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ok this is not something i would normally post
but
it's very important to me.
my whole life i have struggled with my weight. ive never been huge, but ive always felt too big. too round. too chubby. not slim and tall and slender like how i was supposed to be. i had a muffin top, my thighs touched, i had flabby arms and a bulging tummy. i wanted to be sexy and desirable and ive just always felt like i was 10 or 20 pounds away from being everything that i wanted.
ive dieted and starved and binged and cried and hated myself because of my weight over a span of years. i have wished from the bottom of my heart that i could stop thinking about food, stop loving food, stop eating food...
but i can't. i love it. i love new recipes and flavours and textures and just everything about food. i love to eat and experiment and COOK.
im just so tired of dieting. for the past many years every morsel ive put in my mouth has instantly transformed into calories, proteins, fats, carbs and guilt. but i want to break the cycle. i want to stop obsessing over the scale and how many inches i've lost. i want to stop feeling like i need to be toned in order to impress people and have them take me seriously. i want to stop apologizing for my body.
I LOVE FOOD. I LOVE TO EAT. it might not look fat to some of you, but for a long time, that's all i could see. but i'm healthy, and im ready to start embracing my curves. i've always drawn kaity as being pretty thin, i think, and i probably still will, but i just wanted to take a moment and acknowledge that my body is beautiful, and so is yours. im not here to look "desirable". my body is what keeps me alive and what protects me. there's nothing ugly about that.
but
it's very important to me.
my whole life i have struggled with my weight. ive never been huge, but ive always felt too big. too round. too chubby. not slim and tall and slender like how i was supposed to be. i had a muffin top, my thighs touched, i had flabby arms and a bulging tummy. i wanted to be sexy and desirable and ive just always felt like i was 10 or 20 pounds away from being everything that i wanted.
ive dieted and starved and binged and cried and hated myself because of my weight over a span of years. i have wished from the bottom of my heart that i could stop thinking about food, stop loving food, stop eating food...
but i can't. i love it. i love new recipes and flavours and textures and just everything about food. i love to eat and experiment and COOK.
im just so tired of dieting. for the past many years every morsel ive put in my mouth has instantly transformed into calories, proteins, fats, carbs and guilt. but i want to break the cycle. i want to stop obsessing over the scale and how many inches i've lost. i want to stop feeling like i need to be toned in order to impress people and have them take me seriously. i want to stop apologizing for my body.
I LOVE FOOD. I LOVE TO EAT. it might not look fat to some of you, but for a long time, that's all i could see. but i'm healthy, and im ready to start embracing my curves. i've always drawn kaity as being pretty thin, i think, and i probably still will, but i just wanted to take a moment and acknowledge that my body is beautiful, and so is yours. im not here to look "desirable". my body is what keeps me alive and what protects me. there's nothing ugly about that.
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I have also always struggled with how I look at myself, so seeing someone else finally say enough is enough and I'm beautiful just the way I am... Is very inspiring. I know a lot of comments will be oriented around that general basis, but for me personally, this is uplifting. I'm glad you're able to accept who you are. It's such a wondrous thing. ♥
Good for you! Some people just have a natural body weight and shape that nothing short of starvation will change. It's just part of the human experience. What upsets me is how the media imposes standards of body image on men and women alike, making all of us feel ugly and inadequate. If your body shape is anything like the drawing here, I say that you have absolutely nothing to worry about.
I've had this problem.
I would go into depresison because of it, but after hearing my mother say it to my dog , I, myself, went along with it...
girl
BE FAT AND HAPPY
There are places that look up to curves, muffins tops and just chubbiness because THEY HAVE MORE TO TOUCH AND THAT MAKES THEM HAPPY.
Fuck being jealous of the people with figures..I look at them and say " I pray to GOD you don't end up in a fight or else you'll be shattered"
I just saw one ID on here to where this guy is ripped and I got jealous for a quick second then thought Oh well he's a dude and whatnot so whatever .
I'm proud of your chica now keep it up!
I would go into depresison because of it, but after hearing my mother say it to my dog , I, myself, went along with it...
girl
BE FAT AND HAPPY
There are places that look up to curves, muffins tops and just chubbiness because THEY HAVE MORE TO TOUCH AND THAT MAKES THEM HAPPY.
