
I think I'm at that point in my life where the smallest of complaints can easily piss me off. You give suggestions and have them thrown back in your face.People thinking the worst case scenarios straight off the bat without considering other options.
God help them when a tragedy actually happens..x.x
I don't know if I'm just being an asshole but urgh , I've been through a lot personally and I try my best to see the good in everything, which makes me feel happy in the long run, and then to be faced with that makes me feel horrible and brings me back to step one.
I hate feeling shitty because shitty people put me in that position , and they wonder why I don't talk to them :V who in their right mind would put themselves in that position????
prob gonna remove shortly because weh
God help them when a tragedy actually happens..x.x
I don't know if I'm just being an asshole but urgh , I've been through a lot personally and I try my best to see the good in everything, which makes me feel happy in the long run, and then to be faced with that makes me feel horrible and brings me back to step one.
I hate feeling shitty because shitty people put me in that position , and they wonder why I don't talk to them :V who in their right mind would put themselves in that position????
prob gonna remove shortly because weh
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Yea , I cut a few people like that out of my life, back when I myself was feeling down quite alot and I think it really helped me. It physically drains me trying to help people who just seem like they don't really want to be helped.I really don't want to cut more people out of my life but it seems like the best option :c
As harsh as it may sound, I don't think those people are worth your time. :c ("Your time" as a general statement).
Some may try and give a little back for your help, some will just take advatage of your patience. I did ignore such people in the past, it was hard, but I regret nothing, for it made a better man out of me. There's nothing wrong with that. ;)
Some may try and give a little back for your help, some will just take advatage of your patience. I did ignore such people in the past, it was hard, but I regret nothing, for it made a better man out of me. There's nothing wrong with that. ;)
Depression and bad vibes seek out and cause them on others. In order to keep my mood positive and happy I try my best to avoid people who act like there life sucks ( when it doesn't) and whine about depression ( when they have no idea what so every) because it annoys me to a point of snapping ( rare for me).
For close friends though I am more patient. If they whine, cool if they need sshould I'm there but when I offer advise they ignore or wave it off and then do the same thing again and whine the same I turn on my honest opinion button and stop walking in egg shells cause it's silly.
My two cents of blah! Your not the only one whose feeling it :3
For close friends though I am more patient. If they whine, cool if they need sshould I'm there but when I offer advise they ignore or wave it off and then do the same thing again and whine the same I turn on my honest opinion button and stop walking in egg shells cause it's silly.
My two cents of blah! Your not the only one whose feeling it :3
Good lord I just want to hug you , you've pretty much summed up how I feel about it, down to a tee
Man I feel pretty awesome now , knowing it's not just me ^^
I don't think people realise that I am investing time on them that I will never get back , it's also time that could be used elsewhere, like on my assignments and stoof :c
Man I feel pretty awesome now , knowing it's not just me ^^
I don't think people realise that I am investing time on them that I will never get back , it's also time that could be used elsewhere, like on my assignments and stoof :c
Sorry about the typos! I wrote this while I was on my phone cause I knew exactly what I wanted to say there and then x3
Some people don't realise how precious time is. Sure you can be there for friends but if they are just going to be down all the time or a common one for me only come to you when they want to whine and don't speak to you otherwise then there is no point wasting time on them. They clearly don't appreciate it if they use you as an whine dump. *hug* also I'm glad I was able to make sense X3 is nice knowing I'm not the only one too! :)
Some people don't realise how precious time is. Sure you can be there for friends but if they are just going to be down all the time or a common one for me only come to you when they want to whine and don't speak to you otherwise then there is no point wasting time on them. They clearly don't appreciate it if they use you as an whine dump. *hug* also I'm glad I was able to make sense X3 is nice knowing I'm not the only one too! :)
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I feel the same... just don't turn into me missy
hating every single slack jawed idiot
now I just switch off
I feel the same... just don't turn into me missy
hating every single slack jawed idiot
now I just switch off
Deno and I understand completely.
Her and I are the only ones who do chores and clean around the house ever and WE always get yelled at for being "Lazy Dirtbags" and get told WE have to work so her lazy ass brother "doesn't have to do everything"
Which is funny because I have to kick his ass off the computer for him to even go to school, let alone clean.
Sorry for the return rant x3 IZ GEWD FAWR U
Her and I are the only ones who do chores and clean around the house ever and WE always get yelled at for being "Lazy Dirtbags" and get told WE have to work so her lazy ass brother "doesn't have to do everything"
Which is funny because I have to kick his ass off the computer for him to even go to school, let alone clean.
Sorry for the return rant x3 IZ GEWD FAWR U
I understand! It is tough to be around someone who only complains and then never does anything to make themselves happier, their life better, or even just shut up and suck it up for awhile... Life is hard for everyone for different reasons. Even famous rich people get depressed and some of my more resilient, positive friends have gone through absolute hell and know that things could get much worse than a bad customer at work!
I complain about many things, but more as a hobby XD I enjoy mutual bitch sessions when the other person and I have some gripes in common, but it's more bonding and joking than just "LIFE IS HARD, COMPLAAAAIN..." and often we tend to end up making fun of ourselves for complaining. That is what I feel a more productive way to fuss, if I actually think enough on it to change things, or even just my mindset... Often you cannot suggest this to the big whiners because they get offended ><
I complain about many things, but more as a hobby XD I enjoy mutual bitch sessions when the other person and I have some gripes in common, but it's more bonding and joking than just "LIFE IS HARD, COMPLAAAAIN..." and often we tend to end up making fun of ourselves for complaining. That is what I feel a more productive way to fuss, if I actually think enough on it to change things, or even just my mindset... Often you cannot suggest this to the big whiners because they get offended ><
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