
In all the excitement for the upcoming holiday, Ru decided to make a valentine!
Then he remembered that he doesn't actually have anyone to send it to and got all sad. Poor Ru.
Then he remembered that he doesn't actually have anyone to send it to and got all sad. Poor Ru.
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That's probably true. I've met a lot of really nice guys who's interests line up with mine in a lot of ways, that sound like they'd be a lot of fun!
Unfortunately, I'm straight, so all those nice guys don't help me that much. And I don't think there's a single interested lady out there. But at least all the guys make good friends. x3
Unfortunately, I'm straight, so all those nice guys don't help me that much. And I don't think there's a single interested lady out there. But at least all the guys make good friends. x3
"Mostly" because I have in fact seen you say you're straight. ;) And while some people who identify on one side or the other have some degree of flexibility, it's not exactly something to count on - even less so than anything else dealing with one's sex life.
Anyway, I'm rambling, so I'll shut up now.
Anyway, I'm rambling, so I'll shut up now.
Heh, that doesn't seem like a bad attitude to have. I just don't want to be one of Those Guys and take it for granted that I'd be a candidate. ^_^
But then, having confidence is one of those things I struggle with. Depression's a bitch that way. I try not to wallow in it, but it's still harder for me to put myself forward than many people seem to find it.
But then, having confidence is one of those things I struggle with. Depression's a bitch that way. I try not to wallow in it, but it's still harder for me to put myself forward than many people seem to find it.
Heh, yeah, I hear that. Feels like a very complicated game for which nobody's ever told me the rules. I like to think I can be reasonably articulate online - though I still do tend to be over-concerned about causing offense, to a fault - to the point that I usually find it hard to approach people, especially popular people. In person, though, even that dries up all too easily.
I think it's partly for that reason that a relatively low-key, FWB kinda deal is less intimidating to me than dating in the usual sense. Stakes are lower. It's not a safe world to be truly CASUAL about sex in, these days, but everything doesn't need to be high-pressure, plan-your-whole-life-out stuff.
I think it's partly for that reason that a relatively low-key, FWB kinda deal is less intimidating to me than dating in the usual sense. Stakes are lower. It's not a safe world to be truly CASUAL about sex in, these days, but everything doesn't need to be high-pressure, plan-your-whole-life-out stuff.
I seem to do alright on line, but being able to plan out every single move ahead of time is a pretty big advantage, heh. As you say, without the crutch of a keyboard, it's pretty hard to do much.
Personally I don't think I could do the FWB thing. I'm a little bit the jealous type, I think. Not so much that it'd cause big problems, but I suspect that, once I got attached to somebody in a big way, I wouldn't really be happy if they decided to start getting it on with somebody else. Personally I'm mostly looking for a submissive pet-type rather than a standard relationship, but who knows what'll end up happening, if anything. :P
Personally I don't think I could do the FWB thing. I'm a little bit the jealous type, I think. Not so much that it'd cause big problems, but I suspect that, once I got attached to somebody in a big way, I wouldn't really be happy if they decided to start getting it on with somebody else. Personally I'm mostly looking for a submissive pet-type rather than a standard relationship, but who knows what'll end up happening, if anything. :P
Unfortunate, that, at least as far as I'm concerned; serious D/s is most definitely not for me. Was thinking a more casual approach might work for something that isn't likely to be your primary focus anyway, but so it goes. :)
Ah, well. If, at some point in the future, something happens to pull you into the Dartmouth area, maybe meeting up for a $HOTBEVERAGE and furry-talk wouldn't be completely implausible, at least. ^_^
Ah, well. If, at some point in the future, something happens to pull you into the Dartmouth area, maybe meeting up for a $HOTBEVERAGE and furry-talk wouldn't be completely implausible, at least. ^_^
I'm not quite sure where I stand with casual stuff. I'm not against it, per se... I guess I just don't like the idea of my first time being a casual fling. Though that'll probably mean my first time is going to be a very very long way away as a result. As you said, 'so it goes'. x3
But hey, hanging out can be fun. I'm not in the city often, but if plans do pop up, we'll see what happens!
But hey, hanging out can be fun. I'm not in the city often, but if plans do pop up, we'll see what happens!
Hm, I guess I can understand that. Jealousy isn't something I'm very well acquainted with - envy, maybe, but the controlling aspects of jealousy where another person is concerned just don't sit well with me - so for me, a friend is not a bad basis for more; but I think I can understand how knowing someone is going on to get it on with somebody else could be uncomfortable.
Nah, that's just a sad pun.
St. Valentine day as it celebrated now is somewhat mix of different traditions, some of them linked to end of winter . The most popular story is that it is dedicated to Christian priest who was marrying loving people in spite of law forbidding that. He was executed for that, though being jailed he miraculously healed daughter of his jailer, leaving her note , subscribed "Your Valentine".
St. Valentine day as it celebrated now is somewhat mix of different traditions, some of them linked to end of winter . The most popular story is that it is dedicated to Christian priest who was marrying loving people in spite of law forbidding that. He was executed for that, though being jailed he miraculously healed daughter of his jailer, leaving her note , subscribed "Your Valentine".
Eh, it is what you make it. Materialistic people turn it into a materialistic holiday. If you're with someone you truly love it shouldn't be that much of a difference between any other day, but it's a set day that you can plan on doing something special on. Be it a candle lit dinner with wine, or taco bell and falling asleep on the couch. Or just really really hardcore sex.
