Megadeth/Disturbed Gig & Lion Lodge ZSL ~
Posted 2 days agoRight, on the 26th of October, me and
are going to the Disturbed / Megadeth gig coming up in London at the o2, super stoked!
Date night with some good music, can't fuckin' wait. <3
On the 31st of October (Halloween Night) we're staying at The Lion Lodge at ZSL (London Zoo) for a nice meal, a trip around to see the animals and stay by the Lodges by the Lions. <3
Then in the morning, a good breakfast and maybe a look around before we shimmy on back to normality.
I will be busy those days, so if you can't reach me - thats why. ^_^
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-- Thrasher / Wolfie
xx
are going to the Disturbed / Megadeth gig coming up in London at the o2, super stoked!Date night with some good music, can't fuckin' wait. <3
On the 31st of October (Halloween Night) we're staying at The Lion Lodge at ZSL (London Zoo) for a nice meal, a trip around to see the animals and stay by the Lodges by the Lions. <3
Then in the morning, a good breakfast and maybe a look around before we shimmy on back to normality.
I will be busy those days, so if you can't reach me - thats why. ^_^
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-- Thrasher / Wolfie
xx
14th October 2025 : Buddy Crossed The Rainbow Bridge ~
Posted a week agoPlease be gentle,
and I have lost a dear companion, friend and amazing pup.
Buddy has gone on to his next adventure, I hope he's being his daft self somewhere over that Rainbow Bridge.
I know my ol' Hannibal will keep him safe. (I miss you Hannibal. My grandads ol' Dobie.)
Buddy was a Staffordshire Terrier, has been with us though thick and thin, he's saved me and Tumaini many times.
15 years of friendship, watching him decline so rapidly was...upsetting.
But he's free now.
Free to be the forever Good Boy he was, is, ever - I love you Buddy.
I could tell you so many stories, even the days when he wouldn't go to sleep at night, so i'd sleep with him in the kitchen, in his bed when he was a pup - i'd make sure he was safe and warm.
I'm missing him so bad, but please keep
in your hearts too.
RIP Buddy.
- Thrasher / Wolfie
xx
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and I have lost a dear companion, friend and amazing pup.Buddy has gone on to his next adventure, I hope he's being his daft self somewhere over that Rainbow Bridge.
I know my ol' Hannibal will keep him safe. (I miss you Hannibal. My grandads ol' Dobie.)
Buddy was a Staffordshire Terrier, has been with us though thick and thin, he's saved me and Tumaini many times.
15 years of friendship, watching him decline so rapidly was...upsetting.
But he's free now.
Free to be the forever Good Boy he was, is, ever - I love you Buddy.
I could tell you so many stories, even the days when he wouldn't go to sleep at night, so i'd sleep with him in the kitchen, in his bed when he was a pup - i'd make sure he was safe and warm.
I'm missing him so bad, but please keep
in your hearts too.RIP Buddy.
- Thrasher / Wolfie
xx
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Feeling Better / Updates / Thank You ~
Posted 2 weeks agoHey fluffies, its your local poom checking in!
Been a bit more under-the-weather than I thought, the cold bug seems to have gone but a bit of a cough has developed. My only theory is that its normal to clear the rest of the yuckies out.
Other than that, i'm back streaming every Tues and Thurs night on Twitch : https://www.twitch.tv/thrashermaddog
Usually gaming with a touch of technical difficulties, lol. A good talk usually with my Chat in the beginning. Its all easy-going so you are welcome to join in!
There's a lot going on behind the scenes, a lot of planning and a lot of ideas.
I've got WIP's by the pawful I want to get finished so will be working on those projects for sure.
Commissions ARE OPEN - but bare in mind I am still a little poorly. So might not be the fastest during this time.
I do have good news, my
and I will be going to Confuzzled 2026 , after a good talk we decided we couldn't miss out on an event on Musical themes! Tumaini and I being musicians, my tiger is working hard on learning songs on the piano for everyone to enjoy! Although myself as a drummer, I have no drums to play there so might have to drunkenly serenade you after a few pints.
If your lucky you might get some Irish outta me. XD
But yes, Confuzzled 2026, lesssgoooo!
I just want to thank everyone who donated to the GoFundMe for the court costs that are still ongoing, those who shared, reposted, you all mean so much to me and my friend.
Its still a very rough situation, thankfully things are in motion. We just got to cross everything to help this go through and get justice back on our side.
I can't thank you enough. You have my ultimate thanks and fluff, love, warm stuff and hugs. Support has been amazing.
Once this is over, we can finally relax and get back to our lives.
Thank you ever so much.
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-- Thrasher / Wolfie
xx
Been a bit more under-the-weather than I thought, the cold bug seems to have gone but a bit of a cough has developed. My only theory is that its normal to clear the rest of the yuckies out.
Other than that, i'm back streaming every Tues and Thurs night on Twitch : https://www.twitch.tv/thrashermaddog
Usually gaming with a touch of technical difficulties, lol. A good talk usually with my Chat in the beginning. Its all easy-going so you are welcome to join in!
There's a lot going on behind the scenes, a lot of planning and a lot of ideas.
I've got WIP's by the pawful I want to get finished so will be working on those projects for sure.
Commissions ARE OPEN - but bare in mind I am still a little poorly. So might not be the fastest during this time.
I do have good news, my
and I will be going to Confuzzled 2026 , after a good talk we decided we couldn't miss out on an event on Musical themes! Tumaini and I being musicians, my tiger is working hard on learning songs on the piano for everyone to enjoy! Although myself as a drummer, I have no drums to play there so might have to drunkenly serenade you after a few pints.If your lucky you might get some Irish outta me. XD
But yes, Confuzzled 2026, lesssgoooo!
I just want to thank everyone who donated to the GoFundMe for the court costs that are still ongoing, those who shared, reposted, you all mean so much to me and my friend.
Its still a very rough situation, thankfully things are in motion. We just got to cross everything to help this go through and get justice back on our side.
I can't thank you enough. You have my ultimate thanks and fluff, love, warm stuff and hugs. Support has been amazing.
Once this is over, we can finally relax and get back to our lives.
Thank you ever so much.
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-- Thrasher / Wolfie
xx
GoFundMe / Court Costs (Update) ~
Posted a month agoThere's not a lot I can say right now, as things have been incredibly tough on my best friend, we're still fighting to get her cat back through the court and still trying to keep up with the costs.
The gofundme is still active, so please, spread the word, donate. Anything.
https://gofund.me/f773618d8
https://gofund.me/f773618d8
https://gofund.me/f773618d8
Thankfully, we're still breathing, still fighting for justice here at a time where it all seems to be backfiring due to a solicitors mistake. So she's had to fork out around £300 GBP to get back and fight.
To say this ordeal is stressful is putting it lightly, I feel awful. Like, the night terrors are becoming intense, god knows how my friend is feeling at this moment.
All I know is i'll fight beside her.
We just need a little more help, if you feel you can help us...thank you.