Fuck being jealous of the people with figures..I look at them and say " I pray to GOD you don't end up in a fight or else you'll be shattered"
I just saw one ID on here to where this guy is ripped and I got jealous for a quick second then thought Oh well he's a dude and whatnot so whatever .
I'm proud of your chica now keep it up!
i know some guys like girls with some meat and everything, but idk part of me has always equated weight with being successful. it's fucked up. i honestly feel like i can't be successful until i lose the weight.
but god i just want to stop caring about all of that honestly. idc if guys don't find me attractive. im going to keep doing whatever the hell im doing and if guys/my boyfriend tells me that i need to lose weight i'll tell them to go straight to hell
but god i just want to stop caring about all of that honestly. idc if guys don't find me attractive. im going to keep doing whatever the hell im doing and if guys/my boyfriend tells me that i need to lose weight i'll tell them to go straight to hell
GOOD GIRL I'M SO PROUD OF YOU BUDDY ;U;
They can not be dicks while going straight to hell. I was the same way though and sadly it is true in businesses . They will most likely choose someone with a great figure over someone thats the opposite and you know what? That person may be dumb as a box of rocks while the one that didn't get the job , is smart as hell and could have got the business more money.
It all depends on everything, but I understand your point and I will follow you all the way.
They can not be dicks while going straight to hell. I was the same way though and sadly it is true in businesses . They will most likely choose someone with a great figure over someone thats the opposite and you know what? That person may be dumb as a box of rocks while the one that didn't get the job , is smart as hell and could have got the business more money.
It all depends on everything, but I understand your point and I will follow you all the way.
Plump is healthy! Stick thin isn't what a healthy woman should look like, we're all meant to have curves. Hell, look at me. I'm morbidly obese but I love my body. I AM losing weight to get healthy, but I have quite a fan following of my modeling pictures already. You can be desirable at any weight honey, it's about how you carry it.
i can understand struggling with seeing your body in a positive light (all throughout middle school and early highschool I panicked because I was short and small-boobed and not necessarily hourglass shaped, thankfully I've embraced my body since then), but I do hope that you someday find complete adoration of your body, because no matter what size or shape you are, you're beautiful.
this is an awesome positive image, and I love the fact that you love food. Food is awesome and an amazing outlet of creativity! Embrace your love of food and your love of your body and turn it into something awesome!
I've always been jealous of people who can cook, so use that gift to the fullest! woo!
this is an awesome positive image, and I love the fact that you love food. Food is awesome and an amazing outlet of creativity! Embrace your love of food and your love of your body and turn it into something awesome!
I've always been jealous of people who can cook, so use that gift to the fullest! woo!
Love love love this !
:D <3
When I was younger, I was a VERY chubby kid. I was teased and bullied alot for my weight and It scarred me for life. even when I did start to lose weight due to growing up and thinning out, I was PARANOID about being fat. I've grown into my natural shape now. I'm Pear shaped too, and there's something so beautiful to me about being who I am and being different than a barbie doll hourglass shaped stick. I'm human and healthy, all of my bits are properly formed, I've got two feet, healthy skin, and good hearing! <3 It took me a long time, but after many years I have come to love who I am, because I'm me, and I wouldn't want to be anyone else :)
:D <3
When I was younger, I was a VERY chubby kid. I was teased and bullied alot for my weight and It scarred me for life. even when I did start to lose weight due to growing up and thinning out, I was PARANOID about being fat. I've grown into my natural shape now. I'm Pear shaped too, and there's something so beautiful to me about being who I am and being different than a barbie doll hourglass shaped stick. I'm human and healthy, all of my bits are properly formed, I've got two feet, healthy skin, and good hearing! <3 It took me a long time, but after many years I have come to love who I am, because I'm me, and I wouldn't want to be anyone else :)
I'm in exactly the same place as you are, by the looks of it we even have the same body shape too! Society puts out such an unrealistic "normal" body image for women yet the male equivalent is - by comparison - not at all 'expected.' When's the last time you saw a guy who was a perfectly chiselled rippling sheet of muscle? Yeah. Same goes for that picture perfect flat stomach and three-finger thigh gap. Sure those body types are attainable but it takes a ridiculous amount of work and most definitely shouldn't be touted as being the norm. I'm healthy so shouldn't let the fact that my thighs have pudge bother me. :) Judging by your pics you are stunning and have every right to be happy in your body!
