do a little of each?

It's what I've been doing. It's just rough xD

I bet... <huggles>

Gotta do what you gotta do. I been thinking of dropping the babyfur thing lately as well.

It's not that easy to just... Get rid of. Infantilism is nearly impossible to quit. The longest I've lasted... Was a year. And then sadly went straight back. I wish I could quit it. I just wanna be normal D:

I've had my lapses, and I don't have the money for padding so I am not tempted by supply. lol But I definitely know what you mean. I don't really care about being normal, I am just loosing a bit of interest. So much babyfur drama D:

I get your feelings

IIIIIIIIII TOLD YOU! Try being in the lifestyle too. That is hard to get out of it.

Faolan, please don't act so taunting o.o it's really quite... not nice. I realize 'you were right', no need to act childish.

That would seem like a difficult choice. have you ever tried to mix the two together somehow?

Not sure how it's possible really o.o

I think balancing it -could- be what you mean, but not sure. Which I do, but it's still difficult seeing as I'm trying to be normal D:

Well, have you ever considered wearing the clothes that are more "you" underneath the "normal" clothes? like have you considered possibly wearing a diaper underneath your skirts or pants? I really don't know what all you like to wear and do to be yourself, so I don't really have too many ideas, but I know there are plenty of ways to express yourself but maintain normality at the same time

Yea, I have done that. BUT, it isn't so much that as it is a psychological issue. I balance things like that extremely discreetly, but at the same time, I seem to be at war with myself inside my head. I'm quite sure it will fix itself in time. And it isn't like I'd ever stop drawing it :) Just need to decide which route to take.

It is indeed a psychological issue. Having been there done that, many times, and heck, I have a Master's in Psychology, and I still battle the two. The best advice I can give, is to experiment and see what works for you. Maybe normal adult by day, cub by night. Either way, it is your choice, and yours alone. Don't let anyone else make you feel bad about being who YOU are.

Finding tranquility between the two can be quite difficult. But don't ever feel bad about who you are inside. You want to be a baby for a reason, you obviously get some fulfillment out of it. Just be careful not to go cold turkey, that can be really hard.. I wish you the best. If you ever wanna talk, float me a note. I've been where you are, and still sometimes feel trapped between the two.

No one has ever made me feel bad for being me. I just feel like I'm doing something wrong is all. It's merely a personal battle. It's such a confusing thing D:

I will be experimenting with it to see what works, and thank you so much sharaye -hugs-

Ahh I see. Well just give it time and do things at your own pace. Don't rush making your decision or trying to find a way to make it work, just take your time. And listening to others may be helpful, but just remember you are the only one who really knows what you want. Good luck!

I guess it's up to everyone to find their own balance point. I do what makes me comfortable in my own home, but sometimes there are guests and I have to be a bit more normal for them, and of course there's work.