To those who have helped in the past, it wasn't in vain, but its still very much a real thing and still ongoing.
We can't update or talk more about it, due to court rules from the first case.
Sorry if its a little vague, just please help her...she means the world to me.
Thank you for listening, getting this far, any future donations - you have my ultimate love and thanks. <3
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-- Thrasher / Wolfie
xx
The gofundme is still active, so please, spread the word, donate. Anything.
https://gofund.me/f773618d8
https://gofund.me/f773618d8
https://gofund.me/f773618d8
Thankfully, we're still breathing, still fighting for justice here at a time where it all seems to be backfiring due to a solicitors mistake. So she's had to fork out around £300 GBP to get back and fight.
To say this ordeal is stressful is putting it lightly, I feel awful. Like, the night terrors are becoming intense, god knows how my friend is feeling at this moment.
All I know is i'll fight beside her.
We just need a little more help, if you feel you can help us...thank you.
To those who have helped in the past, it wasn't in vain, but its still very much a real thing and still ongoing.
We can't update or talk more about it, due to court rules from the first case.
Sorry if its a little vague, just please help her...she means the world to me.
Thank you for listening, getting this far, any future donations - you have my ultimate love and thanks. <3
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-- Thrasher / Wolfie
xx
Back In London / Commissions Open! ~
Posted a month agoRight, been at Chu's for a good long week of fun and shenanigans.
Also to do with other things I cannot mention at this time. (Bare With Me On That One.)
I'm back in London, had some time to recharge and I feel like getting back to Commissions!
Commissions are open!
Price Sheet : https://www.furaffinity.net/view/61908544/
Please note me if you are interested, or drop a comment below. ^_^
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Sorry for the sort Journal, getting ready for bed. <3
-- Thrasher / Wolfie
xx
Also to do with other things I cannot mention at this time. (Bare With Me On That One.)
I'm back in London, had some time to recharge and I feel like getting back to Commissions!
Commissions are open!
Price Sheet : https://www.furaffinity.net/view/61908544/
Please note me if you are interested, or drop a comment below. ^_^
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Sorry for the sort Journal, getting ready for bed. <3
-- Thrasher / Wolfie
xx
Commissions Closing ~
Posted 2 months agoSorry to anyone who would like a commission or anything, i'm going to have to shut down for September.
Court and other things going in my life, I just can't commit to commissioned art.
Once things settle, i'll be back onto comms and back in action.
Life comes first and it'll be rough.
Love you fluffs.
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-- Thrasher / Wolfie
xx
Court and other things going in my life, I just can't commit to commissioned art.
Once things settle, i'll be back onto comms and back in action.
Life comes first and it'll be rough.
Love you fluffs.
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-- Thrasher / Wolfie
xx
Live Soon! SCP Containment Breach! ~
Posted 2 months agohttps://www.twitch.tv/thrashermaddog
https://www.twitch.tv/thrashermaddog
https://www.twitch.tv/thrashermaddog
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Come join the madness!
<3
- Thrasher / Wolfie
xx
https://www.twitch.tv/thrashermaddog
https://www.twitch.tv/thrashermaddog
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Come join the madness!
<3
- Thrasher / Wolfie
xx
Streaming On Twitch at 8pm UK Time! ~
Posted 2 months agoWill be Streaming On Twitch at 8pm UK Time!
Gonna do more of SCP Containment Breach and i'm LOST! Haha.
https://www.twitch.tv/thrashermaddog
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Come join in the chat, to make sure security is in check - you will have to wait 10 mins before you can enter chat!
This is just a precaution. <3
Remember to let me know who you are if you do wanna join in! <3
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-- Thrasher / Wolfie
xx
Gonna do more of SCP Containment Breach and i'm LOST! Haha.
https://www.twitch.tv/thrashermaddog
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Come join in the chat, to make sure security is in check - you will have to wait 10 mins before you can enter chat!
This is just a precaution. <3
Remember to let me know who you are if you do wanna join in! <3
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-- Thrasher / Wolfie
xx
Twitch Affiliate! :D ~
Posted 2 months agoThe last few days have been amazing, streaming, getting to talk to my friends more and playing games, being a crazy lion on-stream.
Really enjoying working with my bestie during the week on-stream.
Snep and Lion shenanigans!
But thank you, thank you so much to those who have followed, supported and been there for me when i've been nervous.
Big thanks to Chu for nudging me gently like a brick in this direction, hehe.
Thank you's to
for being supportive and a good sport during these streams where i've been feeling scared and pacing around the flat. Haha.
If you'd like to join the madness. Please do!
https://www.twitch.tv/ThrasherMadDog
Thank you again!
- Thrasher / Wolfie
xx
Really enjoying working with my bestie during the week on-stream.
Snep and Lion shenanigans!
But thank you, thank you so much to those who have followed, supported and been there for me when i've been nervous.
Big thanks to Chu for nudging me gently like a brick in this direction, hehe.
Thank you's to
for being supportive and a good sport during these streams where i've been feeling scared and pacing around the flat. Haha.If you'd like to join the madness. Please do!
https://www.twitch.tv/ThrasherMadDog
Thank you again!
- Thrasher / Wolfie
xx
Update On Court ~
Posted 2 months agoA huge thank you to everyone!
A very very big thank you from myself and my friend.
We've covered all current costs and anything else made by the GoFundMe will go to keeping us ready for the big dates, keep the catfam happy and safety measures around the flat.
This is by no means over yet, we still have a huge fight and getting her cat back, fighting these allegations and other bull her ex has thrown at her is our next battle.
All I know is, without you all, this community, we have a fighting chance.
Tearing up a little because this means something so intensely to me, i've never done anything like this in my life, court scares me so I will probably be a nervous wreck helping my friend on the days it happens but I am determined none the less to be there for her. I've been told to not let my emotions and anger, the injustices thrown her way, get at me in the least. But I will fight where I need to.
Please send all good vibes to my bestie. She really needs it.
Little messages of support are welcome. <3
Thank you for being there.
-- Thrasher / Wolfie
xx
A very very big thank you from myself and my friend.
We've covered all current costs and anything else made by the GoFundMe will go to keeping us ready for the big dates, keep the catfam happy and safety measures around the flat.
This is by no means over yet, we still have a huge fight and getting her cat back, fighting these allegations and other bull her ex has thrown at her is our next battle.
All I know is, without you all, this community, we have a fighting chance.
Tearing up a little because this means something so intensely to me, i've never done anything like this in my life, court scares me so I will probably be a nervous wreck helping my friend on the days it happens but I am determined none the less to be there for her. I've been told to not let my emotions and anger, the injustices thrown her way, get at me in the least. But I will fight where I need to.
Please send all good vibes to my bestie. She really needs it.
Little messages of support are welcome. <3
Thank you for being there.
-- Thrasher / Wolfie
xx
Little Victories / Update-ish ~
Posted 3 months agoWorn myself out today!
Tidied the kitchen up ready for the next fresh food shop.