Probably something along the lines of http://www.furaffinity.net/view/12729647/ perhaps? X3
That's actually really smart o.O
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I'm IN a relationship and V-Day sucks x.x
It's long distance once, so all it does is remind me is that the one person I actually want to be with is on an entirely different continent and my bed is exceptionally lonely >.<
Guess is pillow cuddling time again!
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I'm IN a relationship and V-Day sucks x.x
It's long distance once, so all it does is remind me is that the one person I actually want to be with is on an entirely different continent and my bed is exceptionally lonely >.<
Guess is pillow cuddling time again!
*offers up all the extra love he can muster... and then some* there's much love in the world... and take heart, this is my first Vday with someone in... well... basically 15 years, the other 14 of my life I wasn't old enough to appreciate it. Also, BS holiday, Mel_Fluff and I aren't doing crap cause neither of us really believe in it.
Yeah. I was just about to post a journal saying that the Valentine comic I was saving for the holiday isn't going to be finished in time. It's not like anyone cares but I try to pretend.
And see, the bittersweet bit of it is that I don't even have a Valentine yet I'm making a comic of him and I together. In bed. On Valentine's Day. Making sweet love and fucking each other's faces.
I actually used to write letters to him (even though he's imaginary), sign my name, and put them right next to me and pretend he's there. I lost the self-esteem to keep going, though I guess this comic could count as a love letter.
Happy Valentine's, Ru. Remember that you are loved.
And see, the bittersweet bit of it is that I don't even have a Valentine yet I'm making a comic of him and I together. In bed. On Valentine's Day. Making sweet love and fucking each other's faces.
I actually used to write letters to him (even though he's imaginary), sign my name, and put them right next to me and pretend he's there. I lost the self-esteem to keep going, though I guess this comic could count as a love letter.
Happy Valentine's, Ru. Remember that you are loved.
Heeeey cutie, don't take it like a reminder as I've been reading around...
Really xD It's a completely silly day. I mean.. all's a commercial thing, that's all xD
People should show their love for the family, friends, mate and whatever, each day.. not this single day when stores make profit about it.
I'm sure you could send that cute heart to any people you really care about, they don't really need to be your partner in order to receive something x3
Have a great day, like everyday x3
Really xD It's a completely silly day. I mean.. all's a commercial thing, that's all xD
People should show their love for the family, friends, mate and whatever, each day.. not this single day when stores make profit about it.
I'm sure you could send that cute heart to any people you really care about, they don't really need to be your partner in order to receive something x3
Have a great day, like everyday x3
http://www.furaffinity.net/view/12743431/
Kinda came up with this, slightly inspired by your drawing here, though it's a concept I've thought about trying to draw out, seeing this drawing of yours inspired me to actually do this. Though your drawing is a bit more positive than what I created.
Just figured I'd share this to you, since you gave me the inspiration I needed.
Kinda came up with this, slightly inspired by your drawing here, though it's a concept I've thought about trying to draw out, seeing this drawing of yours inspired me to actually do this. Though your drawing is a bit more positive than what I created.
Just figured I'd share this to you, since you gave me the inspiration I needed.
Funny you say that when the thought of you alone touched *scrolls up*...A LOT of people. Sure it's not what you meant and none of the folks here know you the way you want to be known, but I bet any one of these folks would feel loved if you sent them a valentine. Even cooler, I bet collectively your fans make one hell of a girl. Go for it, make the internet your lover. x3 But in all seriousness you're a good guy and I know there's someone out there for you.
If you'd heard the pitiful way I said your name when I saw this pic on my screen you...well I dunno what you'd do but you're loved. Now be gay and we'll see where this really goes. =P
*noms a ru*
If you'd heard the pitiful way I said your name when I saw this pic on my screen you...well I dunno what you'd do but you're loved. Now be gay and we'll see where this really goes. =P
*noms a ru*
Well, I suspect a lot of these folks are more touched by having been reminded of their own predicaments, as opposed to being particularly bothered by mine. But it was still nice for everybody to write all the kind stuff, that's for sure. :P
As for the gay thing, I would if I could! Unfortunately I just can't seem to get over how pretty the ladyfolk are. x3
As for the gay thing, I would if I could! Unfortunately I just can't seem to get over how pretty the ladyfolk are. x3
I know I'm late but fuck it, I honestly hate when people flaunt romance, so Valentines Day is like "Oh great this is gonna be annoying." I don't even really want a girlfriend (though a lil romance/flirtin or just a fuck buddy would be awesome, I'm not the type for contractual monogamy just cause it's always seemed based on jealousy and mutual possessive "ownership" with phrases like "I'm yours" and "you're mine." instead of two people just wanting to be with just each-other.) and it's just kinda annoying and really kinda corny that everyone picks a day to buy hallmark cards and chocolates they'll regret eating. We should at least have some strippers in the street showin some love or somethin :U
Happy early or late Valentine's Day, I'm sure you will find someone out there in time it is lots of fish out there and freeze and your ass Tigers kangaroos and Griffins and dogs and zebras and stuff will appreciate you for who you are some day I think I might be mistaken I don't know I'm trying to be positive but it's not looking so great well that's a mean thing to say I do not mean to sound like a jerk holy cow I should stop now take care good morning
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