Now I'm gonna go bake some cookies and eat them because cookies are great. <3
Now I'm gonna go bake some cookies and eat them because cookies are great. <3
ugh i know what you mean. personally i'm way more attracted to guys that have a little bit of a tummy and aren't covered in muscle. "Sure those body types are attainable but it takes a ridiculous amount of work and most definitely shouldn't be touted as being the norm" i really like this. thank you
also omg yum
also omg yum
noo, don't even be jealous dear that defeats the purpose of this post! love what you have. our bodies will never be 'good enough' for us, we will always envy someone else, so honestly accepting our own bodies and loving them as they are is probably the most productive thing i can think of
You realize you're commenting on an image that mentions how the artist doesn't want to have to feel obligated to feel attractive to anyone anymore with that, right?
time and place are kind of a thing you're supposed to think about before making comments like that.
what you are attracted to is completely irrelevant.
time and place are kind of a thing you're supposed to think about before making comments like that.
what you are attracted to is completely irrelevant.
pretty pictuer, and such a deep thing to talk about.... wish i could understand just how you feel.
but i hope you can and will become comfortable with your body! even though, yeah thin ladies are pretty, but really it gets old and stale and stops being something i want to see. yeah they still are/can be cute, but that's realy it, unless somethng else about them is good.
people who have like bodies with things on them, and they are comfortable with how they are and what or how they look, are even more attractive. someon who just lets their body be theirs and noone elses.... maybe letting the world know who you are or something?... whatever i mean, but it's people like that who are someone you would want to hang out with.
so i'm awful when it comes to things like this, and whatever you chose after this picture is up to you, but i guess only true friends care about you being happy, no matter what or how that happens?
but yes, food is so good, and everyone should love it!
but i hope you can and will become comfortable with your body! even though, yeah thin ladies are pretty, but really it gets old and stale and stops being something i want to see. yeah they still are/can be cute, but that's realy it, unless somethng else about them is good.
people who have like bodies with things on them, and they are comfortable with how they are and what or how they look, are even more attractive. someon who just lets their body be theirs and noone elses.... maybe letting the world know who you are or something?... whatever i mean, but it's people like that who are someone you would want to hang out with.
so i'm awful when it comes to things like this, and whatever you chose after this picture is up to you, but i guess only true friends care about you being happy, no matter what or how that happens?
but yes, food is so good, and everyone should love it!
Having a good appetite is healthy!
Treating yourself to something extra now and then shouln't be a problem as long as you're well nurished with healthy food and have a good amount of exercise to keep your body happy.
The problem is that food that are mixed with suger/fat effect our reward system and can become obsessive if we go like every 10min to have a bite of something.(in fact, you won't find a natural mixture of suger and fat anywhere in nature, that is something humans have invented).
Being so obsessive with weight that you start starving yourself is just as bad! And I think society have a twisted idea of what should be normal. People forget that we move way, waay to less. Stop counting how many calories you eat! O_o just burn as much as you consume, then you can keep a good weight AND be healthy, AND you can friggin enjoy life more and eat delicious cake without crying inside.
Treating yourself to something extra now and then shouln't be a problem as long as you're well nurished with healthy food and have a good amount of exercise to keep your body happy.
The problem is that food that are mixed with suger/fat effect our reward system and can become obsessive if we go like every 10min to have a bite of something.(in fact, you won't find a natural mixture of suger and fat anywhere in nature, that is something humans have invented).
Being so obsessive with weight that you start starving yourself is just as bad! And I think society have a twisted idea of what should be normal. People forget that we move way, waay to less. Stop counting how many calories you eat! O_o just burn as much as you consume, then you can keep a good weight AND be healthy, AND you can friggin enjoy life more and eat delicious cake without crying inside.
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