Cleaned all the Cutlery, including knives! (I usually avoid sharp knives due to bad impulses.)
Threw the rubbish out despite the neighbours being loud and obnoxious, managed to get out there and get things down the Bin Chute.
Shopping was a fiasco.
Half of it turned up. SO I got on the phone and chased things in circles...got some credit to re-order, so did so - and thankfully it went well!
Turns out my local supermarket was just having a LOT of issues, the lady I talked to was very nice, understanding and we had a little talk which was lovely! :D
She was very kind, I did have the intention of going full turbo complaint but she genuinely found my list of items to re-order fun and healthy haha.
So whoever you are, you made me smile. ❤
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Put the shopping away, sorted my computer out for the night and then played Phasmophobia with Chu!
Really fun night all around.
Bit of a headache and i'm still feeling hyper - so gonna chill out and wind down with some videos or maybe something brainless on streaming channels.
I'm happy, I did what I could before pain and a bit of a brainache set in.
Its crazy. I used to be able to weightlift, train and walk myself to other towns and stuff. With Fibromyalgia and Chronic issues/pain in my left leg/hip - I've lost ALL the strength in my body I had. My problem is, is that I treat my body like I can still lift heavy, push myself, and pay the price. Chu and
have been supportive as hell and i'm still learning/testing my limits.
I was told to move slower to get things done at a steady pace, I can't do that. I go fast, part of me believes i've still got my scrawny lean muscle and its hard to unregister those thoughts.
Living in pain is no fun, pain clinic has been deathly silent and really pushing my temper.
I use edibles and my medication to tolerate and survive. Sometimes an edible just to switch the brain off for a little while and attempt sleep where its failed before without it.
Pain sucks, lol.
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My mental state has been...drifting...but I am trying to fight past the darker days and get back on track with art and pottering around while I can deal with my leg pain.
Its exhausting emotionally, physically and mentally...very draining.
Still waiting on the GIC too. Its becoming a lost hope, but thankfully i've been going to more LGBTQ+ events and bars now n' then so I feel less down.
(Even got called Sir and passed as male naturally. SQUEE!!)
I have a slight, light beard which is growing wild - I don't care, it suits me. <3
Other than that, things are going steady.
Still got my battles behind the scenes, some of you know, some don't.
But been feeling like if I keep little victories coming and going, it'll be alright.
Hope you all are well and keeping safe.
Slowly getting there.
Sending hugs, fluff and good stuff out to all of you.
- Thrasher / Wolfie
xx
Tidied the kitchen up ready for the next fresh food shop.
Cleaned all the Cutlery, including knives! (I usually avoid sharp knives due to bad impulses.)
Threw the rubbish out despite the neighbours being loud and obnoxious, managed to get out there and get things down the Bin Chute.
Shopping was a fiasco.
Half of it turned up. SO I got on the phone and chased things in circles...got some credit to re-order, so did so - and thankfully it went well!
Turns out my local supermarket was just having a LOT of issues, the lady I talked to was very nice, understanding and we had a little talk which was lovely! :D
She was very kind, I did have the intention of going full turbo complaint but she genuinely found my list of items to re-order fun and healthy haha.
So whoever you are, you made me smile. ❤
-
Put the shopping away, sorted my computer out for the night and then played Phasmophobia with Chu!
Really fun night all around.
Bit of a headache and i'm still feeling hyper - so gonna chill out and wind down with some videos or maybe something brainless on streaming channels.
I'm happy, I did what I could before pain and a bit of a brainache set in.
Its crazy. I used to be able to weightlift, train and walk myself to other towns and stuff. With Fibromyalgia and Chronic issues/pain in my left leg/hip - I've lost ALL the strength in my body I had. My problem is, is that I treat my body like I can still lift heavy, push myself, and pay the price. Chu and
have been supportive as hell and i'm still learning/testing my limits.I was told to move slower to get things done at a steady pace, I can't do that. I go fast, part of me believes i've still got my scrawny lean muscle and its hard to unregister those thoughts.
Living in pain is no fun, pain clinic has been deathly silent and really pushing my temper.
I use edibles and my medication to tolerate and survive. Sometimes an edible just to switch the brain off for a little while and attempt sleep where its failed before without it.
Pain sucks, lol.
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My mental state has been...drifting...but I am trying to fight past the darker days and get back on track with art and pottering around while I can deal with my leg pain.
Its exhausting emotionally, physically and mentally...very draining.
Still waiting on the GIC too. Its becoming a lost hope, but thankfully i've been going to more LGBTQ+ events and bars now n' then so I feel less down.
(Even got called Sir and passed as male naturally. SQUEE!!)
I have a slight, light beard which is growing wild - I don't care, it suits me. <3
Other than that, things are going steady.
Still got my battles behind the scenes, some of you know, some don't.
But been feeling like if I keep little victories coming and going, it'll be alright.
Hope you all are well and keeping safe.
Slowly getting there.
Sending hugs, fluff and good stuff out to all of you.
- Thrasher / Wolfie
xx
Date/Gig Night : Judas Priest & Alice Cooper (o2, London) ~
Posted 3 months agoHad a most excellent night with my
who took me to the o2 to see my favourite musicians live in the flesh!
Good food, good drink and a Booth / Bar with some awesome like-minded people!
It felt good to have a night away from everything, forget my woes for a wee bit before continuing with life. Haha.
Really had a good time!
They had Alice Cooper's current band and his original band from the 70's - plus a very wonderful guitarist and fellow vampire, Johnny Depp! (He plays most excellently..)
Judas Priest, the band was awesome. They brought out the motorbike and Rob Halford - your scream popped my left ear so i'm a little hard of hearing, well worth it!
Phil Cambell and The Bastard Sons? OMG. They played some good, heavy Rock n Roll and It was DIRTY as FUCK. I loved it!
The stage shows were grand, and I loved everything about everything.
The food was delicious in the Booth! Korean Chicken and Salad, very yummy.
had trout with sauce and it smelt awesome!
This was a well-needed step away from the world outside and its horribleness going on right now.
Losing Ozzy Osbourne was hard on a lot of us Metalheads and Musicians, the tributes during the shows tonight were tear-jerking and incredibly loud, powerful and emotional.
I hope you heard us Oz-Man! We love you! <3
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Now back home with my Tigerbutt and yes, i'm sore but not deterred. I feel a strange tired energy, i've not slept well in a week or two so i'm running on fumes.
I'm inspired, I feel good, I feel like I can kick some ass and take a few names.
Really want to thank my wonderful mate/boyfriend for tonight.
He's such a sweet-tiger. <3
Time for rest, recharging and back on the saddle again.
*Purrs Happily*
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- Thrasher / Wolfie
xx
who took me to the o2 to see my favourite musicians live in the flesh!Good food, good drink and a Booth / Bar with some awesome like-minded people!
It felt good to have a night away from everything, forget my woes for a wee bit before continuing with life. Haha.
Really had a good time!
They had Alice Cooper's current band and his original band from the 70's - plus a very wonderful guitarist and fellow vampire, Johnny Depp! (He plays most excellently..)
