Big ol SoCal homogay mostly cis guy in his later 30s, loves macros and bigness and big adjacent big things. Doing my best.

I'll answer to "Red" or "Steaky" or any permutation of my handle, really.

I draw sometimes, not nearly as much as I used to. I game a lot, always looking for folks to play with. I also knit and crochet, and teach said crafts, as I work in a local yarn shop! It's a lot of fun, and has taken over a lot of my life. Lately I've been doing my best to embrace the life I have, and the people I have around me. I play DnD with my friends most weekends when they're not busy in the theatre community here.

Grew up in a super unhealthy conservative family who I'm no longer close with. My opinions when I was younger weren't always so great. My behavior sometimes was probably also not so great, but I always tried to do right by people.

Also, I've been living with ADHD, Anxiety (social and general), and Depression (and real bad SAD) for most of my life so if I ever acted weird... Sorry! It was probably one of those things, or a combination. I make it sound bad, but I swear, I'm a total sweetie and pretty fun to be around! <3

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My FA is for people who are over age 18. Please do not interact if you're under 18 ok? I will block minors. Thanks.

I’m mostly focusing on FA again! Twitter gross and scary. But it’s hard to be social without social media :/

Bsky: https://bsky.app/profile/steakkums.bsky.social

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