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Pro wrestling move: The WED-LOCK~
So today is me and Corals anniversary, not that we ever got married or nothin', but today 9 years ago was the first time we kissed. Coral was my best friend and our relationship was never formal, but now … I'll be the mother of his first born child. You cant call that casual by any stretch…
I recognize that my relationship with him is serious now, but … have three commitment fears to address before i go too far.
Fist, how do I dedicate time to be sexy and take care of my waist-line if I'm spending all my time as mother and wife… And if I'm doing all that how do I have enough time for my art career? And from what I've seen, being a full time mom and wife means I wont be able to be snugly with people I'm close with. I mean most full moms I know hardly have time for ANYONE but their baby for AGES~
Coral was consoling me about all this and brought up marriage and how it works in galleon when we were talking. ill let him explain it here for those who are curious before i go on.
Corillion here. Kassada weddings eh? Well let me start by saying that Kassada are one of the races in the world of Galleon, where our webcomic is set. Of all the races, Kassada are the most numerous, and that's due to a strong cultural focus on family and pack structure. Romance is deeply important to them. However, they don't marry before becoming a couple, there is simply a romantic courtship and both parties agree to go-steady.
The big, big both families involved, flowers and dancing celebration comes in at the decade mark. It exists to celebrate not that the couple's relationship began, but that is has succeeded, become a stable and lasting thing, and, hopefully, borne fruit. If it's lasted that long, chances are it's gonna continue on the same way. And chances are, they will have had or started to have children. A marriage exists for the families and the children more than the couple themselves - it creates an official connection between houses and a safety net of relatives for any children.
Nai and I aren't quite there yet, but all signs point to yes, especially with a child on the way. Our finances are pretty strained at the moment, but I plan to stabilize in time for our super special tenth anniversary. Then I can make a big deal of it, I wouldn't want it to be anything less than fantastic.
I've stuck by Nai for nine years now and it has been an honor and a joy. She is my best friend in the whole world, as well as my lover and partner in all things. Our lives are now more deeply entwined than ever before, but I have never regretted my choice to be with her for a moment, even in the most stressful of times.
Thank you to everyone for being so supportive of our dreams. I mean, our dreams -are- to make a whole bunch of totally cool stuff for y'all to enjoy, but nevertheless, I appreciate it. =
^w^=
The thing about marriage is that… while traditional marriage scares the crap out of me, I think I could stand behind a Kassada wedding.… I'm not sure which of my fears are legitimate and which are unreasonable… I've never been a wife or mom before… But I am still scared. *sighs and hugs her friends*
Next year about this time we'll be sharing a newborn baby and ten years since we first kissed >w< So I'm gonna throw a wedding-style party then I think. I am happy, i just hope i can do my best and that it will bring me success and happiness as i move forward in life.
I recognize that my relationship with him is serious now, but … have three commitment fears to address before i go too far.
Fist, how do I dedicate time to be sexy and take care of my waist-line if I'm spending all my time as mother and wife… And if I'm doing all that how do I have enough time for my art career? And from what I've seen, being a full time mom and wife means I wont be able to be snugly with people I'm close with. I mean most full moms I know hardly have time for ANYONE but their baby for AGES~
Coral was consoling me about all this and brought up marriage and how it works in galleon when we were talking. ill let him explain it here for those who are curious before i go on.
Corillion here. Kassada weddings eh? Well let me start by saying that Kassada are one of the races in the world of Galleon, where our webcomic is set. Of all the races, Kassada are the most numerous, and that's due to a strong cultural focus on family and pack structure. Romance is deeply important to them. However, they don't marry before becoming a couple, there is simply a romantic courtship and both parties agree to go-steady. The big, big both families involved, flowers and dancing celebration comes in at the decade mark. It exists to celebrate not that the couple's relationship began, but that is has succeeded, become a stable and lasting thing, and, hopefully, borne fruit. If it's lasted that long, chances are it's gonna continue on the same way. And chances are, they will have had or started to have children. A marriage exists for the families and the children more than the couple themselves - it creates an official connection between houses and a safety net of relatives for any children.
Nai and I aren't quite there yet, but all signs point to yes, especially with a child on the way. Our finances are pretty strained at the moment, but I plan to stabilize in time for our super special tenth anniversary. Then I can make a big deal of it, I wouldn't want it to be anything less than fantastic.