Judas Priest, the band was awesome. They brought out the motorbike and Rob Halford - your scream popped my left ear so i'm a little hard of hearing, well worth it!
Phil Cambell and The Bastard Sons? OMG. They played some good, heavy Rock n Roll and It was DIRTY as FUCK. I loved it!
The stage shows were grand, and I loved everything about everything.
The food was delicious in the Booth! Korean Chicken and Salad, very yummy.
had trout with sauce and it smelt awesome!This was a well-needed step away from the world outside and its horribleness going on right now.
Losing Ozzy Osbourne was hard on a lot of us Metalheads and Musicians, the tributes during the shows tonight were tear-jerking and incredibly loud, powerful and emotional.
I hope you heard us Oz-Man! We love you! <3
---
Now back home with my Tigerbutt and yes, i'm sore but not deterred. I feel a strange tired energy, i've not slept well in a week or two so i'm running on fumes.
I'm inspired, I feel good, I feel like I can kick some ass and take a few names.
Really want to thank my wonderful mate/boyfriend for tonight.
He's such a sweet-tiger. <3
Time for rest, recharging and back on the saddle again.
*Purrs Happily*
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- Thrasher / Wolfie
xx
GoFundMe / Court Costs ~
Posted 3 months agoI ask of you, if you are willing to commission me, please spend your money on the Gofundme instead.
We need a final push of £500 GBP to get Joey a chance of getting back home. (Joey is her cat who was stolen by her Ex Fiance and his family by brute force in her own home.)
Please donate, we've managed to cover the other court costs, thankfully. Just this last part to have ANY hope.
We don't have long and the Ex will not/never take him to a vet as they know Joey will be held under law and returned to my friend.
If he gets sick or hurt, god forbid. I'd hate to think about it.
The Gofundme is here : https://gofund.me/7806373e
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Please help us get little Joey home.
We need your help.
- Thrasher / Wolfie
xx
We need a final push of £500 GBP to get Joey a chance of getting back home. (Joey is her cat who was stolen by her Ex Fiance and his family by brute force in her own home.)
Please donate, we've managed to cover the other court costs, thankfully. Just this last part to have ANY hope.
We don't have long and the Ex will not/never take him to a vet as they know Joey will be held under law and returned to my friend.
If he gets sick or hurt, god forbid. I'd hate to think about it.
The Gofundme is here : https://gofund.me/7806373e
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Please help us get little Joey home.
We need your help.
- Thrasher / Wolfie
xx
REST IN PEACE : OZZY OSBOURNE ~
Posted 3 months agoToday we lost Ozzy.
I'm utterly heartbroken.
I cried. A lot. I probably will again.
Rest well, Oz Man.
See you on the other side.
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- Thrasher / Wolfie
xx
I'm utterly heartbroken.
I cried. A lot. I probably will again.
Rest well, Oz Man.
See you on the other side.
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- Thrasher / Wolfie
xx
GoFundMe / Please Help My Friend ~
Posted 3 months agoRemember a little while go my friend and I were going through some horrible situations.
Well, Court is calling us to get things moving.
Some of the funds raised have already been paid towards the whole ordeal, some has been used to keep my friend afloat and keeping herself safe.
Changing the locks, keeping safe is her main priority right now.
But.
We need help. I call upon the power of my watchers, fans and friends here on FA.
We have to raise £1750 GBP within a small scale of time to keep us in the fight to 1. Fight back against vulgar claims in court. 2. Fight for little Joey, her kitten/cat who was ambushed and stolen from us.
Court isn't cheap, solicitors are not cheap...but we need to fight back against a lot of nasty lies, theft and all kinds of allegations.
The spite from the other side has been incredibly damaging, so I call upon your help.
I'm also preparing a statement for court as a witness to these events.
Please, if you can spare anything.
https://gofund.me/7a09e972
https://gofund.me/7a09e972
https://gofund.me/7a09e972
Please, anything will help. We need to fight 2 court cases and get little Joey back to his mumma.
They will not take him to a vet until they have won this court case on the opposing side, as law will hold Joey at the vets for my friend. This is cruel behaviour as well as spiteful.
We need Joey home, we need these court cases fought off and we have less than a week and a bit to raise our goals.
Please. I may have to shut down commissions until Court, so I can focus on my friends welfare and keep my own sanity through this.
The gofundme will be updated with all the information once written up. <3
Thank you.
I wouldn't ask if it wasn't a serious thing.
Love you all.
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-- Thrasher / Wolfie
Ps. If you'd like to donate in a quicker way, please send to : https://www.paypal.com/pools/c/9gAxkcn5G5
Many thanks in advance, please spread the word and/or donate.
xxx
Well, Court is calling us to get things moving.
Some of the funds raised have already been paid towards the whole ordeal, some has been used to keep my friend afloat and keeping herself safe.
Changing the locks, keeping safe is her main priority right now.
But.
We need help. I call upon the power of my watchers, fans and friends here on FA.
We have to raise £1750 GBP within a small scale of time to keep us in the fight to 1. Fight back against vulgar claims in court. 2. Fight for little Joey, her kitten/cat who was ambushed and stolen from us.
Court isn't cheap, solicitors are not cheap...but we need to fight back against a lot of nasty lies, theft and all kinds of allegations.
The spite from the other side has been incredibly damaging, so I call upon your help.
I'm also preparing a statement for court as a witness to these events.
Please, if you can spare anything.
https://gofund.me/7a09e972
https://gofund.me/7a09e972
https://gofund.me/7a09e972
Please, anything will help. We need to fight 2 court cases and get little Joey back to his mumma.
They will not take him to a vet until they have won this court case on the opposing side, as law will hold Joey at the vets for my friend. This is cruel behaviour as well as spiteful.
We need Joey home, we need these court cases fought off and we have less than a week and a bit to raise our goals.
Please. I may have to shut down commissions until Court, so I can focus on my friends welfare and keep my own sanity through this.
The gofundme will be updated with all the information once written up. <3
Thank you.
I wouldn't ask if it wasn't a serious thing.
Love you all.
-
-- Thrasher / Wolfie
Ps. If you'd like to donate in a quicker way, please send to : https://www.paypal.com/pools/c/9gAxkcn5G5
Many thanks in advance, please spread the word and/or donate.
xxx
Commissions Open! ~
Posted 3 months agoPRICE SHEET :
https://www.furaffinity.net/view/61479401/
https://www.furaffinity.net/view/61479401/
https://www.furaffinity.net/view/61479401/
Prices are slightly adjusted for Detailed.
Other than that, offering 3 types of Commission!
Flats, Detailed and Ref Sheets.
Hope to see you soon!
Thank You!
- Thrasher / Wolfie
xx
https://www.furaffinity.net/view/61479401/
https://www.furaffinity.net/view/61479401/
https://www.furaffinity.net/view/61479401/
Prices are slightly adjusted for Detailed.
Other than that, offering 3 types of Commission!
