One of the few times where Lizzie puts down Ruxie - dressing time.
She seems to be a bit embarrassed though. it seems this dress had gotten a little smaller on her than she would have liked. But it looks so cute that way!
She seems to be a bit embarrassed though. it seems this dress had gotten a little smaller on her than she would have liked. But it looks so cute that way!
Category Artwork (Digital) / Baby fur
Species Skunk
Size 1184 x 1280px
File Size 131.5 kB
The eyes tell the story so well. It's kind of like, "No? How can this be? This isn't right at all. I feel so exposed!"
I imagine Lizzie is the type who tries to keep herself as guarded as possible against those things that make her feel uncomfortable. Not having Ruxie and her dress not fitting likely are combining to seriously raise her anxiety levels. The question is, will she give up the dress? Or will she just be even more bashful when she is out-and-about to not feel so "vulnerable"?
An overall cute drawing. Loving the progression of the characters.
I imagine Lizzie is the type who tries to keep herself as guarded as possible against those things that make her feel uncomfortable. Not having Ruxie and her dress not fitting likely are combining to seriously raise her anxiety levels. The question is, will she give up the dress? Or will she just be even more bashful when she is out-and-about to not feel so "vulnerable"?
An overall cute drawing. Loving the progression of the characters.
You know, I have actually been putting a lot of thought in the aspect of "Control".
You put it very well here in how, as a kid, you really don't have any control over a lot of things. They are largely delegated and/or done for you by your parents. One is to gradually gain independence as (s)he grows older to where (s)he gains control and is able to do many of the things that, as a kid, they could not.
This brings me to the point of how, when you have a disability, you lose "Control". Especially when your disability comes complete with a degenerative condition. This means you lose more-and-more control of what you can do yourself. It is like being regressed, but not in a fun way. You have to rely more heavily on others and, often, those others aren't very kind to want to help you, as an adult, through challenges that are beyond your control and not of your choice.
This aspect could be part of what makes one want to be a Babyfur / Diaperfur / Kidfur, etc. If one is to lose control, why not lose it in a way where you know you are loved in that state? Where the loss in control doesn't mean you only gain struggles instead of supportive hugs and words of understanding?
As I have continued to go blind, I have realized how many things continue to slip through my fingers. My recent stint with having to see how Microsoft has made its latest technology less friendly for my accessibility is a prime example of feeling a loss of "Control". I have to struggle more now to get stuff done that I didn't have to before life through that wrench my way. And, as you may agree, it isn't that I'm not smart. Rather, it's how the situation and a bodily ailment that is out of my control is making me lose more control over the world around me.
I feel wanting to feel little again is a great way for the mind to take that loss of "Control" and feel like you are giving it to someone, even if pretend, who will make you feel happy and appreciated. Being in a place where ignorance is truly bliss, if only for a bit.
You put it very well here in how, as a kid, you really don't have any control over a lot of things. They are largely delegated and/or done for you by your parents. One is to gradually gain independence as (s)he grows older to where (s)he gains control and is able to do many of the things that, as a kid, they could not.
This brings me to the point of how, when you have a disability, you lose "Control". Especially when your disability comes complete with a degenerative condition. This means you lose more-and-more control of what you can do yourself. It is like being regressed, but not in a fun way. You have to rely more heavily on others and, often, those others aren't very kind to want to help you, as an adult, through challenges that are beyond your control and not of your choice.
This aspect could be part of what makes one want to be a Babyfur / Diaperfur / Kidfur, etc. If one is to lose control, why not lose it in a way where you know you are loved in that state? Where the loss in control doesn't mean you only gain struggles instead of supportive hugs and words of understanding?
As I have continued to go blind, I have realized how many things continue to slip through my fingers. My recent stint with having to see how Microsoft has made its latest technology less friendly for my accessibility is a prime example of feeling a loss of "Control". I have to struggle more now to get stuff done that I didn't have to before life through that wrench my way. And, as you may agree, it isn't that I'm not smart. Rather, it's how the situation and a bodily ailment that is out of my control is making me lose more control over the world around me.
I feel wanting to feel little again is a great way for the mind to take that loss of "Control" and feel like you are giving it to someone, even if pretend, who will make you feel happy and appreciated. Being in a place where ignorance is truly bliss, if only for a bit.
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