I've stuck by Nai for nine years now and it has been an honor and a joy. She is my best friend in the whole world, as well as my lover and partner in all things. Our lives are now more deeply entwined than ever before, but I have never regretted my choice to be with her for a moment, even in the most stressful of times.
Thank you to everyone for being so supportive of our dreams. I mean, our dreams -are- to make a whole bunch of totally cool stuff for y'all to enjoy, but nevertheless, I appreciate it. =
^w^=
The thing about marriage is that… while traditional marriage scares the crap out of me, I think I could stand behind a Kassada wedding.… I'm not sure which of my fears are legitimate and which are unreasonable… I've never been a wife or mom before… But I am still scared. *sighs and hugs her friends*
Next year about this time we'll be sharing a newborn baby and ten years since we first kissed >w< So I'm gonna throw a wedding-style party then I think. I am happy, i just hope i can do my best and that it will bring me success and happiness as i move forward in life.
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I been was married 10 years this october ^^ but we have been together 13 but known each other 15 we didnt have a child untill 3 years after becuase we were saving for a house at the time. It didn't work ^^; lol we are in the process right now of finding our own first home where Nyssa can have her own room. She wants to do her room like under the sea :3
HAHA *cuddles and pets* I DO admit it does make it HARDER for me now that she is 6. I do try to do it while she is not looking. ^^; because thats what most of my art is. I did it a lot before when she was smaller because she never noticed it. Now that she is 6 she notices things so I try to be careful. I normaly only draw it when I know she is not in the room at school or when she is asleep. I minimize the window... A LOT when she comes in or I hear her little feet lol But once you get a pattern down you will find a way to work around it.
I did at first but then I was like "well... what I was drawling I did that got me that way so its natural! LOL!" there is nothing wrong with it :D
I admit though I am dreading when she learn sex ED Xx;; thats something me and her father are not looking forward to
She always wants to draw on my tablet I try to make sure she has her own folder for her art and a DIFFERENT program to do art on (I use Photoshop CS2/6 and Sai) I showed her how to use MS paint. Because she once reset my photoshop to its original settings and I lost all my patters textures brushes and customs. So yea be careful with that ^^; She was so upset when she realized what she did she hid under her bed. It took me over an hour to make her come out even though I was not mad. ( I lost my customs but I did have a backup of the other stuff thankfully )
I did at first but then I was like "well... what I was drawling I did that got me that way so its natural! LOL!" there is nothing wrong with it :D
I admit though I am dreading when she learn sex ED Xx;; thats something me and her father are not looking forward to
She always wants to draw on my tablet I try to make sure she has her own folder for her art and a DIFFERENT program to do art on (I use Photoshop CS2/6 and Sai) I showed her how to use MS paint. Because she once reset my photoshop to its original settings and I lost all my patters textures brushes and customs. So yea be careful with that ^^; She was so upset when she realized what she did she hid under her bed. It took me over an hour to make her come out even though I was not mad. ( I lost my customs but I did have a backup of the other stuff thankfully )
*nod nod nod and take notes* My mother became more or less a celibate nun after when my parents separated and has been so for 20 years *sighs*... I think im just caught up in that mess. I love erotica, but ive become shyer of it as i get older. If you can be a great sexy mom and wife and do kinky stuff... maybe i dont have to turn into a nun by default. XD
also thank you for the tips on separate programs. *snoogles*
also thank you for the tips on separate programs. *snoogles*
The interesting thing about those fears is that they seem to stem from the idea that things will *have* to change radically when the baby and/or marriage come to pass. In the case of the marriage... nothing really changes. At all. Marriage is what you make it and given that you guys have been together this long, I'd imagine that any kind of marriage would just be a formality at this point.
