So i've been kinda quit for a long time. I am sorry to all who haven't heard from me, i've kinda made big changes in my life that were unforeseen. But as my life has stabilized enough i figured i'd stop in and let those of you who care know what i've been upto. First things first some of you know back in november i broke up with my boyfriend djlab. I still see him as a very close friend and i hope he does for me but with 7 years of our time together and life keeping us apart i felt it was best for both of us to go our seperate ways. Well a month passed from then and i found myself drawn to another, i know some may feel this a short time but not everyone moves on the same. Anyhow i took a chance and asked someone out i liked and this time it was with a female. Yes i know i said i was gay to alot of you guys, i swear i wasn't trying to trick anyone but being as for a long time i was with but one person and didn't think it would change i never felt it was necesarry to advertise my interest in both sexs since i was taken. So long story short yes, i am in a straight relationship ever since last december. Now thats not nearly all i have to tell, as i said i'd been gone quite a while cause i've been busy well that is why, i've spent all my time when not working devoting myself to my relationship. Well 8 months later and guess what... I'm engaged. Yes you heard me right, i asked her to mary me and she said yes. Well thats not quite all the news see the thing i've not mentioned... My beautiful woman had a surprise for me a couple months ago when i was saving up to get the ring to surprise her, turns out she got a surprise for me first. I'M GOING TO BE A DADDY! Thats right everyone extarus is on his way to being a father. It's been a little over 3 months since i found out and i've been nothing but excited ever since. So anyhow thats whats been up with me, again i apologize for not being around but as you can see i've been quite busy. I still love all my furry friends and i hope to talk to you all soon.