i think you misspelled male

hehe.. I would never lie to a girlfriend of mine. Maybe that is why I don#t have one. Girls seem to like being threaten bad and like objects.

not really

I see it often enough...
maybe I should do the same, maybe I get a girlfirend that way too ^^

well if you actualy think they like being treated that way, then that may be a indicator as to why they steer away from you.

I have not done anything like that yet. But to girls I am always jsut the nice guy.. the pal... maybe I should indeed become more of an asshole. I always see the assholes getting the girls.

they dont like the assholes. they like the confidence, they like the guy that goes forth and seeks what he wants. girls like a guy that goes for what he wants, not just does nice things and acts nice and hopes things pan out. unfortunately, assholes are GREAT at taking what they want, they are skilled at putting themselves out there, and being confident and fun to be around. they create a very desireable front. and most cases, girls dont see the total jerkface till its too late.

now..there ARE some that really just like "fixer uppers" and they think he could be ideal if she just peels away his outer asshole. but, alas. thats usualy a failed mission from the beginning.

but most girls, they dont actively LOOK for asses. its just asses have confidence down. and other aspects that they are looking for. remember how assholes always had people on their side? teachers? friends? its because they make a LIVIN out of deceiving people, making themselves liked (at least for a while. eventualy their true colors show)


so dont be "that guy" that just devolves into a dick for the sake of a girl. cause if you do, then that just makes you what you dispize so much. and also think of this. assholes may GET the girl, but they rarely ever get to KEEP her.
some food for thought

but they still get her and even get new ones if he wants...

I am just sick and tired of treating girls like beings, like the wodnerful creatures they are and just being kicked in the loins over and over again...

you remind me of my roomate.

so, ill tell you exactly what i told him.

being nice, makes you a nice person. its good, there is nothing wrong with it. but for you to REALY attract these girls that you want to like you, you need to be more than a decent human being, because think of it this way. you dont buy a computer for the reason that "its a working computer" or that "it does what its supposed to" you get one that has special features that accomidate your specific needs. i picked MY computer cause it supports my highly artistic lifestyle. got myself a large screened monitor, things that I NEED. not just something thats "nice"

the girls you have been turned down by like that your nice, but you have yet to show the things that they are pursing. so while this may feel unfair, dont take the extreme road of pretending to be something your not, or becoming the "asshole" because those are not the kind of happy fufilling relationships i know your looking for. even if it worked for you, you wouldnt be happy with yourself..and eventualy they would still leave you.

so what you need to do, is figure yourself out. find what makes YOU awesome and special. and find the girl that is looking for that. im a pessimistic girl thats 23 and in a wheelchair. so my husband is a optimist that brings me up from my slumps, and gives my life a uniqe perspective with humor in it. i NEED that in my life.

and if you think im wrong. ill tell you another story

i was the girl dating the asshole, with a "nice guy" that wanted me. my ex abused me in the most nightmarish ways and he sat through alot with me, lots of late night crying, lots of horror stories and scarring. it took me 2 years to get away from him and with my "nice guy". thing is, we were best friends. so you could say he was in your place. but he got with me.
and it was nice for a while, but honestly..it couldnt last. because he wasnt what i needed, and it didnt feel like a relationship. it really just felt like we were best friends with benifits. he didnt have those things i needed, and as much as he loved and cared about me. it was just...it couldnt be. we were bro's and it just couldnt go any further so aftery trying for over a year to make it into something (gave it my HONEST best) we broke up. and it really was for the better. so even if he WAS as you say "friendzoned" and then got out and "got the girl" it still didnt work. not because i didnt give him a chance, just it wasnt a good match. even if we were good as friends.
friend compatability is VERY different from romantic compatability


sorry for the long postings. i just REALLY dont wanna see a potentialy awesome guy turn dark side for the sake of romantic pursuits and if i can open a part of my own experiences and knowledge to you to convince you otherwise then i want to.

I do understand it all ^^

It is just sometimes that I cannot stand it anymore and don't understand what girls want.

My boyfriend is insisting I tell you to search "a white person stole my car" XD
it should say "did you mean: a black person stole my car"

that is evil...

so yeah, evidently google is racist XD Idk, I haven't tried it myself, that's just what he said.

I tryed it out but the descripted effect did not appear i guess they changed that by now.

Yeah, he tried it a little while after telling me to tell you to, and he says he thinks they must've removed it Xp

Seriously? :|

I just had to laugh.. I don#t believe this fully but.. it was just a laugh^^

OH GOOGLE

yeah

Butthurt inbound.

:D

Actual adults just laugh at this shit...you know, like Kumbartha is. How 'bout saving y'alls butthurt for, you know, ACTUAL sexism?

what do you think I am doing, I am simply commenting on the butthurt other people.

I think this is funny as shit.

Oh sorry - wasn't you I was criticizing; I agree with you. I'd hope it's obvious who I actually _was_ talking about. :)

LOL Google, you did it again. Don't be hating Google.

^^

:D

Ok some say women are more skilled telling lies, but even so, so many results like these? Kind of sad.... still reminds me of a quote by a real girl:

As math and physics taught us: Girls are evil.
See, no man will deny that:
Woman = Time * Money
However a big law of economy says:
Time = Money
Which is how we get
Woman = Money ^2
And as there are a lot of theories which are unquestionably not entirely wrong that:
Money = Evil
And with this we get:
Woman = Evil^2
So Women are not just evil, they're EVIL to the power of 2! GOD! I don't know how we can even stand ourselves!

Haha. I know that one too ^^

i love you for that XD

I know that one too. but only in german :D

I thank you for that, but I promise that I was merely quoting someone else, but thanks ^^

ha ha ha true realy

^hehe ^^

heh I'd not lie to a girl either

^^

Oh, Google... ^^

beautiful.....absolutely beautiful, game me a laugh i havent had in a month ^.^ thank you

^^

I love how everyone thinks this is a gender thing.

It's a grammar thing. An object is laying on a surface. A person is lying on a surface.

Dir ist schon klar, dass lying englisch für liegen ist und laying englisch für "Verlegung" ist oder?

Google hat das nur vorgeschlagen weil lying das richtige wort ist und normalerweise keiner nach einer Frauenverlegung sucht ;p

Die Vorschläge stehn halt dann so da, weils von irgendwelchen Leuten immer mehr eingegeben wird und angeklickt wird, weswegen sowas dann ganz oben dasteht, wo es statt um liegenden Frauen halt um lügende frauen geht, da lying auch das Wort für lügend beschreibt, hauptsächlich aber liegend bedeutet. Lying ist eben ein englisches Homonym.

da hat sich ein wohl ein Gedankenfehler mit dem Wort lay bei mir eingeschlicken :D

Lay und lie haben beide das gleiche gerundium lying, google ist weder rassistisch noch sexistisch, es ist schlicht analytisch. Wenns zu viele leute eingeben und absichtlich danach suchen, stehts halt von den über 300.000.000 vorschlägen in den oberen top 100 mit drin.

fands halt einfach lustig :D