In the case of the baby, there isn't anything stopping you from finding ways to work around and with the baby while still doing the things you love. Yes, the baby will need a lot of time and attention but I've always felt (and I'm no parent, so grain of salt here) that the shared responsibility of mother and father looking after the child combined with creative adaptation of the child into things you love will make it possible to fit things all in nicely. Beyond that, including the baby in things you love will have a twofold effect. One: it will help you be happier with your child as you won't feel like you have to give up things you love for their sake (though I've no doubt you would if you had to) and Two: it will help shape the baby and allow it to feel close to you in all aspects of your life. By including the child, even at the earliest age, I really think you'll develop some amazing bonds that will grow and shine even more as the child grows. :)
Anyway, I'm probably rambling and incoherent at this point. It's a bit late here. ;^.^
In the case of the baby, there isn't anything stopping you from finding ways to work around and with the baby while still doing the things you love. Yes, the baby will need a lot of time and attention but I've always felt (and I'm no parent, so grain of salt here) that the shared responsibility of mother and father looking after the child combined with creative adaptation of the child into things you love will make it possible to fit things all in nicely. Beyond that, including the baby in things you love will have a twofold effect. One: it will help you be happier with your child as you won't feel like you have to give up things you love for their sake (though I've no doubt you would if you had to) and Two: it will help shape the baby and allow it to feel close to you in all aspects of your life. By including the child, even at the earliest age, I really think you'll develop some amazing bonds that will grow and shine even more as the child grows. :)
Anyway, I'm probably rambling and incoherent at this point. It's a bit late here. ;^.^
I have no idea what it takes to involve a new born in drawing comics, but there's got to be something there. I hope the infrastructure i put together while my company was day to day will be stuff i can continue to use once i shut down our studio space in town... i want to keep making, showcasing and selling my works. I guess i just cant visualize how to do that with a baby in my arms. *sighs* But your right, if i can, thats half my problem right there.
Hehe we have one in the family that is about two generations old and my brothers little girl should have grown out of it about the time my baby is born and big enough. I love those little slings, but yeah, maybe im just over-estimating how strapped to my body my baby need be XD
Well, i think an important thing about being a wife is that it can be a title.. like Queen... sure, there's tranditional roles and expectations, but...if you've been together this long and it's worked, why suddenly change how and who you both are, to each other and other people? Unless there ARE issues that need to be addressed, which are something to consider married or unmarried.
You're both very lucky and I congratulate you both on continuing to be together, happily and as you are, and wish for more of that int he future.: )
Keep being awesome, and don't fret, as long as u both agree and are consistant on how you wish to be parents, your little one ought to be just fine.: )
Besides, it sounds like you'll have plenty of ppl to look to for help and advice!: )
You're both very lucky and I congratulate you both on continuing to be together, happily and as you are, and wish for more of that int he future.: )
Keep being awesome, and don't fret, as long as u both agree and are consistant on how you wish to be parents, your little one ought to be just fine.: )
Besides, it sounds like you'll have plenty of ppl to look to for help and advice!: )
Being a parent can be as stressful as anything else you ever do... but for anyone who truly loves his/her partner wholeheartedly, bearing and raising a child together is far more likely to be an experience you will cherish beyond measure, despite its difficulties. If you're concerned about your ability to do so, there is a simple exercise you can do to help put your mind at ease:
Imagine, if you will, what you would consider to be an "ideal" parent. Practically perfect in every way, the sort of parent that would make you glance from across the room and say to yourself "Now THAT'S an awesome mom!"
- Which of this ideal parent's traits stand out to you the most, in your mind's eye?
- Why did you imagine those traits in particular?
- What are some of the more subtle traits he/she has that aren't readily visible?
- Why are those traits important enough for you to include them in your ideal image?
- How does this ideal parent communicate with his/her child in good situations? In bad situations?
- Imagine the most awkward, unpleasant, or taboo questions a child can ask. How would your ideal parent answer?
- Pick three words that you think describe your ideal parent best.
- Just for kicks, try to think of what your ideal parent's defining physical trait would be. What would he/she sound like while talking? While laughing? While angry?
Congratulations. Through your responses to this list, you've just laid out a general blueprint for the sort of parent you wish to become. It's always a good idea to keep things in perspective, and adhering to your own personal parenting blueprint can make things much easier on you in the long run.
Done rambling now. Felicitations and many happy returns!
Imagine, if you will, what you would consider to be an "ideal" parent. Practically perfect in every way, the sort of parent that would make you glance from across the room and say to yourself "Now THAT'S an awesome mom!"
- Which of this ideal parent's traits stand out to you the most, in your mind's eye?
- Why did you imagine those traits in particular?
- What are some of the more subtle traits he/she has that aren't readily visible?
- Why are those traits important enough for you to include them in your ideal image?
- How does this ideal parent communicate with his/her child in good situations? In bad situations?
- Imagine the most awkward, unpleasant, or taboo questions a child can ask. How would your ideal parent answer?
- Pick three words that you think describe your ideal parent best.
- Just for kicks, try to think of what your ideal parent's defining physical trait would be. What would he/she sound like while talking? While laughing? While angry?
Congratulations. Through your responses to this list, you've just laid out a general blueprint for the sort of parent you wish to become. It's always a good idea to keep things in perspective, and adhering to your own personal parenting blueprint can make things much easier on you in the long run.
