
This is a letter I've written and I'm going to leave it for my parents to read before I leave to Washington D.C. for a week. I want to give them time.
It's about me being gay, and it's kind of hard to let my Christian parents know, especially my mom. She has said some homophobic things. It really focuses on my faith more than my sexuality though, and I am hoping it can be effective.
Please let me know if you have any suggestions. I want this to be the best I can make it. I wrote this at like 2 in the morning, so I know there are errors.
It's about me being gay, and it's kind of hard to let my Christian parents know, especially my mom. She has said some homophobic things. It really focuses on my faith more than my sexuality though, and I am hoping it can be effective.
Please let me know if you have any suggestions. I want this to be the best I can make it. I wrote this at like 2 in the morning, so I know there are errors.
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It's... beautiful. I can't say that I want to change one single part of that, it's straight out of your heart about how you've been feeling for so long.
I'm brought to some tears, there is obvious pain here. If there is a god, he created you and wanted you to be who you are, there's nothing wrong with that, and I truly hope that your parents will see that it's not a choice, it is who you are.
I'm more than happy to lend you an ear if you want someone to talk to.
I wish you the best, and no matter what happens, keep in mind that you always have people here that accepts and loves you for who you are.
I'm brought to some tears, there is obvious pain here. If there is a god, he created you and wanted you to be who you are, there's nothing wrong with that, and I truly hope that your parents will see that it's not a choice, it is who you are.
I'm more than happy to lend you an ear if you want someone to talk to.
I wish you the best, and no matter what happens, keep in mind that you always have people here that accepts and loves you for who you are.
That was very brave of you Frost. Do not in any way think it was weak to write a letter. Giving them time to think about it while you are away will give them the chance to miss you and want to hug you very tight when you get back. Do not be troubled by what they may or may not say, I know too many that spent years in pain because of the words of others. Ultimately this is YOUR life and you have to be okay with yourself. You do not need anyone's permission to be happy. Poor is the man whose pleasures depend on the permission of another. Be true to yourself and let all other opinions be just that, no more no less. I came out very differently, I never was in the closet, as feelings for guys developed, that's what I told people I liked, if they could not have that, that's their loss because I knew how good of a friend I am to others. You will always be accepted by us, so you already can count on that. I wish you well on this new path, I am sure you will do fine.
This is... I have no words to describe how this is. I relate so much to this.
I have to tell you you are brave for doing this, brave for writing this and you are being so clear on how has been your life... I would like to have that kind of strength.
I wish you all the luck and I hope whatever results from this, it is for better. I hope your life turns to better after this.
I have only came out to 2 peoples and I feel more free when I am with them, but the single idea of my mom finding out or me telling her freaks me out to the point I can't breath.
I admire you for what you are doing. You are amazing.
I have to tell you you are brave for doing this, brave for writing this and you are being so clear on how has been your life... I would like to have that kind of strength.
I wish you all the luck and I hope whatever results from this, it is for better. I hope your life turns to better after this.
I have only came out to 2 peoples and I feel more free when I am with them, but the single idea of my mom finding out or me telling her freaks me out to the point I can't breath.
I admire you for what you are doing. You are amazing.
I agree, I was and still am physically quite strong so any options of violence against me would have been hilarious. I still think I should have used a little less force and threats and been more diplomatic. I still wound up having to pound a few neighborhood idiots into submission though. I think it's karma that I wound up submissive to my Alpha, he's the only one I ever submitted to.
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