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Before I get lots of wonderful yet unnessecary hugs and comforting posts I should point out that im utterly fine. im happily married and am filled up with love daily, however 9 years ago it was a different matter and that year valentines day felt particularly empty and bleak and well thats more paying hommage to back then and doesnt reflect my present state)
Valentines day huh, coming up, everyone being lovey dovey, its not exactly ideal for those going through breakups or people who have unrequited love, or even those desperaely waiting for true love to come along.
Sometimes things just dont work out, we give our hearts to people we believe will never hurt us only to have our souls crushed by the people we trust most.
Sometimes despite all our best intentions we just cant hold onto the love we want or wish we had.
Sometimes letting go is all we can do.
Valentines day huh, coming up, everyone being lovey dovey, its not exactly ideal for those going through breakups or people who have unrequited love, or even those desperaely waiting for true love to come along.
Sometimes things just dont work out, we give our hearts to people we believe will never hurt us only to have our souls crushed by the people we trust most.
Sometimes despite all our best intentions we just cant hold onto the love we want or wish we had.
Sometimes letting go is all we can do.
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Yeah I had an online boyfriend (he was Bi), but when he found a girl in real life he kinda broke up with me. I guess I can't really blame him-- he needed someone to be there for real to hold him and be there for him, and I was just too far away for that.
So while I'm crushed, I'm also happy for him. Even if it means I don't get to be happy, at least he is...and that is what I wanted from the start.
So while I'm crushed, I'm also happy for him. Even if it means I don't get to be happy, at least he is...and that is what I wanted from the start.
This pictures brilliant. Adorable, soft sad, yet sweet. Looks like a baby book cover. I'd read that book in an instant.
I love valentines day single or not it's a day that hurts alot but at the same time I can dress and decorate (when I was in a dorm room) the way I want and carry around my princess wand (basically a sparkly plush pink heart on a stick ) and much less people tease me for it then would normally its a day to express yourself for someone who loves pink and hearts as much as me and single or not you can still celebrate love since theres so many kinds of love, family, friends, even pets not just mates and love is a beautiful thing.
I love valentines day single or not it's a day that hurts alot but at the same time I can dress and decorate (when I was in a dorm room) the way I want and carry around my princess wand (basically a sparkly plush pink heart on a stick ) and much less people tease me for it then would normally its a day to express yourself for someone who loves pink and hearts as much as me and single or not you can still celebrate love since theres so many kinds of love, family, friends, even pets not just mates and love is a beautiful thing.
You will still recieve a hug Gemma. Deal with it. o_o
*hug* ._.;
But yeah, I know what you mean. My last mate and I wound up not working out and, looking back, I see a lot of reasons why we probably never would have. It hurts to lose them and I still miss them, but at the same time I know it's better for both of us this way. Its almost funny how many problems I ignored at the time that are so obvious now... but I guess thats how it is when you're in love with someone.
*hug* ._.;
But yeah, I know what you mean. My last mate and I wound up not working out and, looking back, I see a lot of reasons why we probably never would have. It hurts to lose them and I still miss them, but at the same time I know it's better for both of us this way. Its almost funny how many problems I ignored at the time that are so obvious now... but I guess thats how it is when you're in love with someone.
And then there's the few cases when you want to let go, but you can't, or you are restrained and broght back into darkness... until you set yourself free, and wander around for years alone, clueless, and not being able to deposit as much trust as you used to, being scarred forever.
But it is from those experiences, where you learn about how human bahaviour works, and also you learn about yourself, and you learn where to go, to be, and who talk to and try to establish contact with.
*hugs her* I'm glad to see things are great for you now, even tho i kinda feel bad for what happened 9 years ago.
But it is from those experiences, where you learn about how human bahaviour works, and also you learn about yourself, and you learn where to go, to be, and who talk to and try to establish contact with.
*hugs her* I'm glad to see things are great for you now, even tho i kinda feel bad for what happened 9 years ago.
It's hard. It's really hard to let go. A few people have quoted on this page something along the lines of:
"If you love something, let it go. If it comes back, love it with all your heart. If it doesn't, it just wasn't meant to be."
Oh, how true that is. And something that is sometimes found out the hard way. Sometimes I feel mad at my mate for letting me walk out that door so easily. But I think because of what happened, we are a lot closer than could have ever been and cherish each other so much more.
My balloon came back to me. A few people tried to pop it, but they failed. I will treasure what I have forever now.
"If you love something, let it go. If it comes back, love it with all your heart. If it doesn't, it just wasn't meant to be."
Oh, how true that is. And something that is sometimes found out the hard way. Sometimes I feel mad at my mate for letting me walk out that door so easily. But I think because of what happened, we are a lot closer than could have ever been and cherish each other so much more.
My balloon came back to me. A few people tried to pop it, but they failed. I will treasure what I have forever now.
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