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Dear L - Size Difference
Dear Anonymous L,
I'm writing this in secret. I don't want my boyfriend to know that I'm writing to you. Him and I are having trouble in the bedroom. When I say that, I of coarse mean sex. We can both perform. There is no trouble in that. The issue is the difference in our body weight and size.
I'm a Ursidae species. Or to put it, a bear. We bears are rather big: females being about 6 foot average in height. In weight, we near an average of 200 pounds. I'm sorry if I seem to be going into detail here, but I want to give you a clear understand about where Im going with this. I'm big and fat. I'm a bear. It's all natural. My boyfriend is a Mustelidae, a ferret. He is a very skinny and short guy - 4.5 foot and near 150 pound. Compared to strength, I could bench press him and he can't even lift me up from the ground. He tried to gain muscle, but due to his species background, he doesn't seem to gain any. I never thought that our size difference would hinder us in such an intimate area. We have been going out for a year and our relationship continues to grow. He is into big girls like me and I'm into skinny guys like him. We are a perfect fit in that department. But when it comes to exploring sexual positions, thats where things get complicated.
We bought a Karma Sutra book a few days ago to spice up activities in the bedroom. But the first time we tried it, it was a disaster. Most to almost all the poses in that book are physically impossible for us due to it meant for the skinny and thin. He can't lift me up and I'm not that flexible like he is. Last time we tried something complicated, I injured his back. All we could do is "cowgirl" and "doggy style". We want to do more but whenever we did, one of us gets hurt, mostly my poor ferret.
Our passion turned to depression. It got to the point where we remained clothed and our intimacy went down. I started to feel rather fat despite my species background. My boyfriend would always correct me saying that Im NOT fat. He is a dear but it doesn't really change on what I feel inside. We now just look at images in the book together, trying to find ways to get around some areas. Now and then, we tried and it always comes up as the same: him getting hurt. He got frustrated and threw the book away, blaming himself that he wasn't as strong as me.
Anonymous L, we need some help. I don't know what to do now. Even are same old positions are not spicy enough and we go through some complications. We tried way around some positions and even making up some of our own, but that doesn't work too well. Its the difference in out body weight that is causing the trouble. We love each other and we don't want that special spark to fade. What can I do? What can we do? Do you know any sex books that would help us around the size difference issue? Why do all sex books meant for people who are very skinny instead of chubby or overweight?
Please send any feedback or help that you can offer. Thank you for your time.
- Natasha
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I dunno. I would think there'd be a few positions laying down that they could try. If it's really causing problems, I'd tell a couple like this to get some professional help. If they can't both be satisfied in the bedroom, that's gonna cause a lot of friction in the relationship. Might even break it if they don't solve things, and fast.
You'd think someone would've written a more comprehensive guide to this...
You'd think someone would've written a more comprehensive guide to this...
ok I know just wat ur going throw my ex boyfriend was a heavy set guy, I'm a skinny male.
poses we found to work an had just a tone of fun with we got off kama-citra http://e621.net/post/show/86935/69-.....etration-apron. (lay of the land) cam be difficult with a female bear such as ur self. but pop ur tushi up an ur good. (sloppy-sideways) is easy an oober fun love. (rumpty-bumpty) again pop ur tush an ur golden. (assume the position) unless he's packen some heat strictly anal not sure how u feel about that. an yes I have done all of them with my ex-girlfriend. an she was a panda. by no means a small panda. I'm not sure how much leg strength ur ferret has but my fave to do with Cindy (panda) was the (wood'n chair.) now u can help him out with that one by tying a to the legs of the bed or other sturdy object. I do not condone being on the bed for that one. being on the floor for that one is best. I hope this help u out sweetheart. lots of love Syko.
p.s. love the pic
poses we found to work an had just a tone of fun with we got off kama-citra http://e621.net/post/show/86935/69-.....etration-apron. (lay of the land) cam be difficult with a female bear such as ur self. but pop ur tushi up an ur good. (sloppy-sideways) is easy an oober fun love. (rumpty-bumpty) again pop ur tush an ur golden. (assume the position) unless he's packen some heat strictly anal not sure how u feel about that. an yes I have done all of them with my ex-girlfriend. an she was a panda. by no means a small panda. I'm not sure how much leg strength ur ferret has but my fave to do with Cindy (panda) was the (wood'n chair.) now u can help him out with that one by tying a to the legs of the bed or other sturdy object. I do not condone being on the bed for that one. being on the floor for that one is best. I hope this help u out sweetheart. lots of love Syko.
p.s. love the pic
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