Flats, Detailed and Ref Sheets.
Hope to see you soon!
Thank You!
- Thrasher / Wolfie
xx
Commissions Opening Soon! ~
Posted 4 months agoHey guys, been a hot and hot hot and hot hot hot week here in the UK!
You know how badly I do in hot weather, so i'll just sit in a puddle. XD
I said i'd open around/on the 21st but the weather is making it hard to draw and stuff, as i'm prone to heatstroke I get headaches.
BUT!
I will say I am opening Monday 23rd June for Commissions!
Will have a new price sheet and stuff available!
Prices won't change much, but i'm happy to take on SFW at the start and maybe later on in the year, move to NSFW. ^_^
I specialise in Ferals, Werewolves, TLK but can try my paws at anything except humans.
I adore TLK / Feral / Big Cats and Wolves, so the more the merrier.
Be ready for a new Price Sheet!
Then we'll get this show on the road, shall we? ^_^;
Love you all, hope to see you soon!
Meanwhile, keep cool, hydrated and in the shadows!
--
- Thrasher / Wolfie
xx
You know how badly I do in hot weather, so i'll just sit in a puddle. XD
I said i'd open around/on the 21st but the weather is making it hard to draw and stuff, as i'm prone to heatstroke I get headaches.
BUT!
I will say I am opening Monday 23rd June for Commissions!
Will have a new price sheet and stuff available!
Prices won't change much, but i'm happy to take on SFW at the start and maybe later on in the year, move to NSFW. ^_^
I specialise in Ferals, Werewolves, TLK but can try my paws at anything except humans.
I adore TLK / Feral / Big Cats and Wolves, so the more the merrier.
Be ready for a new Price Sheet!
Then we'll get this show on the road, shall we? ^_^;
Love you all, hope to see you soon!
Meanwhile, keep cool, hydrated and in the shadows!
--
- Thrasher / Wolfie
xx
Opening Commissions 21st June ~
Posted 4 months agoHey guys, thanks to a fair boost in confidence, a little adjustment with pills, therapy calls and help from my friends n' boyfriend...I feel well enough to open Commissions!
Its been a long, hard road with lots of hills and i'm still in the wrong gear, but doing better.
Chugging along at a pace i'm happy with now. :)
Still dealing with a lot, which you all know so I won't go into that again unless it rears up once more.
I will be making new Price Sheet with some adjusted prices, but nothing too drastic. <3
I just want to thank you for the support and kindness you've shown me, I appreciate all of you!
Slowly getting back to my 'normal' self, i'm inspired again and feel ready to sort my Commissions and stuff out. <3
Love you all, thank you for your patience with me. <3
Love and Fluff,
-
-- Thrasher / Wolfie
xx
Its been a long, hard road with lots of hills and i'm still in the wrong gear, but doing better.
Chugging along at a pace i'm happy with now. :)
Still dealing with a lot, which you all know so I won't go into that again unless it rears up once more.
I will be making new Price Sheet with some adjusted prices, but nothing too drastic. <3
I just want to thank you for the support and kindness you've shown me, I appreciate all of you!
Slowly getting back to my 'normal' self, i'm inspired again and feel ready to sort my Commissions and stuff out. <3
Love you all, thank you for your patience with me. <3
Love and Fluff,
-
-- Thrasher / Wolfie
xx
Just A Few Things ~
Posted 5 months agoHey guys, its been a short while, eh?
Sorry i'm not more chatty or anything, I really am trying to be more active n' all but my mind and mental health just isn't great.
I'm riddled with depression, anxiety various other factors that won't let me settle anymore. Not to sound dramatic...but a lot is still going on.
I recently had a falling out with an old friend, I dont know what happened but I can't process it as I dont know what went on or understand it all.
I've had a fall, spraining my shoulder in the process, but i'm healing from that slowly. Thankfully not my drawing arm.
I'm still concerned about the situation going on with my bestie, of which we're still being hounded and stalked.
Really feeling bad about things of late, not to mention I don't feel good enough for anyone anymore...it stings but its hard to ignore those evil little voices in my head.
Thing is, I just want a bit of peace and I still can't find it. Not even with sleep or naps...things chase me down even when I feel safe enough to rest up.
I really am trying to not beat myself up, but its hard.
BPD symptoms have been a major problem...I can't control much of it anymore.
I've been avoiding therapy, because they want me to do zoom calls and its hard for me to even interact with people, let alone strangers online on camera.
I just have no drive, nothing is keeping me happy and my hobbies, my passions fall short of anything....
Commissions will remain closed for a little longer, I just can't bring myself to work for others , paid work feels stressful and i'm so sorry i'm letting people down.
I really do want to get back to arting for people, I miss you guys.
With me self-esteem being so broken and stuff, its probably best I don't until I feel confident enough to do so.
Just wishing I could break out of this and be the person I need to be.
-
- Thrasher / Wolfie
xx
Sorry i'm not more chatty or anything, I really am trying to be more active n' all but my mind and mental health just isn't great.
I'm riddled with depression, anxiety various other factors that won't let me settle anymore. Not to sound dramatic...but a lot is still going on.
I recently had a falling out with an old friend, I dont know what happened but I can't process it as I dont know what went on or understand it all.
I've had a fall, spraining my shoulder in the process, but i'm healing from that slowly. Thankfully not my drawing arm.
I'm still concerned about the situation going on with my bestie, of which we're still being hounded and stalked.
Really feeling bad about things of late, not to mention I don't feel good enough for anyone anymore...it stings but its hard to ignore those evil little voices in my head.
Thing is, I just want a bit of peace and I still can't find it. Not even with sleep or naps...things chase me down even when I feel safe enough to rest up.
I really am trying to not beat myself up, but its hard.
BPD symptoms have been a major problem...I can't control much of it anymore.
I've been avoiding therapy, because they want me to do zoom calls and its hard for me to even interact with people, let alone strangers online on camera.
I just have no drive, nothing is keeping me happy and my hobbies, my passions fall short of anything....
Commissions will remain closed for a little longer, I just can't bring myself to work for others , paid work feels stressful and i'm so sorry i'm letting people down.
I really do want to get back to arting for people, I miss you guys.
With me self-esteem being so broken and stuff, its probably best I don't until I feel confident enough to do so.
Just wishing I could break out of this and be the person I need to be.
-
- Thrasher / Wolfie
xx
Commissions Closed, I'm Sorry ~
Posted 5 months agoBeen dealing with a lot lately, and I think I need to shut down for my own mental health's sake.
I'm sorry, but I don't feel too confident art-wise but i'll keep uploading personal work, so i'm not going anywhere.
Once I feel confident and less trapped inside my mental battles, i'll open commissions.
If you wish to support me, please note I will still make adoptable art, so please keep an eye out for those.
Might sell a few designs I own too, as my folder is getting a little too large. I love supporting and getting art, but think I need to downsize a little. <3
But been a little shaky due to my RSI and stress flare ups, so apologies regarding wobbles in any lineart, doesn't help with the scarred knuckles but i'm working through it.
