I think he ought to do a vore thing on that damn cupid!

I think a world without love would be much scarier than this is ;3

also, I don't draw vore. but that's more personal preference than anything.

Cupid is scapegoat.

well when you're purpose for existing is making people fall in love, you gotta take the rap for all the love that can't or doesn't pan out.

That's why I hate this god-damned fandom. This shit gets old really fast.

It's nothing but a bunch of whores out there.

*snickers* who's a whore? me? or the furs who get into long distance relationships before meeting in person? and why are you still a part of this fandom if you detest it so? I never understand people like that.

its like being catholic and hating Christians, and still going to church.

I have many friends in the fandom. It's like a parasite, you know. You hate the fucker, but it's still living with you for a long period of time.

The long distance crap seems like a joke to me. One of my friends where I used to live got into a few LDRs and I'd end up havign to comfort him after they broke shit off....even though they never even met.

Know what I mean?

well online makes it much easier to find people with like thinking. my coworker met his wife online. problem is without the in person part of it, you never know if it can/will work or not. and assuming it will is naive.

there's an unprecedented level of naivety within this fandom.

as for your involvement in the fandom. that's completely up to you ;3 even if all my friends were like say, white nerdy guys wouldn;t nesecarily make me a nerd..... oh wait. they are. and I am.

okay bad example.

*nods his head* Boy do I feel some with this pic... Someone you think you could definitely be with, but they're in a different country and such...

it's usually the kind of thing where I'd want to meet them in person and spend a good amount of time with. of course, that in and of itself means I gotta like them a lot to do it. a couple times, after meeting the person in reality, feelings sorta peeter off. but a couple haven't. those are the ones who live the furthest away :C

Never happened to me, thankfully. I suggest bandaging that ear... On the long run it might hurt less than engaging in a long distance relationship. ._.

bandaging that.... oh shit OW! ::continues clutching the profusely bleeding ear in agony::

I know the feeling, save without him already having a mate.

well that really is the kicker. I can deal with long distance (to a degree) like "oh we can eventually meet up, and see if it can pan out" but when they already have a mate and aren't polyamorous, it's over before it ever can start.

Know it all too well

Okay... please don't take offense, but...

I know a guy (Person A) who, after only a few days of talking to me, said he thought he loved me. He only THEN found out I lived across the planet, had a girlfriend, and was underage... seventeen, by the way. My other friend (Person B), also male, was in a polygamous relationship with one girlfriend and one boyfriend. For reasons I won't share, they broke it off.

Not even a week had passed since this breakup, and both Person A and B are now an item.

Personally, I think most "mates" over the internet are just fleeting attractions taken out of context, or just your desire to YIFF taking hold and looking for a direct outlet in the form of a mate.

why would I take offence to that? ;P

as I stated in one of my other replies, there's an unprecedented level of naivety within this fandom.

I like to think I'm not TOO naive and have a little more knowledge about relationships. when I use mate I mean in person boyfrien who I see on a regular basis and/or live with.

and FYI I have never called a significant other a mate.

Well, glad to know someone agrees.

Thank you, people, for not flaming me!

actually, I'd probably only use the term "mate" if my boyfriend/significant other was also into furry. as yet, neither of my actual boyfriends were furries. and I;ve yet to enter into a serious relationship with anyone else.

*sigh* so lonely *emo tear* jk ;3