.

I started to do uber eats but was in a motorvehicle accident the 14th, putting my vehicle out of commission and thankfully the accident wasn't my fault, otherwise due to how insurance works, I would have been 100% liable for all damages and the insurance company could have denied my claim. That being said if you are going to drive for amazon flex, uber eats, or any other app based service, make sure you have the insurance policy in place through the app or your provider or you could ruin yourself financially. Insurance agencies have the ability to deny any coverage if you hit someone while in a service otherwise.

I can still do Survey jobs as they don't start till you're on location and don't utilize your vehicle for them, thankfully.

I've drawn a bit since artfight and will probably continue to do so as I'm feeling the urge to again. So if you see more from me, that's why.

Nuucat went into labor on the 19th and our Son came into this world shortly after 9pm. C-section required after several hiccups. Little man is absolutely adorable and loved by all.

I'm a dad. Is a phrase I am still processing

I'm gonna gonna gonna be a dad! Our little boy is due today the 8th, but as this is my wife's first and only pregnancy, he may wait to show up till the 17th. We are going to start attempting to evict him tomorrow, with various means and methods approved by the midwives.

 yoon did this https://www.furaffinity.net/view/38792729/ for us since she's also done a bunch of our other art, it felt right to have her do this one as well. :3

Now for the story of how someone who thought he wouldn't be a dad ever, became a dad.

 Nuucat has been on the depo shot since before we got married, should have had 2 more weeks before the shot ran out (it ran out early, apparently) and where still copulating. The shot's wear off date comes around and no period, and a month later no period, and okay maybe the dates wrong. Taking the test we find out she's pregnant in early Aug, we look to abort right away as we where not planning to have kids, and a cousin steps up saying she will take the baby and adopt him. Wife and I talk with the cousin for a bit and wife decides we are gonna keep the baby. I'm game with this and we move to remove our roommate from the house to make a baby's room. We end up getting some financial support from her parents and mine in the way of stuff for the baby room, a new washer and dryer, etc. So... any day now, I'm gonna be a dad.

Thanks for reading!

I don't do much life updating so here's a bit.

We got married in may, yay!
We got a no-renewaal notice at the end of auguest and had to move late september into my mom's rental house as we where not prepared to do the move, we had planned to just stay there forever (well until we got a permanent home), however the land lord decided they wanted us out and updated the price and changed the floor and shit. Well mom's rental house was CRAP when we got in and now we're getting better at having a house that we can live in, we didn't have cabinets, a kitchen sink, or hot water when we first moved in.

My primary client's health took a turn for the worse in late sept, early October and by the end of October we where not able to keep him in my company's caretaking, so that made me and the rest of my house team forced to become floaters. That being said, I've not had a set schedule since, excluding one day a week.

As you guys probably noticed, I haven't drawn in a bit either, I've been granted a few overnights that make life a little bit easier as If clients are asleep I can get away with drawing at work, so I plan to produce something when I have time.

Stress is high, as we're trying to get cards paid off and I need to go to the dentist, so we're going to have a light holiday giving period, which is good at least I guess.

So and I got married late last week, and we're back from the honeymoon. It will take a few weeks for everything to settle in but we had a good weekend in Fayetteville. Crystal Bridges, Shopping, and tons of great food(Mellow Mushroom, Nomads, Jason's Deli). Anyway! I'm happy to say the married life is for me. I'll upload a picture soon.

So getting married in May, to the wonderful and will probably be changing my legal name to something then it is now. Probably to Ralphie Saeed, and having Nuucat take that as her hypen part of the last name.

Got a new car this year, still waiting on the title, which is dumb and annoying. I have already made a payment on it so my frustartions are rising.

Hit the two year mark working in the special needs home health care field, I'm still working with the two eldest clients in our division. I like the job, and I completely understand that it's not a job you work for the money, but for the people. We have such a high turn over because people can't handle the stressors for the amount of pay.

Been trying to save money, and get healthy, lose some weight before the wedding. That's all I have for now.

Before I buy more fur art. I just got a new car payment too, so there's that. Plus wedding and saving money is a must right now.

I'm not doing photo manipulations anymore, Starting 2019, I don't care if it takes me another day or two to get the pose down right but I'm done using that cheating/shortcut thing that was stippling my growth. I pissed off one senpai to the point she stopped trying to teach me, and I've got several new Senpai who are working with me to improve my art now that I've stopped cheating. They are aware of the trick I was using and have all individually asked me to try to stop, so I am :3.

I hope you continue to support me as I change and grow.

The death of tumblr is upon us. For now, you can follow me at twitter (same handle)

Saving for the wedding, save save save, buy games or art, save some more. Got my credit card paid off thanks to a trash truck hitting my car and the guy who runs the trash company being local, and an all around good guy.

Working my butt off, I had 112 paid hours (worked almost that) the past two weeks, looking at a hell week this week and then everyone can just not ask me to pick up shifts. I'm working 56 hours, including a 16 with a turn around 8 hours later. I can try to give away an hour here or there but otherwise It's gonna be a full 56 for me. Then a day off and another 5 8's, not 6 8's.

Old dude isn't doing as well as he could, my primary consumer. He's had another fall and makes it harder to take care of him as he's not able to walk without assistance and the day is coming, that he won't recover after a few days or a week and we as a unit will have to start looking at life a bit more.

While I'm here,  yoon has a shitty life event and is in the need of cash, and she's not asking for donations, but will do art if ya can get with her. So if ya can help her, I know I'd personally appreciate it.