Thank you for your support, i'll still be around to talk to and working on art.
I also, thanks to
, have a smaller tablet from Huion, where i'm learning to work with it on a smaller canvas - but its better for travelling and transporting. <3
Love you all, much fluff,
--
- Thrasher / Wolfie
xx
I'm sorry, but I don't feel too confident art-wise but i'll keep uploading personal work, so i'm not going anywhere.
Once I feel confident and less trapped inside my mental battles, i'll open commissions.
If you wish to support me, please note I will still make adoptable art, so please keep an eye out for those.
Might sell a few designs I own too, as my folder is getting a little too large. I love supporting and getting art, but think I need to downsize a little. <3
But been a little shaky due to my RSI and stress flare ups, so apologies regarding wobbles in any lineart, doesn't help with the scarred knuckles but i'm working through it.
Thank you for your support, i'll still be around to talk to and working on art.
I also, thanks to
, have a smaller tablet from Huion, where i'm learning to work with it on a smaller canvas - but its better for travelling and transporting. <3Love you all, much fluff,
--
- Thrasher / Wolfie
xx
Tired But Doing Things ~
Posted 5 months agoSlowly getting there, thanks to you and my close friends.
The support has has been immense over the last few weeks and i've had so many wonderful messages. <3
I love you lot, you know that right?
Thank you all for being so kind and patient with me.
Had a few knocks back but i'm coping better. Stress keeps fucking with my head but i'm stabilising mentally I think.
has been a saint. I love you Tigerbutt. <3
-
With art, i'm still finding myself stuck in cycles of depression, not being able to draw, to being inspired by something, then having a crash...but i'm hoping it'll break out soon.
Trying so hard to stomach it all. <3
Confidence keeps taking knocks and beatings, but thats mental and I get my meds changed hopefully on the 16th.
<3
So paws crossed, right?
Been really into my music lately, just zoning out and blasting music...feels good for the soul.
Again, no real updates but i'm getting there slowly.
Appreciate you all.
-
-- Thrasher / Wolfie
xx
The support has has been immense over the last few weeks and i've had so many wonderful messages. <3
I love you lot, you know that right?
Thank you all for being so kind and patient with me.
Had a few knocks back but i'm coping better. Stress keeps fucking with my head but i'm stabilising mentally I think.
has been a saint. I love you Tigerbutt. <3-
With art, i'm still finding myself stuck in cycles of depression, not being able to draw, to being inspired by something, then having a crash...but i'm hoping it'll break out soon.
Trying so hard to stomach it all. <3
Confidence keeps taking knocks and beatings, but thats mental and I get my meds changed hopefully on the 16th.
<3
So paws crossed, right?
Been really into my music lately, just zoning out and blasting music...feels good for the soul.
Again, no real updates but i'm getting there slowly.
Appreciate you all.
-
-- Thrasher / Wolfie
xx
Healing ~
Posted 6 months agoHey guys, just wanted to check-in with you.
Hope we're all doing alright.
I got to London after spending time with my friend, who is incredibly thankful to all of you who have lent a kind word and good vibes, everything.
No lie, from the bottom of my heart, I thank you too for being patient with both of us during this rough time.
We're still doing what we can, but for now i'll be radio silent on the matter. As we're doing things legally.
I'm currently in London with
and he's helping me traverse a whole mine-field of mental instability, i've had therapy today on the phone and tomorrow i'll be calling the doctors to see if I can get some help with meds and see if theres ANYTHING I can do to stop this overwhelming anxiety temporarily til I feel better.
Commissions are CLOSED. I'm sorry. I've been unable to draw much more than doodles I keep erasing, my heart isn't ready to do much more than scribble.
I don't like the concept of running away from problems, but my therapist, family, friends...all say I need to step back and heal, self-care, rebuild. I hate doing it, I HATE IT, but I need to be strong for those I care about. Healing is my goal, so I can keep being strong for those in my life.
Thank you again for being so kind, I do appreciate every single one of you who have left messages, comments, notes, you name it.
I know this has been a rollercoaster of a few weeks but i'll do my best to recover and be stronger.
Thank you again.
--
- Thrasher / Wolfie
xx
Hope we're all doing alright.
I got to London after spending time with my friend, who is incredibly thankful to all of you who have lent a kind word and good vibes, everything.
No lie, from the bottom of my heart, I thank you too for being patient with both of us during this rough time.
We're still doing what we can, but for now i'll be radio silent on the matter. As we're doing things legally.
I'm currently in London with
and he's helping me traverse a whole mine-field of mental instability, i've had therapy today on the phone and tomorrow i'll be calling the doctors to see if I can get some help with meds and see if theres ANYTHING I can do to stop this overwhelming anxiety temporarily til I feel better.Commissions are CLOSED. I'm sorry. I've been unable to draw much more than doodles I keep erasing, my heart isn't ready to do much more than scribble.
I don't like the concept of running away from problems, but my therapist, family, friends...all say I need to step back and heal, self-care, rebuild. I hate doing it, I HATE IT, but I need to be strong for those I care about. Healing is my goal, so I can keep being strong for those in my life.
Thank you again for being so kind, I do appreciate every single one of you who have left messages, comments, notes, you name it.
I know this has been a rollercoaster of a few weeks but i'll do my best to recover and be stronger.
Thank you again.
--
- Thrasher / Wolfie
xx
Sorry ~
Posted 6 months agoThings are tough, mentally i'm not doing well at all.
The flashbacks to the day of the abduction of my friends cat, the loudness, the horrible imagery and betrayals.
I keep going back to that day and kill myself a little further thinking I could have done more.
Joey's face, his little face haunts me. I never seen such a look of terror on a cat.
I'm sorry Joey. I'm so sorry. Uncle Wolfie let you down and i'll never forgive myself.
We're worried sick about you.
The Ex in all this, his cruel family. All twisting the knife in the wound already made.
Mentally, my depression has hit me harder than I thought. The depression and tears won't stop coming. I'm angry, upset.
I'm hoping to attempt to come back, might do with a doodle or two for now...or a vent.
I just...I feel like my inspiration, my muse has flown away and trying to find it again is next to impossible.
I'm heartbroken for my friend, but also heartbroken about joey.
.
-
- Thrasher / Wolfie
xx
The flashbacks to the day of the abduction of my friends cat, the loudness, the horrible imagery and betrayals.
I keep going back to that day and kill myself a little further thinking I could have done more.
Joey's face, his little face haunts me. I never seen such a look of terror on a cat.
I'm sorry Joey. I'm so sorry. Uncle Wolfie let you down and i'll never forgive myself.
We're worried sick about you.
The Ex in all this, his cruel family. All twisting the knife in the wound already made.
Mentally, my depression has hit me harder than I thought. The depression and tears won't stop coming. I'm angry, upset.
I'm hoping to attempt to come back, might do with a doodle or two for now...or a vent.
I just...I feel like my inspiration, my muse has flown away and trying to find it again is next to impossible.