Done rambling now. Felicitations and many happy returns!
Well as it turns out, I'm a roleplayer!! >w< I have lots of characters who are moms who I respect.. perhaps some of my hangups come from the fact that often in my roleplays the story is over when the baby comes along. I'm trying to bug Coral to run some games where I get to be a hero who keeps hero-ing even with a baby at their side so that I can visualize just like you said. I don't want the story to be over just cause baby happened.
I think I know the imaginary mom I like most though - my character Ankha who is a scientist, rockstar, pro-wrestler and mom. >.> Not that she had any kind of easy time with her kid, but hopefully -my- kid won't be a dark-type reincarnation of my dead ex boyfriend. o.oiii
I can't even decide who I want to be right now, let alone what kind of parent. I've left a lot of my personality caught up in the various hoops I jumped through in growing up. I've lost a lot of my traumas, but also a lot of what I thought made me me. Today Coral and I will be doing a little soul-searching project to help me find some spiritual anchors from the things that most inspired me - turning them into a kind of tarot deck so I can look at them when I feel lost for guidance. >.> This is getting vaguer as I stumble off the subject.
Thanks for the awesome reply! I will definitely try doing just that! ^w^
I think I know the imaginary mom I like most though - my character Ankha who is a scientist, rockstar, pro-wrestler and mom. >.> Not that she had any kind of easy time with her kid, but hopefully -my- kid won't be a dark-type reincarnation of my dead ex boyfriend. o.oiii
I can't even decide who I want to be right now, let alone what kind of parent. I've left a lot of my personality caught up in the various hoops I jumped through in growing up. I've lost a lot of my traumas, but also a lot of what I thought made me me. Today Coral and I will be doing a little soul-searching project to help me find some spiritual anchors from the things that most inspired me - turning them into a kind of tarot deck so I can look at them when I feel lost for guidance. >.> This is getting vaguer as I stumble off the subject.
Thanks for the awesome reply! I will definitely try doing just that! ^w^
I write some of my best stuff through RP... then I go back and convert it to standard format prose if I want to include it in my writing. It can even be fun to RP by myself with multiple characters, because it's a challenge to quickly switch between personalities as the dialogue progresses while trying to maintain cohesion and realistic interaction.
well u could always get a day care to watch ur baby so u can do some things. as far as ur company goes the next 5 months will be the biggest as it will be the time to crunch down and get things done. after that its going to be awhile before things really rev up again. i will say check ur notes as i did reply awhile ago ^_^
That's a wonderful concept~<3 Maybe my man and I should give it a try, though we're past the 10 yr mark lol. You've got a wonderful man ^w^ Don't be afraid, there are times where it will be tough, but you get through it. You're a strong woman, you'll do great. I was terrified at first but you learn quickly and thing's click into place once you start getting a routine down pat.
*nods* Its never been exclusive between me and coral before, but i know that i feel so dependent on him right now that i really would get jealous if he was to fool around too much. TTwTT Im glad i feel i can trust him to be dedicated, at least while i need him most. *nods* If i can juggle responsibilities with him reliably, we should be able to get to through the worst of it. *nod nods*
you know what, body line may change and not come back, all depends of a girl
think you have to look after the most are skin scars from stretching belly, gotta use some good cream for that
and male preferences may change as well, he may actually like the fact you're bearing baby, and would like to repeat that haha
think you have to look after the most are skin scars from stretching belly, gotta use some good cream for that
and male preferences may change as well, he may actually like the fact you're bearing baby, and would like to repeat that haha
...yeah sweety? You don't need to worry about that Kassada style wedding. You're already knee deep in it!!
Think about it sweety: you've known him and been besties with him for ages, you shared a good chunk of your life with him, and about the only thing you haven't done yet is birth his child and raise it with him!
Everyone is scared when they get pregnant and have a kid...it's just natural! It's happened to many people before you and i doubt it will end anytime soon ^_^
Snuggly? Learn to cuddle your loved ones :3
And sweety? If Coral didn't love you and still want to be all snuggly-cuddly with you with a big, distended baby-baby*, then what makes you think that'll ever stop?
After all, isn't a true marriage just a pairing of two best friends that want to spend their lives hanging out with each other? :)
Think about it sweety: you've known him and been besties with him for ages, you shared a good chunk of your life with him, and about the only thing you haven't done yet is birth his child and raise it with him!