Turns out the admin in charge of the rest decided to just remove the whole team, myself included, with no warning.
So We've got our own server now, doing all the cool stuff from there, but without this guy.
Hey, look at this, it's an invite link! https://discord.gg/6CGgzej

That means that I draw over a photo, usually that I find from an adult gallery promotion website. I can provide this information within a day or so of a request for it on any recent submission if you wish to see the original image.

I will normally take the image and draw the skeleton bubbles or a rough fast line sketch and then hide the original image, and use it for reference when drawing the harder bits like the feet and hands and what not.

That being said I am not tracing. I've been harassed about doing this in the past and have had artists that have way more business and followers then the ones who have said this is cheating, say that this is an acceptable way to learn. That being said, if you believe this is a "bad" thing, you know where the door is.

This has been a psa, thank's for reading.

Trying to get sundays off to spend with  nuucat. My human is dying, I mean the one I work with the most of the time at least, and while I would be okay with staying with him till the end, but I can't sacrifice my personal happiness at the degree that I am currently. I find myself knowing my worth, and knowing what part of it I won't subject myself to.

I have to get over the "this is the right thing to do" mentality and fight for what I want in life.

I'm really really hoping that she's not dead. I honestly don't think any of their squad should be allowed to die in this series.

Nothing like watching coverage of 9/11 while getting an enema to calm the nerves. Also, nothing like cleaning up after said enema runs it's course.

I'm waiting to branch out and chat more with random furs. So here's what I've got
Line: RalphieSaeed
Discord: Punnchy#0582
Skype: RalpieSaeed
I have all 3 on my phone and downtime during the day and sometimes overnight to text chat.

Got in hot water. Thought I minded my pc's and q's. I'll behave a bit better now. :|

I went 1-2, loosing to the daughter of a friend, and to my roommate. I crushed my first opponent 2-1 and went 0-2 against the roommate, who ended up winning, and 1-2 against the daughter.

Stayed and talked to the store owner with the roommate and another player for nearly an hour, finding out what happened to another store and all the other fun stuff we could find.

Home now and going to journal surf for a bit while I wait on the washer, then off to bed. I've got an am shift and then librarycon.

Okay, so I made sure my tummy was full before I fell asleep.
Then sometime after sun up I woke up, laying on my back and looking slightly to my right, but I couldn't move, right after a nightmare. That is a scary experience. The worst part is the only thing I can remember about said night terror is that I was trying to figure out something to make sure that this wasn't the dream, that I was awake and I was safe.

I can't remember ever having to do that before.

The issue is probably due to me working 67 hours and not really having a day off last week, along with working all shifts and being just a complete hard ass on making sure stuff got done. The nightmare I had earlier is probably due to stressors and I'm thinking that getting this plate finished off, and getting a good night sleep are both in my future. I'm starting some chill out music and gonna crawl into bed sooner then later.

Night folks.

Seriously they suck so much. I had one today when I should have been trying to get a bit more sleep and I thankfully woke up snuggled up to our oldest family cat, molly. Who greeted me with a meow as she was under the covers, right next to me for my body heat.

Anyway, I had a dream that  nuucat had an accident at work and had broken her foot to the point that she was in a cast and that she wouldn't be able to dance this October and she wouldn't be able to work and she'd have trouble getting up and down the stairs and getting dressed and all the things that go with it and that I was having to take care of her and deal with her mental and physical state and still working these super busy weeks.

It scared me and I'm pretty sure it's a stress related dream because I did just work a 67 hour week and I do have a meeting today with my program supervisor.

This house is cold. It's really cold. I'm glad for a bit though, that's what helps people asleep in this house a bit. One dude keeps getting up but it's manageable. How is your night?

The moment you hit enter instead of tab.
Anyway. Hi.
I'm up and random.
Spiderman Homecoming was the shit. I laughed so hard.
Drinking Nuucat's Hypnotic with some dr thunder cause I'm a cheapskate nao.
Playing clicker heroes and watching a stream.
That's about all dogs (and cats, and scalies and rats).
Later.

15 hour day and 3 hours of sleep. Worked 17 hrs yesterday and have an intensive client, who.goes to church, and its baptism sunday. Lots of people. Got my anime watched tho. I will survive.

Okay things to know.
Nuucat and I have been together 5 years now and are planning the wedding.
I've got a new job I've been at since march and I'm loving it. I work with adults with autism in a one on one environment, usually their independent living homes. The pay is good, so much so that I can bring home about $900 every two weeks, depending on mileage, overtime, etc. Other then that I've been spending a good amount of time playing ps4 and ps3, not as much pc stuff as I prepare to replace my current desktop, which is six years old and can't support any more ram.

I've been enjoying Ark and Overwatch on the ps4, and most recently I'm getting into Dragon's Crown on ps3.

I'm currently getting more and more art from my favorite artist and looking forward to the convention I help run coming up this October. This is my 6th year attending and 4th or 5th year as staff.

Other then that I'm teaching myself to animate in open toonz and we've still got the same roomate since feb. Anyway, that's all for now. Comment me if you like, I'm almost certain to respond.

Spent the day with my fiance , and two of my besties and . We ate golden coral and then went to the mall. I got myself one game, while Nuu got socks and little single pouch purses. Zif and Kavori grabbed a jacket and some stickers and got me some pokemon ear ring studs. Split from them and then over to the gamestop by our house to pick up Diablo 3 ultimate and nuucat another amibo for AC:NL.

There was other adulting earlier in the day over to the career center, but bahhh.