To all of you struggling out there: there is going to be someone out there going through the same shite as you. Usually, those people are only about ten feet from you. I have seen some f'd up shite in my life, most of which is too horrible to mention. But, I have pulled through, loss, death, pain, and general F'd-upness. There are those out there that think what they are going through is unique, but really, it isn't. As my grandmother said to me: "You can't go through life living on the sidelines, as nothing more than a blind fool. You have to pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and move on."
Now, if you're reading this and thinking: this guy is so derivitive. Well, here is something to think about, have you ever seen someone killed right in front of you? By a car? Where you were so close, that their blood spattered your shirt? Think about that during coffee hour.

You have just listened to another one of Dr. N. Augustine's rants, thank you for reading.

there are times in life where thing happen that you can't control.
I am saying that when something goes wrong, that you should look past it, think to the future and always remember your mistakes.

(There's a little bit of wisdom for you)