Everyone is scared when they get pregnant and have a kid...it's just natural! It's happened to many people before you and i doubt it will end anytime soon ^_^
Snuggly? Learn to cuddle your loved ones :3
And sweety? If Coral didn't love you and still want to be all snuggly-cuddly with you with a big, distended baby-baby*, then what makes you think that'll ever stop?
After all, isn't a true marriage just a pairing of two best friends that want to spend their lives hanging out with each other? :)
XD Lawl, i was thinking about it and in two years ill have known coral for half my life! I guess your right, its all just formality at this point.
Its just that it used to be a open and relaxed relationship, Im weirded out by it suddenly being filled with obligations and restraints. ^^;
I seriously don't know how people manage in monogamous relationships, but at the same time i know ill get jealous if i have to share him...
All these life changes are just all quite wierd and new at this point. ^^;
Its just that it used to be a open and relaxed relationship, Im weirded out by it suddenly being filled with obligations and restraints. ^^;
I seriously don't know how people manage in monogamous relationships, but at the same time i know ill get jealous if i have to share him...
All these life changes are just all quite wierd and new at this point. ^^;
I'd say you becoming a "milf" would definitely not hurt the more ...adult...aspects of your and Coral's relationship. And if you got this far with your art, having a baby in your life won't be that big a challenge to it. Might even try making short little comics about your life together to bring the two aspects of life together; never know, might be popular.
LAWL-LAWL-LAWL-LAWL-LAWL-LAWL MILF~ I dont know if i can pull that off >w<.
Though that whole sexy naked apron cake baking thing is totally hot... *decides to get an apron collection.*
Do you think comics about my life would interest people? I didn't think slice of life was that popular with people~ ^^;
Though that whole sexy naked apron cake baking thing is totally hot... *decides to get an apron collection.*
Do you think comics about my life would interest people? I didn't think slice of life was that popular with people~ ^^;
You don't know, huh? Is Coral staring at you like a "wolf" from time to time?
Do be careful with that hadaka apron thing, it is a potent weapon in a woman's arsenal
Slice-of-life anime? Hit or miss. Comics, pretty interesting, depending on the creator; and considering the Puppy Love series, I'd say you're golden.
Do be careful with that hadaka apron thing, it is a potent weapon in a woman's arsenal
Slice-of-life anime? Hit or miss. Comics, pretty interesting, depending on the creator; and considering the Puppy Love series, I'd say you're golden.
Thank you both of you! You letters have been a god send, and you are just the sweetest person to talk to! I bet you make 
necro_mechant Into a seriously lucky man! XD *hugs*
necro_mechant Into a seriously lucky man! XD *hugs* 
D'awwwh! *huuuugs!* It will be okay! From what I know, full time moms actually do have lots of,time for friends and family and snuggles!! There ish prolly a book you can read about it somewhere, like that book "what to expect when you are expecting" and "what to expect after you are expecting!!" Also YYYAAYYY A PARRRRTTTYY!!!! *squeeeels and twirls and throws confetti and balloons everywhere and huuuuugs* HAPPY ANNIVERSARY!!!
Friendship, with very nice benefits, apparently. Honestly, you're probably a low maintenance gal. Go to the clerks office, fill out paperwork, have reverend do the rites, step outside and have friends and family cheering you two on as they throw rice in the air over you two.
I'm not a father or anything myself, BUUUUUUUUT one of my older friends claims that say, like, family DND night and stuff was a good thing later in life.... not that applies to you now, but that was the only thing I could think of, nai-chan. Sorry to not be more help~!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dU4R_DIab6A Have a bit of music to ramp yourself up~!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dU4R_DIab6A Have a bit of music to ramp yourself up~!
Lawl, Coral and i have been friends for like... 12 years, and we've been snugly close for 9 of those. I was always curious why women would friend-zone those who they got along with best. Though break ups can ruin really good friendships, its more brutal breakups and dishonesty that ruins friendships... I guess i just try to avoid that side of things... Not to mention that having an open relationship made it awful hard to cheat.
A wedding should be done only with full consultation and consent from those getting married. And I think it wise to let the Bride and Groom have the last say on anything. Least, that's my opinion on it. =P When I get married someday, it may end up more complicated.
In any case, I wish you both luck, and hope that God will bless your union and give you many happy years together.
And remember... marriage is really hard... but it's worth it.
In any case, I wish you both luck, and hope that God will bless your union and give you many happy years together.