I'm heartbroken for my friend, but also heartbroken about joey.
.
-
- Thrasher / Wolfie
xx
GoFundMe (Help, Please.) ~
Posted 6 months agohttps://gofund.me/8b89ce8b
https://gofund.me/8b89ce8b
https://gofund.me/8b89ce8b
Please read through, we're doing okay.
Any amount helps, we need to bring Joey back home.
I feel so bad about losing him, we were given no hope as the other side have a lot of money...we have nothing...
To have any hope, we need to keep this going.
Joey was so scared during the abduction...police won't help us, so i'll do whatever I can.
My friend is incredibly thankful for the donations so far. <3
- Thrasher / Wolfie
xx
https://gofund.me/8b89ce8b
https://gofund.me/8b89ce8b
Please read through, we're doing okay.
Any amount helps, we need to bring Joey back home.
I feel so bad about losing him, we were given no hope as the other side have a lot of money...we have nothing...
To have any hope, we need to keep this going.
Joey was so scared during the abduction...police won't help us, so i'll do whatever I can.
My friend is incredibly thankful for the donations so far. <3
- Thrasher / Wolfie
xx
The Situation (Updated) / GoFundMe ~
Posted 6 months agoHey guys.
This might be long, but I need to do it.
My best friend had a break-up, with a family and ex-partner who planned something so vile and cruel, its left us in shock.
Not only has she had death threat from the mother, intentional, malicious planning and finally...an abduction/theft of her cat. (Plus continued threats.)
I'll explain.
Since the break up, my friend has been under fire and a huge dispute over the cat HE gifted, HER. She is in full ownership of Joey. Chipped, registered.
They've falsely registered him as a THERAPY CAT, where this is the twist. He has had a motorbike accident. The accident resulted in infection of the leg, where he CHOSE to have it amputated. (Or he had the choice to have it drained for a series of months to rid it.) Upon glamorising losing a limb, over and over. He chose amputation.
Fast forward to the operation, recovery...he broke up with my friend, who obviously was heartbroken. He said he would take Joey, his mum will come over, and take him.
My friend felt unsafe, so she chained the door, upon her housings advice. Big disputes happened, but his mother often sent messages bullshitting, to put it lightly to my mum who tried her best to feed us the information to help us out and keep the peace.
I came over a week ago, where I've been guarding the home, being an extra body and of course, company to my best friend who needed it. We felt unsafe, but had things secured.
Roll on to the day before the incident.
His mother came round, who told us and my mum, bare in mind we were warned. She had a key and was acting on proxy for the ex, so she was well within her right to act and take measurements for his wheelchair. As they were going to co-habit til his recovery. Which it was fine, all dandy.
She did her measurements, checked doorways. I helped her. Knowing the more peaceful this went, i'll help as I can. When she left, we found out she'd secretly taken photos of the kitchen, living room, hallway.
Only later did she say that housing wasn't happy. So we took it on the chin, and heard that the ex, now with one leg, was coming over as SOME point to measure himself.
My suspicions were growing, and I kept checking the house hourly if I could manage for any sign of trouble.
Thus came the next day.
The incident.
Ex came to door and let his sister, who abused my friend with threats of violence. (Blaming it on her BPD/EUPD.) Himself and his sister were in the apartment. My friend ready to record via her recorder, and the Ring Doorbell caught it too.
Being me, I greeted both, let them in as he's on the tenancy, I agreed to play by rules and laws just like my friend did. I helped him in the front room, where he beelined to a TERRIFIED Joey (the cat.)
His sister helped pick Joey up off a high shelf, who Joey, looked scared, kicked, scratched, backed up and clawed her and him.
He wanted to ESCAPE. The look of terror in his face haunts me, the fact I thought they were here to measure, possibly say hello to me, Ex said. 'I haven't been straight with you, Thrasher. I'm here for Joey.'
Trying to pull my heartstrings he was crying, saying 'Daddy was here' to Joey. Who was still struggling, so his sister held him in a vice grip in her arms and backed off to the kitchen.
Alarm bells in my head, then the mother let herself in. My friend was in the middle of the hallway, trying to tell them not to leave with Joey.
So. She reached for Joey, not touching the sister, the mother screamed in my ear, over and over, 'If you touch my daughter, I'll kill you'
Not a light threat. I shouted. STOP. BACK OFF. As she leaned into me, this woman is large, very much a loud, violent manipulator.
When my friend backed off , I was distracted by the mother trying to scream bloody fucking murder at my friend, I was ready to blow but I held back.
Holding back was the hardest thing, as someone with BPD myself, i'm heavily medicated, and I was trying to obey the rules. I raised no fist, I raised only my voice, hand on the wall, holding the mother from my friend. I was ticking, all the screaming, we got distracted.
The sister backed in to the kitchen, went for the window we found out.
The mother backed off. Went out the door.
We found the sister, jumping out the window with Joey with the mother and a catbox waiting outside the window.
As I am not going to hurt someone with his now amputated leg, I let him out. He's a tenant, I followed the rules.
Now we've heard they''ve re-registered Joey, changed his info, all behind our backs.
I know its a lot to read, but the sister is known for violence, and there was a kitchen knife on the side, so I didn't grab her, I knew where her eyes were aiming.
They basically pre-meditated, planned a theft of Joey. Through sympathy, their own laws and trickery. This was such a blow, low blow.
Trying to control myself, nursing a now raw ear that I couldn't hear from due to the mother screaming and giving us hell for following the rules and trying to rescue Joey...all this, consoling my friend.
Enter police. Not helpful, the mother had reported us and called them beforehand to her own location.
We were fobbed off. Not a crime. They bent the rules to take the cat.
They lied, so much, we got told nothing they can do.
This is still ongoing.
The other cats have been mourning the loss of Joey...its been heartbreaking. I can't stop beating myself up, my friend is distraught.
We're being threatened with assault as the Sister has 'bruises', none of us touched her apart from the cat who scratched, struggled and her scramble through a KITCHEN WINDOW.
She's threatening court action, after stealing my friends cat.
We're terrified theres more on the way from their horrific family.
I've had this over my birthday, but i'd fight for my friend anyday, fuck my birthday.
So, please, if you've made it this far, thank you.
We're going to try and fight to get Joey back. But we need money, as the other family, ex family rather - have money to throw at anything.
Joey is useless as a therapy cat, not to be blunt, they lied about all his detailed and paid online for a sheet that legally binds him as a therapy cat.
The crash, incident, everything with the ex, happened 7 months after he gave her Joey. He was lied about being bought as a therapy cat.
So, they lied saying Joey was a replacement/therapy cat to get over the loss of Milo, his old cat who died years ago. Hard as it is, he used his dead cat's name to plan, steal and kidnap Joey.
I'm sorry.
Its been hard.
I'm tired, my ear is crackling and we fear more attacks.
Remember, if I had reacted, touched, hurt anyone to get Joey, i'd be in jail.
Police deem all this not a crime, btw.
