Well, our mother just wanted to go see my sister one last time before she leaves with our grandparents, and get this! My sister not only has a new boyfriend again, she's making our grandparents bring him along! Our mother asked her why she was doing that, and she told her it was none of her business. Our mother said it was her business, because it was her parents she was going to live with. That's when my sister muttered "Narcissistic bitch!", and it led to a fight in which our mother left crying. My sister is straight up evil, and in extreme denial. At least she's being sent off to desert nowhere with highly religious grandparents. She won't have a car, and she won't have a way to leave. She either gets a job, or.... I really dunno. But she's not gonna have a lot of options. No busses, only a few small businesses, hot during the day and really cold at night, and 75 miles from the nearest city. What's she gonna do, pack a backpack and walk? Not happening. Being that far away is exactly what she deserves right now. Yet somehow, I feel like this may still blow up in her face someday.

I mean, she had the nerve to call our mother a narcissistic bitch, when our mother was the one covering for and protecting her for so long. Let's look at my sister's history, shall we.

1: Bullied me badly when we were kids, and not only has never taken responsibility for nearly getting me killed when I was 7, but still defends shit she did to me back then. She'd admitted to me when we were kids that I was basically on her shit list since infancy, because I'd peed on her face during a diaper change. She used to hit me and said it was because she felt like it, or because I was born.
2: As a teenager, she skipped school, got into drinking, smoking and drugs, brought her shitty boyfriend into the house to have sex with him and made me keep it secret. Was also caught stealing, and bought a car and made our parents pay to fix it.
3: Is divorced because she fucked up her marriage in numerous ways, including having three affairs that we know of, one of which was with one of our own cousins, and another potentially with teenagers when she was in her 30s.
4: Lied to my face to play the victim because she still thinks I don't know the truth about her cheating.
5: Got our grandparents to sign for a fifth wheel trailer mortgage, and then left them to pay it off after utterly destroying that trailer.
6: Is a horrible mother to her kids, and was an animal and food hoarder.
7: Once told me to my face while drunk that she was just waiting for our mother to die. And even told me two years ago our mother was going to die for crossing her.
9: Has burned practically every friend bridge she's ever had.
10: Is a complete hypocrite.
11: Makes shit up and then convinces herself it's true so she can mentally not be the bad guy.
12: Has always put her biological father on a pedestal, even though the man cheated on our mother and went to prison, then ran off to Arizona when my sister was 2, and never even so much as sent a letter. She had to go looking for him 30 years later.
13: Has actively provoked our parents, just so she could blame them for shit. Our parents (Mother and stepfather) are no angels. But they look like it compared to her.
14: Has spent most of my life trying to turn me against our mother, and it nearly worked. Yet a lot of the things she claimed happened, conveniently were never when I was around. And then straight up made up shit about her to other people and spread rumors, then clammed up when I and her second son called her out on that stuff never happening.
15: Our mother has said that even as an infant, my sister just did not want to love her. She's just been a bad egg since birth.

My sister is the real narcissist. Always has been. Our mother just hardly has any fight left in her. She's been in and out of the hospital the past couple of years, needs a cane to walk even though she's only 60, and I worry she won't even make it to 70, and might have to get put in a care home. And my sister will likely play the victim after our mother dies, because I know she's hardly getting jack from the will.