And remember... marriage is really hard... but it's worth it.
oh WOW
I wish I could be there for the wedding somehow *w*
this whole wedding stuff is cool on it´s own way, but to have this SPECIAL wedding your own way sounds more fun somehow xD
even when you ahve some benefits with a real wedding, ok in germany that´s the case, I dunno about your place :3
btw. is it just me or does have Coral all DAAWWW anime eyes in here???? @u@
I wish I could be there for the wedding somehow *w*
this whole wedding stuff is cool on it´s own way, but to have this SPECIAL wedding your own way sounds more fun somehow xD
even when you ahve some benefits with a real wedding, ok in germany that´s the case, I dunno about your place :3
btw. is it just me or does have Coral all DAAWWW anime eyes in here???? @u@
There are actually some legal things we could benefit from if we get our papers sorted out. I think that we might do the papers as well since there is a baby in the equation. Both my parents and corals are still married after more than 20 years, so we can look to them a to how to raise a baby and make conjoined living work. ^^;
and yeah >w< I didnt realise how 'kira-kira-kawai' corals eyes were until after i posted it XD.
and yeah >w< I didnt realise how 'kira-kira-kawai' corals eyes were until after i posted it XD.
yeah, wedding isn´t wedding, even we have 2 sorts of weddings, the traditional church one and a formal one where you will be married on papers aswell :3
maybe you can do that formal one (it´s not so big as a traditional one but still ok) and do your own Kassada wedding ceremony to celebrate it your way ^^
maybe you can do that formal one (it´s not so big as a traditional one but still ok) and do your own Kassada wedding ceremony to celebrate it your way ^^
oh god, that would be an AWESOME wedding family picture xDDDD
and if they don´t want to then you can at least do draw a kemonomimi family picture >w<
btw. have you watched by any chance my lil animation I linked ya on your main page?
it´s somewhat importand for me to get some feedback, I have already plenty of ideas of how it will be ^^
please take a look whenever you have like 5 minutes to spare >w<
and if they don´t want to then you can at least do draw a kemonomimi family picture >w<
btw. have you watched by any chance my lil animation I linked ya on your main page?
it´s somewhat importand for me to get some feedback, I have already plenty of ideas of how it will be ^^
please take a look whenever you have like 5 minutes to spare >w<
I haven't read everybody's comments about this but have you thought about a festival style wedding?
My mums getting married at a local festival the night before it opens to general public and its going to be a gathering with a marquee all decorated and very casual as far as weddings go!
It's also going to be a very shabby chic style so theres not that pressure of being in a church and the whole solemn readings and things. Its going to be something bright and easy for everyone with a focus on them as a couple rather than reading out a 1/4 of the bible!
There can still be traditional vows, but if you like come this june i can link you to some of the pictures to see what its like. It doesn't need to be at a festival either (free entertainment though mwahaha) but renting out a nice garden or even just using a family's garden if its really nice!
Because its all local though there's no huge crowds or violence really (its all very laid back here) And often people can camp the night before for good spots and for things like marriage ceremonies etc x
As for being a mummy, it all gets easier with time. I don't have any of my own but i have 8 half siblings, i've seen every possible thing that can happen in pregnancy. Just try to take it each day as it comes and if the morning sickness is really violent you can get tablets you stick under your upper lip that stop you puking up. SOmetimes its just the whole having to be chained to the toilet that can really dampen an otherwise good day x
My mums getting married at a local festival the night before it opens to general public and its going to be a gathering with a marquee all decorated and very casual as far as weddings go!
It's also going to be a very shabby chic style so theres not that pressure of being in a church and the whole solemn readings and things. Its going to be something bright and easy for everyone with a focus on them as a couple rather than reading out a 1/4 of the bible!
There can still be traditional vows, but if you like come this june i can link you to some of the pictures to see what its like. It doesn't need to be at a festival either (free entertainment though mwahaha) but renting out a nice garden or even just using a family's garden if its really nice!
Because its all local though there's no huge crowds or violence really (its all very laid back here) And often people can camp the night before for good spots and for things like marriage ceremonies etc x
As for being a mummy, it all gets easier with time. I don't have any of my own but i have 8 half siblings, i've seen every possible thing that can happen in pregnancy. Just try to take it each day as it comes and if the morning sickness is really violent you can get tablets you stick under your upper lip that stop you puking up. SOmetimes its just the whole having to be chained to the toilet that can really dampen an otherwise good day x
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