We lost Joey, and it hurts. I'll never forget the look of fear in his face, this whole event has scarred us mentally.
The betrayal, everything.
And they still texted my mother, saying Happy Birthday.
Please, if you can, we're trying to find legal help which costs in the UK, here's the link to the GoFundMe.
Here's the link.
https://gofund.me/8b89ce8b
---
Commissions will be dealt with. Then I may close until things calm down.
I'm sorry.
My friend and I are heartbroken.
I still fear they may do more to hurt her.
Police did fuck all, because they underhandedly did everything 'legally' .
This was so hard to type, i'm sorry Joey. I'm so sorry.
x
This might be long, but I need to do it.
My best friend had a break-up, with a family and ex-partner who planned something so vile and cruel, its left us in shock.
Not only has she had death threat from the mother, intentional, malicious planning and finally...an abduction/theft of her cat. (Plus continued threats.)
I'll explain.
Since the break up, my friend has been under fire and a huge dispute over the cat HE gifted, HER. She is in full ownership of Joey. Chipped, registered.
They've falsely registered him as a THERAPY CAT, where this is the twist. He has had a motorbike accident. The accident resulted in infection of the leg, where he CHOSE to have it amputated. (Or he had the choice to have it drained for a series of months to rid it.) Upon glamorising losing a limb, over and over. He chose amputation.
Fast forward to the operation, recovery...he broke up with my friend, who obviously was heartbroken. He said he would take Joey, his mum will come over, and take him.
My friend felt unsafe, so she chained the door, upon her housings advice. Big disputes happened, but his mother often sent messages bullshitting, to put it lightly to my mum who tried her best to feed us the information to help us out and keep the peace.
I came over a week ago, where I've been guarding the home, being an extra body and of course, company to my best friend who needed it. We felt unsafe, but had things secured.
Roll on to the day before the incident.
His mother came round, who told us and my mum, bare in mind we were warned. She had a key and was acting on proxy for the ex, so she was well within her right to act and take measurements for his wheelchair. As they were going to co-habit til his recovery. Which it was fine, all dandy.
She did her measurements, checked doorways. I helped her. Knowing the more peaceful this went, i'll help as I can. When she left, we found out she'd secretly taken photos of the kitchen, living room, hallway.
Only later did she say that housing wasn't happy. So we took it on the chin, and heard that the ex, now with one leg, was coming over as SOME point to measure himself.
My suspicions were growing, and I kept checking the house hourly if I could manage for any sign of trouble.
Thus came the next day.
The incident.
Ex came to door and let his sister, who abused my friend with threats of violence. (Blaming it on her BPD/EUPD.) Himself and his sister were in the apartment. My friend ready to record via her recorder, and the Ring Doorbell caught it too.
Being me, I greeted both, let them in as he's on the tenancy, I agreed to play by rules and laws just like my friend did. I helped him in the front room, where he beelined to a TERRIFIED Joey (the cat.)
His sister helped pick Joey up off a high shelf, who Joey, looked scared, kicked, scratched, backed up and clawed her and him.
He wanted to ESCAPE. The look of terror in his face haunts me, the fact I thought they were here to measure, possibly say hello to me, Ex said. 'I haven't been straight with you, Thrasher. I'm here for Joey.'
Trying to pull my heartstrings he was crying, saying 'Daddy was here' to Joey. Who was still struggling, so his sister held him in a vice grip in her arms and backed off to the kitchen.
Alarm bells in my head, then the mother let herself in. My friend was in the middle of the hallway, trying to tell them not to leave with Joey.
So. She reached for Joey, not touching the sister, the mother screamed in my ear, over and over, 'If you touch my daughter, I'll kill you'
Not a light threat. I shouted. STOP. BACK OFF. As she leaned into me, this woman is large, very much a loud, violent manipulator.
When my friend backed off , I was distracted by the mother trying to scream bloody fucking murder at my friend, I was ready to blow but I held back.
Holding back was the hardest thing, as someone with BPD myself, i'm heavily medicated, and I was trying to obey the rules. I raised no fist, I raised only my voice, hand on the wall, holding the mother from my friend. I was ticking, all the screaming, we got distracted.
The sister backed in to the kitchen, went for the window we found out.
The mother backed off. Went out the door.
We found the sister, jumping out the window with Joey with the mother and a catbox waiting outside the window.
As I am not going to hurt someone with his now amputated leg, I let him out. He's a tenant, I followed the rules.
Now we've heard they''ve re-registered Joey, changed his info, all behind our backs.
I know its a lot to read, but the sister is known for violence, and there was a kitchen knife on the side, so I didn't grab her, I knew where her eyes were aiming.
They basically pre-meditated, planned a theft of Joey. Through sympathy, their own laws and trickery. This was such a blow, low blow.
Trying to control myself, nursing a now raw ear that I couldn't hear from due to the mother screaming and giving us hell for following the rules and trying to rescue Joey...all this, consoling my friend.
Enter police. Not helpful, the mother had reported us and called them beforehand to her own location.
We were fobbed off. Not a crime. They bent the rules to take the cat.
They lied, so much, we got told nothing they can do.
This is still ongoing.
The other cats have been mourning the loss of Joey...its been heartbreaking. I can't stop beating myself up, my friend is distraught.
We're being threatened with assault as the Sister has 'bruises', none of us touched her apart from the cat who scratched, struggled and her scramble through a KITCHEN WINDOW.
She's threatening court action, after stealing my friends cat.
We're terrified theres more on the way from their horrific family.
I've had this over my birthday, but i'd fight for my friend anyday, fuck my birthday.
So, please, if you've made it this far, thank you.
We're going to try and fight to get Joey back. But we need money, as the other family, ex family rather - have money to throw at anything.
Joey is useless as a therapy cat, not to be blunt, they lied about all his detailed and paid online for a sheet that legally binds him as a therapy cat.
The crash, incident, everything with the ex, happened 7 months after he gave her Joey. He was lied about being bought as a therapy cat.
So, they lied saying Joey was a replacement/therapy cat to get over the loss of Milo, his old cat who died years ago. Hard as it is, he used his dead cat's name to plan, steal and kidnap Joey.
I'm sorry.
Its been hard.
I'm tired, my ear is crackling and we fear more attacks.
Remember, if I had reacted, touched, hurt anyone to get Joey, i'd be in jail.
Police deem all this not a crime, btw.
We lost Joey, and it hurts. I'll never forget the look of fear in his face, this whole event has scarred us mentally.
The betrayal, everything.
And they still texted my mother, saying Happy Birthday.
Please, if you can, we're trying to find legal help which costs in the UK, here's the link to the GoFundMe.
Here's the link.
https://gofund.me/8b89ce8b
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Commissions will be dealt with. Then I may close until things calm down.
I'm sorry.
My friend and I are heartbroken.
I still fear they may do more to hurt her.
Police did fuck all, because they underhandedly did everything 'legally' .
This was so hard to type, i'm sorry Joey. I'm so sorry.
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